Sonke sibheke phambili ehlobo, ngoba imizimba yethu ilangazelela ilanga, ukushisa nezithelo. Omunye uthanda ukushisa okuphezulu, kuyakujabulisa "ukugcoba" elangeni, futhi kukhona abantu abafihla ekushiseni, bazizwa bebi kakhulu ekushiseni. Ngeshwa, bobabili nalabo abanye basengozini yokuthola isifo sokushisa.
Ingozi kakhulu ilanga kubantwana, ngoba izidalwa zabo azihambisani nelanga, isikhumba sinomusa futhi sishisa kalula. Ngisho nesimo sezulu esishisa kakhulu , ukushaywa komntwana okushisa kungase kwenzeke, ukwelashwa kwalo kudinga ulwazi oluthile. Lapha sizokhuluma ngalokho okufanele sikwenze ngokushaywa komlilo.
Ukushaywa umoya okushisa yisimo esibi esibangelwa ukushisa okukhulu komuntu. Ngenxa yelanga nokushisa okuphezulu emzimbeni, izindlela zokudlulisa ukushisa nokushisa ziphulwa. Ngenxa yalokho, okuqukethwe ketshezi kuyancipha kakhulu, ukujuluka kuyaphela ukukhishwa, futhi umzimba awukwazi ukuzipholisa. Ukufudumala kwenzeka, izinga lokushisa liphakama. Lesi simo siyingozi kakhulu, ikakhulukazi ezinganeni. Ngendlela, kungaba nesifo sokushisa emntwaneni obelethayo, uma abazali abanakekelayo bewunqoba futhi bawutshise. Maye, uma ungahlinzeki usizo olufanelekayo ngesikhathi sokushaywa komlilo, umuntu angase afe.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukukwazi ukuqonda ngenkathi ukushaywa kwesibindi kwenzeka, ngoba lokhu udinga ukwazi izibonakaliso eziyinhloko, zifana nabantwana nabantu abadala. Ukuwohloka kwesimo somuntu ohlukunyezeka kuvamise kwenzeka ngesikhathi esisheshayo, yingakho ngesikhathi sokuphumula nabantwana ogwini, endaweni yokudlala, eduze komfula, kubalulekile ukuwaqapha ngokucophelela ngesikhathi sokusiza.
Izimpawu zokushaywa kwesibindi ezinganeni
- ubomvu obukhulu obusweni;
- Ukuphelelwa amandla, isizungu, ukulahlekelwa ulwazi;
- ubuhlungu obukhulu kakhulu;
- ukunxanxathela, ukuhlanza, isisu esithukuthele;
- ukuwohloka kokuzwa, ukumnyama emehlweni;
- ukungabi khona kwesithukuthuku;
- ukuxubha ngenxa yokudambisa umzimba.
Izenzo zakho ngokushaqeka okufudumele ezinganeni
Indlela yokuphatha ukushisa kwesifo? Okokuqala, ingane idinga ukuthuthelwa endaweni epholile, e-shady, engahlanjululwa. Uma kungenzeka, ungamcwilisa ingane ngokupholile (kodwa kungabikho emakhazeni) amanzi azofika kuye kwinkaba. Ungamane uhambise umzimba ngamanzi, ufafaze ebusweni.
Ngendlela, kuvamile ukusula wonke umzimba wengane ngotshwala, kuhlanjululwe ngesigamu ngamanzi. Abahlengikazi banamuhla abayincoma lokhu, kokubili ukushaqeka okushisayo, nokunyuka kokushisa, ngenxa yemfululela, isibonelo. Utshwala ludla isikhumba kakhulu, ludambisa ama-pores, okuholela ekubeni izinga lokushisa liyeke isikhathi esifushane, bese umzimba ushisa ngisho nangaphezulu.
Uma umntwana omele ekwazi, ungamnika amanzi amancane apholile. Uma kukhona ukwephulwa kokuphefumula, ungaletha uboya obombele i-ammonia kumbubu. Awukwazi ukuphatha lesi sigameko kalula, ngemuva kokuhlinzeka usizo lokuqala kumntwana okhungathekile, kufanele ucele i-ambulensi njalo.
Ukuqapha
Omama abaningi kakhulu abanandaba kakhulu, futhi ungaqiniseka ngalokhu uma ubona izingane eziningi ezincane ebhishi emini. Khumbula, izingane zingaba ilanga kuphela ekuseni nakusihlwa, ukushisa kusuka emahoreni angu-11 kuya kwangu-15 ngosuku kungavunyelwe, futhi kubantwana kanye nabantu abadala. Ukushisa kakhulu, ukushisa, okutholwa ehlobo ebuntwaneni, kungashintsha ekuguleni okukhulu esikhathini esizayo. Futhi ungavumeli ingane ukuba ihambe ngesimo sezulu esishisayo ngaphandle kwe-panama, imnike amanzi amaningi, iphumule ndawonye phakathi nosuku. Kuhlale kulula kakhulu ukuvimbela izinkinga (kufaka phakathi ukushaywa komlilo) kunokuziphatha kamuva!