Ukukhangisa, abezindaba, imibono yabantu abazungezile, izinkolelo zomuntu siqu kanye nemicabango ingasithinta nokuziphatha kwethu. Ubukhulu bethonya buxhomeke ekuphakamisweni komuntu. Ubani ojwayele ukuhlukunyezwa nokugwema ukucindezelwa okuvela ngaphandle - funda ngalokhu okuqhubekayo.
Ukuthula nokuqonda
Ukuphakanyiswa okuphakanyisiwe kuvelele kubantu abakhuthekayo nabangokomzwelo. Ukungakwazi ukucabanga nokucabangela ngokulinganayo, ubunzima ekuhloleni ngokwanele isimo futhi izinga eliphansi lokuqondisisa kwengqondo lenza umuntu abe nobungozi.
Isivivinyo sokusikisela kanye nokuxilongwa kwayo kwenziwa ngaphakathi kohlaka lwezinhlelo zokuzifundela noma izinselelo ezihlose ukuqeda le nkinga. Abantu abathonywayo bavame ukubhekana nokukhathazeka, ukukhathazeka, ukuphazamiseka ngokomzwelo nokucindezeleka, futhi bathathe ezinye izifo ezingqondweni. Ngenxa yesilinganiso esiphakeme sokusikisela, kungenzeka ukuthi ube yisisulu sabahlaseli, kusukela emisebenzini yabo umphakathi wethu, ngeshwa, awuvikelwe.
Ukuphakanyiswa kwe-intragroup kunzima nakakhulu ukuphakamisa ukubumbana nokubambisana kwemibono yamalungu eqembu. Uma umuntu enesithakazelo embuzweni, kuyoba lula ukuthonya umbono wakhe uma engayiqondi isihloko esixoxwayo. Umuntu ofundele futhi owaziwa ngeke anqotshwe ukukholelwa futhi uzokwazi ukuvikela iqembu kusuka ephutha elinjalo. Lokhu okulandelayo kuncike ebuhlotsheni bomuntu phakathi "kokubambisana".
Kungenzeka yini ukuthi "ufundise kabusha" wena nokuthi ungayenza kanjani? Impendulo, eqinisweni, elula kakhulu - udinga ukuzikhandla:
- funda ukulawula imizwelo yakho;
- Ngaphambi kokuzijabulisa nganoma yisiphi isenzakalo, zama ukuhlola isimo ngokulinganayo;
- ekuphenduleni nasekuziphatheni kwakho kufanele kube nomqondo ozwakalayo kanye nokuqonda;
- phuthuka njengomuntu, ubonise isithakazelo esengeziwe kulokho ongakabi khona, ngoba konke okusha.
Ungayeki ekuthuthukiseni kwakho, qapha futhi uqonde.