Ukulungiselela umkhosi - ulwazi lomama
Kuphakama imibuzo eminingi mayelana nokuthi uzoqhuba nini. Ayikho imithetho ecacile kule ndaba. Kuvunyelwe ukubhapathiza usana olusuka ngosuku lwesishiyagalombili lokuphila kwakhe. Kodwa umama kufanele akhumbule ukuthi akakwazi ukuya esontweni izinsuku ezingu 40 emva kokubeletha. Uma isakramente ibanjwe ngalesi sikhathi, owesifazane ngeke akwazi ukuthatha ingxenye. Futhi, umuntu akufanele angene ethempelini ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini futhi lokhu kufanele futhi kucatshangelwe.
Okunye okubalulekile umbuzo wokukhetha abakwa- godparents. Kufanele babe ngabantu abaseduze abazimisele ukuhlanganyela ekukhulisweni kwengane. Amantombazane omama adinga ukwazi ukuthi izingane zokubhapathizwa ziwanele kuphela unkulunkulukazi. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, abazali bomfana bangakwazi ukuzibophezela ekukhetheni unkulunkulu. Kodwa futhi kule ndima ungamema abantu abambalwa. Noma kunjalo, kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi kunemikhawulo ethile ekukhethweni kwabazali bakaNkulunkulu. Ngeke abe:
- umyeni nomfazi;
- izingane (unkulunkulukazi kumele okungenani abe neminyaka engu-13 ubudala, kanti ubaba - 15);
- Abazali abakwazi ukuba ngabantwana babantwana babo;
- hhayi ama-Orthodox, angabhapathiziwe.
Uma kungenjalo, ukukhetha akukhawulelwe. Ungamema abangani abaseduze noma ezinye izihlobo kule ndima ebalulekile. Into eyinhloko ukuthi abantu kufanele baqaphele umthwalo wemfanelo abelwe wona.
Futhi, umama kufanele acabange ukuthi yini okufanele agqoke ekubhapathizweni kwengane. Esikhathini ngasinye owesifazane ngamunye ufuna ukubheka i-smart. Kodwa kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi kunezinye imithetho zokuvakashela isonto elidinga ukuhlonishwa. Umama kufanele agqoke ingubo engaphansi kwamadolo, izingubo kufanele zimboze izandla zabo. Awukwazi ukukhohlwa nge-carcarf nekhanda lokuthi kufanele kube nesiphambano entanyeni. Ungenzi ukwakheka okukhanyayo. Futhi kungcono ukuyeka izicathulo nezithende, ngoba umkhosi uhlala isikhathi eside, futhi umama angakwazi ukukhathala ngalesi sikhathi. Isinqumo esifanele sizoba ukukhetha izicathulo ezikhululekile.
Ngentandokazi, owesifazane angakwazi ukuhlela umcimbi wale mcimbi, setha ithebula bese umeme izivakashi. Umkhuba onjalo ukhona isikhathi eside, kepha ukuwugcina noma cha, abazali banquma.
Ukwenza umkhuba - uthini umama wakho ngesikhathi ubhapathizwa?
Abanye besifazane besaba ukungazi kwabo amasiko. Bakhathazeka ngokuthi bazodideka ethempelini, ngoba abazi ukuthi benzeni. Kodwa ungesabi lokhu. Ngaphambi kokusebenza kwesakramente, izikhonzi zesonto zizochaza ngokuningiliziwe ukuthi konke kuzokwenzeka kanjani. Futhi phakathi nemikhosi, lapho kunjalo, futhi, kuzokwenza.
Kodwa indima yomama ngesikhathi sokubhapathizwa ayinkulu kakhulu. Kakade ekugcineni, umpristi ufunda umthandazo kanina. Kungaba yilowo nalowo uma i-christenings ibanjwe ngokuhlukana kwengane eyodwa.