Ukukhulelwa kanye nobulili - ingahlanganiswa yini? Imithi yanamuhla ayikho into ephikisana nokusondelana kwabashadile ngesikhathi esifanele kunazo zonke, kokubili kubo nakwabesifazane ngokwabo. Kodwa umbuzo wokuthi ubulili buvunyelwe yini ezinyangeni zokuqala zokukhulelwa luyinkinga yangempela. Futhi imibono yabodokotela lapha ingase ihlukane.
Abanye bathi ubulili bokuqala buphephile kokubili owesifazane nengane yakhe. Ekuqaleni kokukhulelwa, izitho zangasese zobulili zikhiqiza ama-hormone, futhi ngenxa yalokho owesifazane uthola isifiso esikhulu socansi. Kunesidingo sokuba kokubili ngokomoya nangokomzimba osondelene nendoda ethandekayo, uzizwe uvikelekile futhi uzizwe ufisa.
Abanye bayaqiniseka ukuthi ubulili obunjalo bulimaza ngoba ngesikhathi se-orgasm, izicathulo ze-uterine zingabangela ukubeletha ngaphambi kwesikhathi noma ukukhulelwa kwesisu. Kukholelwa ukuthi owesifazane, esesimweni, uvame ukuzizwa engajabule futhi ngenxa yokukhathala kwakhe njalo, ukuze isifiso sakhe socansi sinciphise.
Kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi izimpikiswano ezinjalo "ngokumelene" zavuka, okokuqala, ukuze zivikele owesifazane ngokumnakekelwa ngokweqile kuye kumyeni wakhe. Phela, akuwona wonke umlingani othandekayo olalele umkakhe ukuthi uyakwazi ukulalela inhlalakahle yakhe, anikezwe isikhundla sakhe, futhi uzokwazi ukuyeka ukuneliseka kwakhe.
Ukwesaba okwengeziwe kuyize
Abazali abaningi besaba ukuthi bangalimaza ingane yabo ngokwenza uthando, kodwa, okokuqala, ingane iyingcosana ezinyangeni zokuqala zokukhulelwa ukuthi akunakwenzeka neze ukumlimaza. Okwesibili, imvelo yomama ohlakaniphile isiqinisekisile ukuthi ubulili hhayi kuphela ekukhulelweni kokuqala, kodwa futhi ezinyangeni zokugcina angeke kulimaze ingane. Njengoba i-fetus ivikelekile ngokwethembeka ngamanzi e-ocacodial, isibeletho kanye ne-placenta, ngaphezu kwalokho, umlomo wesibeletho ovela eceleni kocansi uvinjelwe ipulaki elimangalisa. Kuyaziwa ukuthi ubudlelwane obuseduze buhambisana nokukhululwa kwama-endorphin - ama-hormone enjabulo. Abesifazane abaningi bayaqaphela ukuthi ubulili esiteji sokuqala sokukhulelwa kusiza ukufeza ama-orgasms aqhakazile, ngenkathi enikeza ukwaneliseka okukhulu. Odokotela baphikisana ukuthi ngisho nangesikhathi se-orgasm, kukhona ukuqeqeshwa ngaphambi kokubeletha.
Cabanga ngezinzuzo ezithinta ucansi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kokuqala:
- Ayikho isisu esikhulu esikhulayo, esinqumayo izimo ezihlukahlukene.
- I-Orgasm izuzwa ngokushesha kunokuba kuvamile, ngoba ezinhlangeni ze-pelvis encane ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, ukwanda kwegazi kuyanda.
- Ubulili buqeqesha imisipha yesibeletho, eqinisweni ewusizo ngesikhathi sokubeletha.
- Kuze kube amasonto angu-13-14, umbungu udinga i-spermatozoa njengento ephezulu ye-protein enezakhi.
Kodwa nokho kukhona izizathu zokuthi kungani kufanele ugweme ucansi ekuqaleni kwezinyathelo:
- Ukuba khona kwesongo sokukhulelwa kwesisu.
- Ukuzalwa kusengaphambili (ku-anemnesis).
- Ukuvuza kwe-amniotic fluid (ingozi enkulu yokutheleleka).
- Iziphakamiso noma i-placenta ephansi.
- Ukukhulelwa okuningi.
- Ukukhipha isisu kusuka kumlanjeni (kulokhu kuyadingeka ukuthi uthintane nomjozi wesifo sokubeletha njengoba lokhu kungase kube ukuxhunywa koxhumo emtholampilo wesibeletho).
- Kubalulekile ukugwema ukulala ngokocansi lapho, ngaphambi kokuqala kokukhulelwa, ukuya esikhathini kufanele kube khona. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi kulezi zinsuku ingozi yokukhulelwa kwesisu iyakhula, ngoba umzimba wesifazane iminyaka eminingi ngaphambi kokukhulelwa kujwayele ukukhipha isisu kanye noshintsho lwe-cyclic.
Isibonelo, umama wesikhathi esizayo angase azwe ukukhathazeka kwezigulane ezincelisayo, i-toxicosis, i-malaise nekhanda. Ukuba kuleso simo, ngeke abe khona kuze kube yilapho ukusondelana nesisombululo kungenye kwesimo - linda. Uma kungenjalo, uma kungekho ukuphikisana okhethekile, ngokobulili, ikakhulukazi nge-orgasm, akuzuzi kuphela umama, kodwa futhi nesibusiso.