Uma umuntu ebona ulwandle ephusheni, futhi efuna ukuqonda ukuthi le nkulumo isho ukuthini, udinga ukukhumbula yonke imininingwane yephupho lakhe. Ezincwadini ezahlukene zokuphupha, incazelo yalokho okumele ukuphuphe ngakho, uma umuntu egeza olwandle, kuncike emigqeni ehlukahlukene yezindaba zokulala. Isibonelo, kubalulekile, kwakukhona amagagasi, noma ulwandle lwaluzolile futhi lubushelelezi njengesibuko.
Ukuphupha ephusheni bese ugibela kuwo - incazelo
Uma owesifazane ephupha ukuthi usebhishi kanti ngenkathi ebhukuda olwandle noma olwandle, uthembisa ukuthi impilo yakhe iyashintsha. Ngokujwayelekile bazobe behlobene nokuphila komuntu siqu noma izinkinga zomndeni.
Ukulala, lapho egeza khona olwandle olucacile, kusho ukuthi maduzane ungalinda umlayezo ojabulisayo ovela othandekayo. Futhi iphupho elinjalo libonisa ukuthi umndeni wentombazane noma impilo yomuntu siqu izophumelela esikhathini esizayo esiseduze futhi akufanele kube khona izingxabano. Iphupho lapho intombazane idla khona olwandle olungcolile, ngokuphambene nalokho, lithembisa amahlazo kanye nokuxabana okuzayo. Lesi yisixwayiso esitshela ukuthi udinga ukuqonda futhi uzame ukuthola ukuyekethisa uma kwenzeka ukungqubuzana .
Uma iphupho mayelana nokuthi owesifazane ugeza kanjani olwandle ngamagagasi, ahlale ekhohliwe ekuseni, kubalulekile ukulindela isikhathi esiphumelelanga kakhulu esiphumelelayo empilweni. Ingaxhunyaniswa kokubili ngezinkinga zemali, kanye nokuxabana komndeni. Uma ngesikhathi esifanayo intombazane ikwazi ukubhukuda ngesikhathi sokulala noma iqaphela ukuthi usizo luzofika maduze, khona-ke isimo sizoxazulula ngokushesha futhi sibe nokulahlekelwa okuncane. Uma kwenzeka intombazane ezwa ephusheni yona encane noma ingavikelwe, kuyadingeka ukwesaba lokho empilweni yangasese ngeke kube khona izinguquko ezinhle kakhulu.
Kusho ukuthini ephusheni ukubhukuda olwandle kumuntu?
Uma leli phupho liphupho lomuntu, libonisa ukungavikeleki kwakhe kumkakhe noma intombi. Ikakhulukazi uma amanzi olwandle engenalutho noma isiphepho. Kaningi futhi iphupho elinjalo libikezela ubunzima bokusebenza, isibonelo, ukubonakala komncintiswano noma ukuphumelela kokusebenza.
Ngesikhathi ephusheni amanzi ayezolile, futhi ukugeza kwakujabulisa, kufanelekile ukulinda ukuqala kwesikhathi esithulile empilweni. Kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi isikhathi sesifikile lapho umuntu ekwazi ukuphumula futhi athathe isenzo sokuzilibazisa. Zonke izinkinga zomsebenzi nezinkinga zomndeni zizoxazululwa masinyane futhi zibe nomzamo omncane noma akukho.
Uma ephusheni elinjalo indoda ayisodwa emanzini, khona-ke empilweni yakhe umphathi uzovela maduzane obani ozobhekana nazo zonke izinkinga.