Kungani uphupha ogwini?

Ugu lolwandle, olubonwa ngephupho, luthembisa umuntu ukuthi usheshe ukubhekana nezinkinga ekusebenzelaneni nabantu abasondelene naye, kodwa ukuze uqonde ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuxazulula isimo esingathandeki ngaphandle kwemiphumela emibi, umuntu kufanele akhumbule umbono wakhe, kuphela ngale ndlela ungaqonda ukuthi ulwandle luphikisana nokuthi yiziphi izinguquko elinde ngaphambili.

Kungani uphupha olwandle lolwandle?

Ugu oluphephile ngokusho kwencwadi yephupho likaMiller lithi umuntu ukhathele izinkinga ezihlukahlukene nezinkinga futhi ufuna ukuphumula, kodwa angenza lokho akufunayo kuphela uma isihlabathi esisogwini sihlanzekile futhi ulwandle luzolile.

Uma kukhona abantu ogwini, khumbula ukuthi uma bazi wena nokuthi baziphathe kanjani. Uma kwenzeka ukuthi abantu abanomsindo nabanobungane owaziyo, lo mbono uthembisa usizo ekuxazululeni izinkinga. Yebo, uma lokhu kuyindawo yokuphumula ye-nudist, khona-ke ukuzijabulisa komuntu okulindelekile kuyalindela umuntu, yilokho ogwini olunezintunu eziphupha khona.

Manje ake sibone ukuthi isihlabathi esingcolile ogwini siseduze. Abafundi abaningi bephupho bathi umbono onjalo ubonisa ukuthi iqembu elimnyama lizoba maduze, futhi lizohlala isikhathi eside. Udoti oluthe xaxa ogwini ngephupho umuntu ubona, i kuyoba nzima kakhulu ukubhekana nezinkinga. Uma ulwandle lingekho isihlabathi, kodwa inhlanhla, inhlanhla izobe ishintshaniswa nezingqinamba, futhi ukuphakama nokwehla kuzothathwa indawo engaphezu kwenyanga eyodwa.

Uma le ntombazane iphupha ukuthi ithatha ama-suns ebangeni, mhlawumbe umngane wakhe oseduze uzomkhohlisa esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Ngokuvamile, kusezincwadini zephupho mayelana nomlingani wezocansi nokukhwabanisa, yilokho iphupho ngowesifazane oshona ilanga ebhishi. Kodwa kumuntu lo mbono, ngokuphambene nalokho, uthembisa ukuphumula kanye nethuba lokuphumula ezingenalutho, izinkinga zixazululwa yizo ngokwazo futhi zonke izinkinga , kufaka phakathi izinto ezibonakalayo, zizoshiywa ngemuva.