Ngokujwayelekile abesifazane asebevele beneminyaka engamashumi amane banomntwana oyedwa. Kodwa kwenzeka ukuthi isiphetho sinikeza owesifazane usengumntwana ngaleyo minyaka ekhulile. Futhi ezimweni eziningi, abanqobile abanenhlanhla banqunywa ngemuva kokulethwa emva kuka-40, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kukhona izingozi ezikhona.
Kuyaziwa ukuthi ngisho nabesifazane abasha abanempilo bangabantwana abanezifo ezihlukahlukene nezifo ezihlukahlukene. Izibalo ziqinisekisa ukuthi ukukhulelwa emva kweminyaka engama-40 kungabonakali nje ngokubeletha okunzima, kodwa futhi nokugula okungathí sina kwengane. Ngemva kokubeletha emva kweminyaka engamashumi amane, owesifazane unengozi yokukhulelwa ingane yakhe nge-Down's syndrome , ngoba kulabo abomama, izinsana zithola ukuphambene kwezakhi zofuzo izikhathi ezingu-12-14 kaningi kunomama omncane. Futhi, ingozi yokuba nengane eneziphambeko zenhliziyo ivusa izikhathi ezingu-5-6.
Ukuzalwa kwesikhathi sokuqala
Kuze kube manje, kunabesifazane abaningi emhlabeni abazalwa ngokuzalwa ngemva kweminyaka engama-40. Lesi simo ezweni lethu akekho omangazayo, ngoba kwenzeka kaningi. Ukubelethwa kwesikhathi esilandelayo kunezinzuzo zabo kanye nokuqeda. I-pluses yilezi:
- isikhundla esiphezulu sezezimali somama;
- izinga eliphakeme lemfundo, okwenza kube lula ukwenza izinqumo ezingenangqondo;
- isisindo sokuncelisa ingane, okwenza kube nokuphila okunempilo;
- ukunakekela kakhulu ingane;
- ukungahloniphi kwamaphathi kanye namaqembu;
- umuzwa wokulondeka nokuvikeleka kwenza umama ovuthiwe abe nesibindi esikhathini esizayo, ngokungafani nomama omncane.
Kodwa ngaphezu kwemiphumela kulezi zimo, kunezimo ezincane ezimbalwa:
- izinkinga ngesikhathi sokubeletha: izinkinga ezinengcindezi kanye ne-placenta, isifo sikashukela;
- ukuzalwa komntwana omncane noma ongakafiki;
- ukukhulelwa kudlulela;
- ukuphakama kwesisu okuphezulu.
Kulaba besifazane abaneminyaka engama-40 ubudala, ingozi yomsebenzi iyanda kakhulu, njalo njalo ezimweni ezinjalo, odokotela basebenzisa isigaba sokulahla. Ngisho noma ukukhulelwa kuqhubeka ngaphandle kokucindezeleka, abesifazane abanjengokwesimo esithile baqalwa njengengozi enkulu.
Imiphumela yezokulethwa kwesikhathi
Abaningi besifazane bacabanga ukuthi akukaze kube yisikhathi sokubeletha. Kodwa akubona bonke ababaziyo ukuthi emva kokungaka 40 kokubeletha kwanda izikhathi eziningana. Kule minyaka yobudala abantu bavame ukuhlushwa izifo ezihlukahlukene ezingapheliyo. Futhi kakade ukhulelwe, ingozi yezifo ezinjalo iyanda.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungabi nobugovu futhi uzicabange wena kuphela. Kudingeka ucabange ngekusasa lomntanakho: uma umyisa ebangeni lokuqala, futhi wonke umuntu uzothatha wena kunogogo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ulungele ngokwengqondo lokhu, nokuthi ngabe ingane yakho ngeke ihlazeke nguwe. Ukuzikhethela, okuyikho, kungokwakho, kodwa ngaphambi kokuba uhlehlise ukubeletha "ngokuhamba kwesikhathi", cabanga ngokucophelela ukuthi lokhu kulungile yini.