Isici esiyingqayizivele sezingane ezinesiphiwo sobukhulu singcono kakhulu kunani lokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo kwengane , uma kuqhathaniswa neontanga zakhe. Ngokuvamile, abazali badidisa umqondo wezipho ngokulalela okujwayelekile nokusebenza kahle, okungekho iqiniso ngokuphelele. Ngempela, phakathi kobupho bangempela kanye nokutholakala kolwazi oluthile lwamakhono kanye namakhono kuyindlela ehle kakhulu, ngakho-ke ngezinye izikhathi akulula ukubona ingane enhle.
Izici zengqondo zezingane ezinesipho
Ukuze ubone ubuhle, kubalulekile ukucabangela iqiniso lokuthi kunezingane eziningi ezikwaziyo. Njengomthetho, lokhu kubonakala emasimini ahlukene kakhulu kolwazi, futhi abanikeziwe abanezinyunithi, futhi kuphela esiqondisweni esithile ikhono labo eliveziwe.
Ukuze ungaphuthelwa ukunikezelwa okuphezulu kwengane yakho, abazali kudingeka bahlolisise:
- ukuthi ngokushesha futhi kalula ingane ifunda izici zomsebenzi okhethiwe;
- indlela eziyingqayizivele nezingajwayelekile zokuxazulula imisebenzi eyabelwe yona;
- ngezinga lomdlandla wezintandokazi zakho ozithandayo;
- Ingabe ukunqunywa kwengane nokuzigxeka kwakhe kwanda?
- Ingabe kukhona isifiso sokuzivuselela ?
- ilukuluku kanye nesifiso sokwazi olusha esiqondisweni esikhethiwe.
Kodwa-ke, akufanele kucatshangwe ukuthi izingane ezinezintuthwane ziveza ngokushesha amathalenta azo, lokhu kudinga isikhathi nesisekelo esibalulekile sezintshisekelo nolwazi oluqoqiwe, okuyinto empeleni, okuyiyona into ekhethekile yokusebenza nabo.
Umzila ngamunye wemfundo wengane enekhono
Ukufundisa kwezingane ezinesithakazelo kudinga amakhono akhethekile nolwazi oluhamba ngaphezu kohlelo olujwayelekile futhi uvumele izingane ukuba zithole ngokugcwele amandla abo. Kodwa-ke, umsebenzi oyinhloko wabazali bobabili kanye nabafundisi ukubona amakhono amakhulu wengane ngesiyalo esithile, kungaba ukudala, isayensi ngqo, ezemidlalo, nabanye.
Ukusekela abantu abadala kudla indima ebalulekile kubantwana abanesipho. Izingane ezinezinwele zingabonakalisa kakade enkulisa, kodwa kaningi kwenzeka kakade esikoleni. Kubantwana besikole abanamakhono aphezulu okuqonda, kunezikhungo ezikhethekile zokufundisa ezicabangela zonke izici zokufunda.
Izikole ezikhethekile zokufundisa izingane ezinamakhono azifani neze ohlelweni oluyisisekelo kanye namafomu okuhambisa ulwazi, kodwa nasemsebenzini wezemfundo. Njengomthetho, ukuphishekela uhlelo olukhethekile, ingane ithola ulwazi olujulile, ikwazi kahle ngokugcwele amakhono omsebenzi ozimele, ihlakulela ukucabanga okucabangayo kanye nombono ongavamile wemibuzo ebuzwayo.
Ukuzikhethela kokusebenza nezingane ezinezintandokazi yilokho ndlela ngayinye eya kuyo, ukuvulwa kwamakhono kanye nokuhlinzekwa kwezimo ezikhululekile kakhulu zokuthuthukiswa. Ngoba kaningi ezikoleni ezijwayelekile zanikeza izingane izinkinga eziningi:
- Okokuqala, akubona bonke othisha abanamakhono adingekayo.
- Okwesibili, amakhono ahlakaniphile kakhulu afunda nabo afundanga ukukhokha kahle ukunakekelwa kwengane.
- Akuzona zonke izikole ezinezinsiza ezidingekayo nezindlela zobuchwepheshe.
- Ngaphezu kwalokho, enye inkinga ephikisayo izingane ingase ibhekane nezikhungo ezijwayelekile zokufundisa ukungaqondani kontanga.
Kulokhu, ingane kufanele ivumelane nezidingo zeqembu lezenhlalo ezizungezile, okungaholela ekuqapheliseni okungafani kwayo, noma ekunciphiseni ize. - Ukuphumelela okuncane kwengane enengqondo ethuthukile kakhulu. Isenzakalo esivamile kakhulu ngenxa yezindlela zokufundisa ezingalungile, ukungabi nalutho noma izindlela ezidlulile.
Yiqiniso, ingane enomusa emndenini ithemba elikhulu nokuziqhenya kwabazali. Kodwa-ke, ungakhohlwa ukuthi lokhu, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ingane efuna ukunakekelwa kwabazali, uthando nokuqonda.