Isithunzi somuntu - esaziwa emphakathini wezomthetho kanye nencazelo engavamile yabantu abavamile.
Singakuqonda njengenani elivamile lomuntu. Ukubaluleka kwalo nazo zonke izimfanelo nezici zayo, kusukela kulabo abavela kithi, njengezinhlobo zezinto eziphilayo kanye nokuphela kwazo zonke izinto ezivela kubantu kuphela. Ezikhathini zamuva, imishwana efana ne "N elahlekile (nes) nesithunzi sayo somuntu", "ukuhlazeka kwesithunzi sabantu" kuye kwazwakala kakhulu emphakathini. Eqinisweni, kunezinto ezingalimaza isithunzi somuntu - udlame, ukucwaswa nokucindezelwa komuntu ngenxa yesimo sabo sezenhlalakahle, umbala, ubulili, noma ezinye izithakazelo nokubukwa komhlaba siqu.
Isithunzi sesintu sihlanganisa ini?
Inkululeko yangaphakathi yonke umuntu ayenayo kusukela ekuzalweni. Inkululeko yokukhetha nokubonakaliswa kwezwe lomuntu wangaphakathi, umuntu wangaphakathi. Ukwehliswa nokulahlekelwa isithunzi somuntu siqu kusho ukulahlekelwa kwamanani akho angaphakathi, ukungabihloniphi. Isithunzi somuntu yisilinganiso somuntu siqu. Amalungelo okuhlonipha nokuzihlonipha. Uma sekuqinisiwe ngempela ekuzalweni. Kodwa umphakathi ophucukile uthuthukile, ukuzama ngokushesha ukulingana kwabo bonke, futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kusho ukuthi isithunzi somuntu ngeke sithathwe ngumsuka, umnotho, imfundo noma isimo senhlalakahle.
Isithunzi sobuntu sivame ukuchazwa njengezici ezinhle. Lezi yizimfanelo umuntu azizuzile ekuphileni. Ukuthi wayekuthini kusukela ekuzalweni, obani abagonywe ngabazali enkambweni yemfundo, noma eyakhiwe imvelo. Izibonelo eziyinhloko zesithunzi somuntu yizi:
- ukuthembeka;
- isibindi / ukungesabi;
- ukwethembeka;
- umthwalo wemfanelo;
- isiyalo;
- inhloso;
- ububele;
- ukuthula;
- umsebenzi;
- ukubekezela;
- ukubekezela;
- ukuzimela;
- ukubonga;
- intando eqinile;
- ukuxhumana;
- ukulinganisela;
- ukulalela;
- ukuhluka / ukuguquguquka.
Ngokwehlukana kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi lezi yizici ezifanayo nanoma yimuphi umqashi ozozinaka lapho ekuthatha ukusebenza. Kule minyaka edlule, izazi zengqondo ziye zavela futhi zanikeza inombolo enkulu yokuhlolwa okuhlukile ukucacisa ukufaneleka komuntu ngamunye. Bonke batusa, bazi abantu, emsebenzini nasekhaya, bathemba ngamandla akho, izimfanelo zakho ezinhle. Zithuthukise, wazi futhi zizithokozise ngokwabo.
Noma kunjalo, akuzona zonke izinto ezinhle kwabanye okuyoba kuhle kwabanye. Umsebenzi, ukuzinikela, ukungesabi - ngokuqinisekile, isithunzi somuntu. Kodwa ingabe izoba yigugu kakhulu kowesifazane? Singase sisho lokho
Indlela elula yokunquma ukuthi yisiphi isithunzi sobuntu esakhiwe kuwe kunabanye, ochwepheshe batusa ukubhala ephepheni zonke izimfanelo ezinhle owaziyo, bese uzibeka "izikolo" esikalini samaphuzu angu-10 - kungakanani lokhu noma leyo mfanelo, efana kubonakala kuwe, uthuthukile.