Inani elikhulu labantu basebenzisa imilingo ukuqonda izindaba zothando. Ungenza i-amulet, wenze umkhosi, kodwa kungcono ukuxhumana nomoya wothando ngokuqondile. Ungahlangani namandla angabonakali ngenxa yokuzijabulisa, ngaphandle kwalokho ingabangela izinkinga ezihlukahlukene.
Indlela yokuvusa umoya wothando - inombolo yenombolo 1
Ungakwazi ukuchitha isihlalo ngosizo lwebhodi laseWinja , ibhodi yokukhuluma noma ibhodi lomlingo . Uma kungenjalo, khona-ke ungakwazi ukumane ubenze i-analogue nephepha elivulekile. Sebenzisa umkhuba kunoma iyiphi indawo ngaphandle kwekamelo lokulala. Ngaphezu kwebhodi, udinga ukuba nesithombe somuntu othandekayo, isitsha samanzi nekhandlela. Ngaphambi kokubiza ngosuku lomoya wothando, sishiya amakhethini, cisha ukukhanya futhi ifoni, ngokujwayelekile, akufanele kube khona okuphazamisayo. Ukubheka ikhandlela elibhekile ezandleni zakho, lawa magama:
"Woza kimi (igama lakho) umoya wothando futhi uletha injabulo.
Ngiphulukise futhi unginike injabulo yothando.
Phendula, ungathuli, unikeze iseluleko, usizo. "
Ungabiza umoya ngosizo lomlingo kokubili kwedwa kanye nasemvelweni wabantu abaseduze. Uma umoya uthintana, kungabanda noma kuyoba nokugeleza komoya opholile. Ukuze uthole impendulo ngqo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umoya ufikile, kubalulekile ukusebenzisa ibhodi elingokomoya. Uma isoso sikhombisa impendulo ethi "Yebo", khona-ke ungacela imibuzo yentshisekelo. Bese usho njalo futhi ubonge umoya, lapho kwenzeka khona umkhuba ungacatshangwa uqedile.
Indlela yokubiza imimoya yothando ngokunembile - inombolo yenombolo 2
Susa ekamelweni zonke izinto ezibomvu futhi ungagqoke izingubo ezimhlophe. Ukuheha ukunakwa komuntu oyithandayo, udinga ukuba nesithombe esithathwe kamuva. Maphakathi nekamelo, faka itafula elimbozwe ngendwangu yamatafula amhlophe, faka isithombe phakathi nendawo, nangaphansi kwesitsha ngamanzi ahlanzekile. Kulo, faka ukhiye wezinwele nokudonsa kwegazi. Thatha ikhandlela elimnyama futhi, wenze izinyathelo eziyindilinga, uphazamise igama lomuntu othandekayo. Ngesikhathi sesimiso, cabanga ukuthi useduze. Ngaphambi kokubiza umoya womsizi othandweni, ulethe ikhandlela eliseduze nesithombe bese uthi la mazwi:
"Ngikubiza wena, uMoya Wothando, uza kimi, ungabi khona. Ngijabule kimi, inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama). Umphefumulo wami othandweni wedwa wamphulukisa. Ngizobuyisela umthetho. Impendulo. Ungathuli! "
Ukwazi ukuthi kufanele uvuse kanjani umoya wothando, ungadonsela ukunakwa komuntu oyithandayo, futhi uvuselele ubuhlobo obukhona.