Ukuphila kwabazali, njengokubusa, kugcwele ukwesaba nokukhathazeka. Sesaba izifo zobuntwana, ukulimala , izingozi njalonjalo. Futhi omdala ingane iba, abazali abaningi bayesaba. Kodwa awukwazi ukumboza ingane ngoboya bekotini, ngokumane uvikeleke ngaphandle kwezwe - ingane kufanele ikhulume neontanga, xhumana nomphakathi, ufunde ukuzimela. Kodwa okwesabekayo kwezinto zangempela zanamuhla ekuphileni kuhlale kuhlangene nokuqonda kwala maqiniso alula - ukusakazwa kwezindaba kanye nemibiko kwi-intanethi ye-intanethi igcwele zonke izinhlobo zokuphazamiseka mayelana nokunyamalala, ukubulala nokudlwengulwa kwezingane. Ngeke sikwazi ukumelana nomhlaba wezinto ezimbi, kodwa wonke umzali angathatha izinyathelo zokuzivikela ukuze avikele ingane yakhe kubagibeli.
Amathiphu kubazali
Ngaphambi kokuba ingane yakho iqale ukuhamba yodwa emgwaqweni, isibonelo, ukuya esikoleni, kufanele ilungiselelwe ngokucophelela izinto zangempela zokuphila kwanamuhla, ukwazisa mayelana nemigomo nemithetho yokuziphatha okuphephile, kanye nezingozi ezingase zilindele kuye. Okokuqala, qiniseka ukuthi ingane yakho iyazi igama lakhe eligcwele, isibongo, nekheli lendawo yokuhlala. Khona-ke amaqiniso alandelayo angaguquguquki kufanele ahanjiswe kuye:
- Awukwazi ukuhlala emgwaqweni noma egcekeni endleleni yokuphuma esikoleni, kufanele ube ekhaya ngaphambi kokuhlwa;
- Akudingeki ukuthi ukhulume nabantu abangabazi, ungene emotweni ngaphansi kwanoma yikuphi ukucabanga, uthathe izipho kanye namathoyizi avela kubo futhi uye kwenye indawo, uhambisane nezithembiso;
- uma kwenzeka ingane ilahlekile noma ilahlekile, imfundise ukuba angesabi futhi angayikukhala, kodwa ukuze abhekane nabantu abadala: amapolisi, abathengisi ezitolo, omama abanezingane ukuze basize;
- Ungamniki ingane izinto ezibalulekile: amafoni abizayo, amaphilisi, ubucwebe, ukuze angabhubhisi abaphangi;
- abavame ukuzenga izingane, babatshele ukuthi unina noma ubaba wabo uceliwe ukuba abathathe futhi abale ndawo, bathi, ukusebenza noma esibhedlela. Kudingeka ukuthi ucacise kusengaphambili nengane ukuthi akunakwenzeka kwezimo ezinjalo noma ukuvela "ngephasiwedi yomzali". Isisekelo salo silula - kufanele usungule igama noma ibinzana kuphela amalungu omndeni wakho azokwazi. Futhi uma kunesimo esibucayi, lapho kuzodingeka ukuthi ubuze umfokazi usizo, angabuza iphasiwedi yakhe ukuqinisekisa ukuthi akayena umuntu onamandla, kepha empeleni wenza ngesicelo sabazali bakhe;
- uma ingane ivame ukuba yedwa ekhaya, kufanele imchazele ukuthi awukwazi ukuvula umnyango kubantu abangabazi ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo. Ngokuvamile, abahlaseli bazama ukungena ngaphakathi kwendawo yokuhlala njengabasebenzi bezinsiza zomphakathi, odokotela, amapolisi nokunye okunye;
- Izingane ezindala nezintsha kufanele zichaze ingozi yokuwela ezinkampanini ezingajwayelekile, ikakhulukazi uma kukhona abadala abakhona;
- unakekele ngesikhathi esifanele ukwazisa ingane ngezindaba zocansi ngesikhathi esifanele. Ingane kufanele iqonde ukuthi ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili nokuhlukumeza kuyini futhi abesabi ukuyiqeda,
futhi futhi ngesikhathi sokuzibika kubantu abadala ababethembayo; - fomu emndenini isimo sokuthembela nokuqonda, ukuze ingane ingesabi futhi ingangabazi ukutshela ngezinkinga zayo nezinkinga ezibhekene nazo. Khona-ke ungafunda ngokuhamba kwesikhathi mayelana nezimo ezingase zihlukumeze kanye nezinxushunxushu;
- intsha isengozini, ngakho-ke khuthaza ingane yakho ekhulayo ukuthi ikutshele ukuthi ungubani nokuthi uyaphi nokuthi uzoba nini ekhaya. Qinisekisa ukuthi ingane inemali ku-akhawunti yefoni yeselula futhi ingakubiza ukuba uxwayise mayelana nokulibala noma uma kwenzeka ingozi.