Indlela yokufundisa ingane ukuba ilale ubusuku bonke?

Ngokuzalwa kwengane esanda kuzalwa cishe wonke omama abasha bayakhohlwa ukuthi ubuthongo obuthule. Izingane zivame ukuvuka, zikhala, zifune i-pacifier noma isifuba somama. Ngaphezu kwalokho, iningi lalezi ziqu ezivele zivele emhlabeni zihlushwa ngamathumbu emathunjini kanye nezinye izinzwa ezibuhlungu ezihlobene nokungapheleli kwesimiso sokugaya ukudla.

Esikhathini esithile emva kokubeletha kwengane, ukungabikho kokulala komama osemusha kuyathinta impilo yakhe, imizwa yakhe nenhlalakahle, kanye nobuhlobo emndenini. Ukuze ugweme lokhu, kuyadingeka ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka ukufundisa umntwana osanda kuzalwa ukuba alale ubusuku bonke futhi amsindise emkhuba omubi wokuvuka njalo.

Indlela yokufundisa izingane ukuba zilale ubusuku bonke?

Abazali abancane abazama ukufundisa ingane ukuba balale ubusuku, indlela eyaziwa kanjalo njengendlela ye-Esteville, izokwenza. Nakuba kwabanye besifazane kungase kubonakale kuyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu futhi buhlukumeza ingane, empeleni, yilo lindlela ephumelela kakhulu futhi ekhethwa ngombono wabaningi bezingane.

Amacebo ezenzo zabazali abasha uma usebenzisa indlela yase-Esteville kufanele ibonakale kanje:

1. Qhubeka ukwenza zonke izinto ezifanayo ezivame ukukusiza ukuba uzolile futhi uzikhumbule ukuzulazula ezandleni zakho noma ebhola, uhlabe ingoma yamaLlala, ufunda inganekwane nokunye. Lapho ingane isivele iqala ukulala, kodwa ngaphambi kokuthi ilele ngokuphelele, yibeke esitokisini. Uma ekhala, mthathe ezandleni zakhe, unyakaze kancane bese umbuyisela esikhwameni. Qhubeka ukwenza kanjalo kuze kube yilapho ingane ingathuli futhi ingakwazi ukulala yedwa. Njengomthetho, izenzo ezinjalo zithatha ubusuku bokuqala kusuka kumaminithi angu-30 kuya ehoreni. Noma kunjalo, ezinye izingane ziqala ukusabela ngokuhlukumezayo ezenzweni zabazali bazo ezingavamile kubo, ukuthi inqubo ingathatha amahora angu-3-5. Yiqiniso, akuwona wonke omama nabazali abanokubekezela ukukhuthazelela ukuhlolwa okunjalo, noma kunjalo, uma ufuna ngempela ukufundisa ingane yakho ukuba ilale ubusuku, kufanele ube nomoya omuhle hhayi ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo ukuphambuka kusuka ohlelweni.
2. Ngemuva kokuthi ukwazi ukubhekana ngempumelelo nesiteji sokuqala, masinyane iya phambili. Manje, uma ingane iqala ukukhala ngemva kokuyibeka esikhwameni futhi ayikwazi ukuzola, ungayithathi ezingalo zakho, kodwa ugijime ngokuthula ngesikhalazo, uyibeke phezu kwekhanda futhi uzwisise amagama athandekayo. Uma umntwana ewela emangcwabeni, shiya lo mbono bese ubuyela esiteji sokuqala. Emva kokuphatha ukubeka i-crumb ukuze ulale ngokusebenzisa le ndlela, phinda uzame ukuhamba ngesigaba sesibili.
3. Ngemuva kokufunda ngempumelelo isigaba sesibili, iya kwesithathu - zama ukubeka umntwana ukuba alale ngendlela efanayo, kodwa unqabe ukushayeka. Ngaphandle kokuthinta umzimba wengane yakho, kancane kancane uthola ukuthi angakwazi ukulala ngokulala embhedeni wakhe. Uma kwenzeka u-hysteria, buyela ngokushesha ezigabeni zangaphambilini.
4. Okokugcina, uma ukwazi ukubhekana nezinyathelo ezintathu zokuqala, iya emanzini okubeka kude. Ukwenza lokhu, faka ingane emgodini bese uphindela emuva emnyango wegumbi, usho amagama athandekayo. Ngakho-ke, kancane kancane, ingane yakho izofunda ukulala yedwa futhi ihluleke ukubhekana nesidingo esinamandla sokuxhumana nomama.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukufundisa ingane ukulala ubusuku kuyosiza izincomo ezifana nalezi:

• ukulahla ukusetshenziswa kwe-pacifier;
• ukondla okungakapheli isigamu sehora ngaphambi kokulala;
• kancane kancane uncelise ingane kusukela ekudleni ebusuku, nsuku zonke ukunciphisa inani lokudla elidliwe;
• Sebenzisa isikhalazo kuphela sokulala, ungashiyi imivimbo kulokho nje;
• unciphise isikhathi sokuphumula komntwana.