Lesi sihloko sibhekiswe ngqo kulabo omama besifazane abakhulayo, asebevele bevuthiwe nombuzo: "Indlela yokukhetha ibhande labasha?". Akusilo lutho ukuthi lesi saga sithandwa kakhulu: "Izingane zikhula kancane, kodwa zikhule ngokushesha." Kubonakala sengathi kwakamuva nje intombazane yakho yayisidonsa esincane esinamahlathini angama-chubby, kodwa manje imibhoshongo nezinyosi ze-teddy zikhohliwe ekhoneni - yisikhathi sokushintsha! Ubani omunye ozofaka ikhono lokukhetha i-underwear efanele, kanjani ukuthi ungamama?
Umsebenzi womama okhathalela ngempela akufanele uphelelwe isikhathi lapho indodakazi yakhe iqala ukuphenduka ibe yintsha. Mhlawumbe uzomangala, kodwa uma ubuza injini yokusesha ngenkulumo ethi "ibhuloho yabasha", omunye wemiphumela yokuqala izoba isixhumanisi esithangamini nombuzo othi: "Indlela yokutshela umama ukuthi athenge ibhu." Ngakho-ke, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unomatasa kangakanani, zama njalo ukugcina ubuhlobo obethembayo nendodakazi ekhulayo - kuhle uma efika kuwe ngesicelo sokuqala esesimile: "Mama, sekuyisikhathi sokuba ngithenge ibhu."
Ngakho-ke, intombazane ingadinga kanjani insizwa yentombazane? Ngokuvamile uneminyaka engu-12-13 ubudala, kepha, ngokwemvelo, konke okukhona lapha kumuntu ngamunye. Ukuze amantombazane aqale ukukhulelwa, i-bra ingaba yindawo yokuhlanza evamile ngaphambili. Futhi kunezingane ezisencane ezingenaso isidingo esikhulu sebhri isikhathi eside, kodwa, njengokungathi umthetho, ngisho nangalesi simo ingane icela ukuthenga isibhamu ngoba okungenani wonke umuntu uyayigqoka. Ngisho noma ucabanga ukuthi kule ndaba ayinakuqhathaniswa, ungahleki futhi ubaleke ukubeka amazwana "ngama-pimples" - intsha iyingozi kakhulu. Kungcono ukuthenga into okuthi, mhlawumbe, ngeke idingeke ingane, kunokuba yonakalise ubuhlobo obuqotho, obuqotho. Vumela indodakazi ngokwayo izame futhi inqume ukuthi idinga ibhogi lentsha noma cha.
Ngakho-ke, ukuphi lapho uqala khona lapho ukhetha ibhrasi yentombazane yentsha? Ubuningi bobuchopho obuncane obutholakala kwezohwebo buyi-zero, ibhande lesifuba kumele libe okungenani u-65-68 cm. Uma kungenjalo inomboro yesifuba emntwaneni, ungabheka izintambo ezinwebekayo. Manje zitholakala kakhulu ukudayiswa, kodwa inketho enhle - izingubo zangaphansi ezingenamikhono ezenziwe nge-cotton knitwear elithambile.
Zama ukungathengi amabhondi asebasha abathobekile - khetha izingubo ezenziwe ngokubheka umzimba wezingane. Ama-Bras namathambo kanye nezinkomishi eziseduze azikho kubo! Kuzofika isikhathi esithile sezinkinobho zocansi, futhi manje lokhu kugcwele ama-microtraumas wezinhlayiya ze-mammary, okuyingozi kakhulu ngesikhathi sokubunjwa kwawo. Into ebaluleke kunazo zonke - qiniseka ukuthi uqinisekisa ukuthi ibra ye-teenager njalo ihambisana nosayizi wangempela, ishintshiwe njengoba isifuba sikhula. Lokhu kuyadingeka ukwakha ifomu elifanele lezinhlayiya ze-mammary. Futhi ukhetha ilineni ngezintambo - amabhuda ngaphandle kokusekelwa anganqamula ama-lymph nodes.
Imfashini iyamangalisa, kodwa izidingo eziyisisekelo ezidingeke ziqondiswe uma ukhetha ibhu engumama yilezi:
- izinto ezivela emikhanyeni yemvelo, okungcono, engaxhunyiwe;
- Ubukhulu obuhle: ibhosi ayinamathele emzimbeni, isifuba asinamathele kuzo izinkomishi;
- induduzo nenduduzo ngokugqoka: ibra kufanele isekele esifubeni, kodwa akufanele iphazamise ukunyakaza, ukuphefumula.
Ngakho-ke, iseluleko sethu - sinike isikhathi sokuhamba nendodakazi yakhe ezitolo, ukuze ungasheshi ukukala izinguqulo ezahlukene zezingubo zentsha bese ukhetha naye ongagculisi kuphela izidingo zokukhetha ilineni, kodwa futhi uzokujabulisa ingane yakho. Futhi ungakwazi ukuqedela uhambo ngeqembu letiyi ku-cafe ngamakhekhe kanye nengxoxo eqotho phakathi kwabantu ababili abasondelene kakhulu.