Yini efana nokuba yintombazane enhle kunayo yonke emhlabeni: amaqiniso angu-11 avela e-Lizzie Velasquez

UMelika Lizzie Velasquez waseDolobheni lase-Austin wanikezwa isihloko esithi "intombazane enhle kakhulu emhlabeni." Kodwa ucabanga ukuthi uyiphule?

U-Lizzie wayeyisisulu se-cyberbullying enonya kunazo zonke: izinkulungwane zabasebenzisi be-intanethi zihleka usulu futhi zihlekisayo ukubonakala kwayo. Intombazane yokuzidela ayizange iqede, kodwa yanquma ukusiza abanye abantu abashushiswayo. Manje u-Lizzie uyabhala izincwadi ezithinta ingqondo, ukhuluma ngama-symposiums ahlukahlukene futhi uhlanganyele embukisweni we-TV, ekhuthaza abantu ukuba bazithande futhi bangesabi ubunzima. Futhi saqoqa amaqiniso athakazelisayo ngalokhu intombazane enesibindi nesingenabugovu.

1. Ukuvela kweLizzie kungumphumela wesifo esingavamile se-genetic - i-Wiedemann-Rautenstrauch syndrome. Umzimba wakhe awuwutholi ngokugcwele amafutha, ngenxa yalokhu intombazane ayikwazi ukuthola isisindo esingaphezu kwamakhilogremu angu-29. Ngaphezu kwalokho, isimiso sakhe somzimba sinciphile, eshiya uLizzi ephuphuthekiswe ngeso elilodwa. Futhi, lesi sifo siphuthumisa inqubo yokuguga yomzimba. Ku-26 uLizzie ubheka iminyaka embalwa edlule.
2. Abantu abathathu kuphela emhlabeni bahlushwa yilesi sifo. Ngaphandle kweLizzie, lo ngumamaNgisi u-Amanda, oseneminyaka engaphezu kwengu-30, nomfana omncane waseMelika.
3. U-Lizzie udla izikhathi ezingu-60 ngosuku! Idla ngemizuzu engu-15 - lokhu kuyisidingo esibalulekile. Udla ukudla okuphakeme kakhulu kwekhalori - iziphuzi, i-ayisikhilimu, ushokoledi. Uma noma ubani wethu adla kakhulu u-Lizzie, ngabe sekuyisikhathi eside engumuntu okhulu kakhulu emhlabeni. Kodwa u-Lizzy ukudla okunamandla akusizi kakhulu, akafaki isisindo nhlobo.
4. Njengoba ubude buka-152 cm, uLizzie ulinganisa 29 kilogram. Futhi ekuzalweni, kwalinganisa kuphela amagremu angu-900 kuphela. Odokotela babeqiniseka ukuthi angeke aphile, futhi uma esinda, uzoba "imifino" - akakwazi ukukhuluma nokuhamba. Babephutha.
5. Lapho eneminyaka engu-18 ubudala, wabona ividiyo ngokuhlanganyela kwayo ngaphansi kwesihloko esithi "owesifazane wesabekayo" emhlabeni. Le vidiyo ithole ukubukwa kwezigidi ezingu-4 nezinkulungwane zezimvo ezinyanyekayo. Umphakathi "obekezelayo" awuzange ufake izitatimende ezimbi njengokuthi "Lizzy, zibulale!", "Uhlala kanjani ne-erysipelas enjalo?", "Bhisa lokhu" futhi wazibuza ukuthi kungani abazali bakhe bengaya ekukhipha isisu. Ekuqaleni, uLizzie wacasulwa kakhulu, wamemeza izinsuku ezimbalwa. Kodwa-ke le ntombazane yancipha, yaqoqa amandla futhi yaqaphela ngokuqinile ukuthi kusukela manje uzosiza bonke abantu abahluphekayo ngokuhlukumeza ukubukeka kwabo.
6. U-Lizzy wayenamaphupho angu-4 ayewazisa kakhulu, amathathu kuwo aqaphela: ukuqedela ekolishi, bhala incwadi, ube ngumgqugquzeli we-orator futhi uthole umndeni omkhulu. Okwamanje, umndeni kuphela uhlala ohlelweni. Amanye amaphupho amathathu agcwaliseka: waphumelela eyunivesithi, wabhala izincwadi eziningana nge-psychology futhi wavela njalo ezinkomfeni nasezintweni zezinhlelo ezehlukene ze-TV, esisiza abantu ukuba bathole ukuzethemba.
7. Ungumkhulumeli omuhle. Ividiyo yenkulumo yakhe, ebekiwe ku-YouTube, ibhekwe izikhathi ezingaphezu kwezigidi ezingu-9. U-Lizzie awunabo owaziyo nokuzihlonipha. Kulenkulumo wathi:

"Uma ufuna ukungicasula mina, yimela ngakwesokudla sami - angiboni ilanga elilungile"

8. Wenza idokhumenti mayelana nokuphila kwakhe: Braveheart: Indaba yeLizzie Velasquez.
9. Unomndeni onothando: abazali nomfowabo omncane nodadewabo. Ngemva kokuzalwa kukaLizzie, odokotela batusa abazali bakhe ukuthi bengasenabantwana, besaba ukuthi umuntu okhubazekile angabuye azalwe, kodwa abazali abazange balalele odokotela. UMfoweth 'nodadewethu uLizzy banempilo ngokuphelele. Umndeni unikeza ukusekelwa okukhulu kukaLizzy.

"Ngiyabathanda abazali bami ngaphezu kwalokho engikwazi ukukuveza ngamazwi"

10. Uyazivuma yena njengoba ekhona, futhi akafuni ngempela ukuthola.

"Ngaqaphela ukuthi angifuni ngempela ukuphulukiswa kule syndrome. Uma udokotela athola iphilisi lomlingo engangisiza ukuba ngisindise, angifuni ukuthatha. Lonke lo mzabalazo ungenze lokho engikho manje "

11. Muva nje, esinye isici sokuhlambalaza neLizzie sivele kunethiwekhi. Esithombeni sakhe kubhaliwe:

"UMichael uthe sizohlangana ngemuva kwalesi sihlahla. Usephuzile: ingabe umuntu angammaka esithombeni futhi amtshele ukuthi ngisalinde? "

Intombazane yasabela kulokhu kuthukwa ngesithunzi, yathumela isithombe ekhasini layo kwinethiwekhi yokuxhumana nabantu futhi yabhala:

"Akukhathaleki ukuthi sibheka kanjani nokuthi singakanani esithwalayo, ekugcineni, sonke singabantu. Ngikucela ukuba ukhumbule lokhu uma ubona amakholi anjalo "