Ngaphandle kwezibonakaliso zangaphandle, abantu banokuhlukana komunye nomunye ngezici zomzimba namakhono engqondo, izakhiwo ezingokwengqondo nezingokomoya, ngokulingana. Kusukela kumikhiqizo yayo kuxhomeke ekubukeni komhlaba womuntu, indawo yakhe, uhlobo lomsebenzi, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ukubukeka kwangaphandle. Ukwazi ukuthi uyini umlingiswa, ungakwazi ukuqonda kangcono ubalulekile buntu.
Iyini isimo se-psychology?
Imvelo yomuntu ayithinteki nje kuphela yizici zengqondo, kepha futhi izici zesimiso sezinzwa, imvelo kanye nendilinga yokuxhumana. Ukufutheka komuntu kuyisethi yamakhemikhali ahlukene womuntu obonisa ukuthi yikuphi ukuziphatha kwayo, indlela yokuphila nokuxhumana nabanye.
Kusukela ekubukeni kwengqondo, uhlamvu luhlanganisa izici ezithile zomuntu womqondo nengokomzwelo , okuhlala unomphela futhi ozinzile. Ezikhathini eziningi, kuhlanganiswa yonke inkambo yokuphila futhi kungenziwa ushintsho oluthile ngokuya endleleni yokuphila kanye nemvelo.
Izinhlobo zobuntu bomuntu
Kukhona izinhlobo ezilandelayo zomlingisi:
- I-Choleric - evame ukungalingani, ithathwe, ishintsho olubukhali emoyeni, ngokushesha ukuphelelwa ngokomzwelo.
- I-Sanguine - iselula, ikhiqiza, ikhanda igxilile emsebenzini othakazelisayo, ilahlekelwe inzalo ebhizinisini elihle, ngokushesha liphendula ngesimo esishintshayo futhi ivumelanisa kalula nezinselelo.
- I-melancholic - evame ukuzwa, isengozini, ingabonakali, ayixhomeke kakhulu ezintweni zangaphandle.
- I-Phlegmatic - engaxhunyiwe, efihla imizwelo, ngokuzizwa kahle, ngokulinganisela, ezolile, ngokusebenza okuphezulu.
Yini enquma uhlobo lomuntu?
Njengomthetho, ukwakheka kohlamvu lomuntu kuqala esemncane kakhulu, lapho kuphela ingane isandaqala ukwazi umhlaba futhi iveze umbono wayo. Inqubo yinde, futhi ingathembela kulezi zici ezilandelayo:
- izici zefa;
- umkhathi emndenini nokukhuliswa;
- imvelo, inkampani yabangane;
- ukucaciswa komphakathi, isimo sezombusazwe;
- isigaba somsebenzi womsebenzi.
Izici ezibalulekile ziyoba izimo zokuphila, izindinganiso zokuziphatha nezomoya , amasiko kanye nezinhlelo zenkolo. Ngemva kokuqonda, ukuthi yiziphi izici ezixhomeke kuzo, kungenzeka ukuthi uzame ukulungisa ezinye izici zayo uma kudingeka ukuba uphumelele ngokwengeziwe.
Ingabe izakhi zofuzo zithinta uhlamvu lomuntu?
Ucwaningo oluningi luye lwenziwa ngethonya lokuzalwa ngokwezimpawu zobuntu. Imiphumela yabo ihlukile, kodwa ezimweni eziningi babonisa ukuthi isitolo somuntu siqu sincike kwizici zegciwane. Lena inqubo eyinkimbinkimbi, ngoba uhlamvu luyisethi yezinto, kanti ngamunye wabo akathinteki ngenye ye-allele. Akusizo nje ukuthi isayensi yethu ikhula, futhi kungekudala kuyobe iphephile ukusho ukuthi ingane inenkani futhi ikhuluma, njengoMama nobaba.
Isimo nomlingiswa womuntu
Ubuntu obuyingqayizivele bomuntu uhlamvu lwakhe nobumnene. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umqondo wesibili wuhlelo lwezakhiwo zomqondo womuntu obonisa ukuziphatha kwakhe kanye nezinga lokubhekana nesisusa sangaphandle. Uhlelo olunjalo luyisisekelo sokuthuthukiswa komlingiswa. Kuncike kwizici zesimiso sezinzwa zesintu futhi singazibonakalisa ngokuziphatha, umsebenzi obalulekile nokuxhumana nabanye.
Izimfanelo zobuntu bomuntu
Noma yiziphi izici zobuntu bomuntu kungaba usizo kumuntu, noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, kuyingozi. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, umuntu kufanele aqonde ukuthi intuthuko idinga izici eziqondile, futhi ukulwa nezinhlangothi ezibuthakathaka ukuqondisa yonke amandla. Ezinye izimfanelo zingaba nzima ukufakazela ukuthi zilungile, zingezona noma zingathathi hlangothi, ngoba konke kuzoxhomekeka ezimweni ezithile. Yiziphi izici okumele uzikhethele zona, umuntu ngamunye uzikhethele yena.
Ubuthakathaka bomlingiswa womuntu
Noma yikuphi ukungalungi kohlamvu lomuntu kungathonya kokubili yena nabanye. Phakathi kwabo kungaba:
- ubuvila nokuphuza;
- ukufutheka okusheshayo nokuhlukunyezwa;
- ukuphumula;
- ukusebenza okungaphumeleli;
- ngezinye izikhathi ukuqondisa ngokweqile;
- ukungabi namakhono okuxhumana;
- ukukhathazeka, ukukhathazeka, ukusola;
- ukuzihlonipha nokwehluleka ukwamukela iphuzu lombono womunye umuntu.
Izici ezinjalo zingabonakaliswa ngezinga eliphakeme noma eliphansi cishe wonke umuntu, ngoba azikho abantu abahle. Ukuba khona kwabo akusho neze ukwehlisa ezinye izinzuzo zomnikazi wabo, kodwa kunikeza ithuba lokuzicabangela, ngoba angeke ngaso sonke isikhathi sibe nomthelela ekuthuthukiseni komuntu ngamunye .
Amandla omlingiswa womuntu
Inzuzo ingaba nezimfanelo ezinhle zomlingiswa womuntu:
- ukwethembeka;
- ukukhuthaza nokuziqhenya;
- ukucindezeleka ukumelana;
- ukuzimela;
- isiyalo nokuzikhandla;
- ukuxhumana, ukuhlakanipha nokuzethemba;
- ukugcina isikhathi.
Ngosizo lwezimfanelo ezicutshangwayo, umuntu uyakwazi ukufeza imigomo ebekiwe, ahlanganyele nabanye, abe umngane onokwethenjelwa, umngane wokuphila noma umlingani. Ukuthuthukiswa kwezakhiwo ezinjalo kungasiza ekwandiseni ukukhula, ukukhula komsebenzi kanye nokuvela kwabangane abasha.
Ingabe umuntu angashintsha uhlamvu lwakhe?
Umbuzo wokuthi kungenzeka yini ukuguqula umlingiswa womuntu njalo uyingqikithi, kodwa ayikho impendulo eqondile kuyo. Kunemibono eminingi mayelana nokuthi umlingiswa womuntu ngamunye uvezwa kanjani, ngamunye wawo onelungelo lokuba khona. Omunye uthi isisekelo semvelo senziwa emajeni noma sakhiwe eminyakeni yokuqala yokuphila, futhi zonke izinguquko ezalandela zishintsha kancane kancane izici zokuziphatha noma zengeze kuzo izinguquko ezincane.
Omunye umbono wukuthi phakathi nesikhathi sokuphila lowo muntu uyakwazi ukushintsha izimfanelo zesimilo kuye ngokuthi imvelo ezungezile, izithakazelo ezintsha kanye nabajwayele. Isibonelo, izinguquko ezilandelayo zingenzeka:
- umuntu angaba ngokomzwelo noma, ngokuphambene, avinjelwe;
- qaphela, uhlakaniphile noma ungenandaba nokudala;
- onomthwalo noma ongenandaba;
- enenhlalo noma enenhlalo.
Ezweni lanamuhla, umuntu unezinhlobonhlobo zezindlela zokuziqhenya nokushintsha ezinye zezici zakhe. Zama ukwenza lokhu ngokushintsha imisebenzi, ukhetha indawo, ukushintsha isimo somhlaba nokubukwa empilweni. Kubalulekile ukuthi izinyathelo ezinjalo zihloswe ekuthuthukiseni imikhuba emihle futhi efanelekayo.
Amaqiniso anentshisekelo mayelana nobuntu bomuntu
Njengoba uqonde ukuthi ungubani, ungamazama ukuqonda ukucabangela kwencazelo yayo. Iphuzu elithakazelisayo yindlela yokuthola izici zobungqingili ngokuma kwesimo:
- ubuso befomu lesikwele lingakhuluma ngokungahambisani nokuzikhandla nokuzimela;
- Abantu abanobuso obuyindilinga bavame ukuhlakanipha nokusebenza, kodwa ngokomzwelo;
- oval - enye yezimpawu zokuqonda okujulile nokukhuthaza;
- Ubuningi bomzimba obunxantathu buvame ukuhamba nabantu abadala, abadala.
Ngezinye izikhathi izici zemvelo zingamangaza abanye ngokuphikisana kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, abantu abanamandla, abanesibindi bavaliwe, futhi ama-jokers nama-jokers bangabangane abaqotho kakhulu nabangane abathembekile ekuphileni. Kungaba khona izimo eziphambene kakhulu, ngoba uMama Uhlobo aluzange lunikeze ize umuntu ngamunye ngokuzimela.
Kuvame ukushiwo ukuthi umuntu unomuntu oyinkimbinkimbi, othembekile, olalelayo noma owesabekayo. Imizwelo ehlukahlukene ihlobene nezici zomqondo womuntu, isimo sakhe sengqondo, izici zokuzalwa noma ukukhuliswa. Ukwaziswa ukuthi yiliphi uhlamvu, livumela ukuthi siqonde izici zomuntu ngamunye. Kodwa kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi akuyona uhlamvu olulodwa kuphela olungaba nesinqumo sokuhlolwa komuntu.