Ikhono lokusekela imigomo liqinisekisa ukuphumelela ekufezeni. Akunakwenzeka ukulawula umkhumbi ngaphandle kokwazi ukuthi ungaqhubeka kuphi.
Emphakathini wethu, abantu bahlukana babe izigaba ezimbili: labo "abahamba nokugeleza" nalabo ababona ukuthi bangayiphi indlela yokufeza ukuhamba. Isigaba sesibili sabantu sibuza ukuthi singazi kanjani ubuciko bokusetha nokufeza umgomo. Yilokho okuzoxoxwa namhlanje.
Kungani sidinga ukubeka imigomo?
Kuyadabukisa ukuphila impilo eyi-gray grey and boring, ngaphandle kwemibala evelele nemizwelo. Umsebenzi wasekhaya, umsebenzi wasekhaya, yilokho esasikuphupha njengengane? Njengabantwana, siphupha okuhle kakhulu, okukhulu kakhulu, hhayi okuthobekile. Njengoba sinobudala, saqala ukuvumelana nalokho esikunikezwayo. Kumele silwele impilo engcono, sebenzisa amathuba amasha futhi uvule ulwazi olusha. Funda ukuphupha, khumbula ukuthi kuphume kahle kanjani ebuntwaneni. Wonke umuntu ufuna ukuthuthukisa ikhwalithi yokuphila, kodwa bambalwa abakulungele ukwenza okuthile kulokhu. Izifiso zethu kufanele zibe imigomo.
Ungafunda kanjani ukusetha imigomo ngendlela efanele?
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuthi ufunde indlela yokwenza imicabango yakho. Umuntu kufanele azi ukuthi ufunani. Indima ebalulekile idlala ngokuqonda ukuthi lokhu kufezeka, kubalulekile kuphela ukwenza imizamo. Umgomo owodwa "omkhulu" kufanele uhlukaniswe "ezincane" eziningana. Ngokwenza njalo njalo, uzosondela kulowo oyifunayo. Kungenjalo akufanele besabe ubunzima. Izikhathi eziningi azikwazi ukubikezelwa kusengaphambili, ngakho-ke into esemqoka akukona ukuyeka, kodwa ukuhambisa ngenhloso.
Ungabeka kanjani imigomo nezinhloso?
Lapho okokuqala kuzonikezwa, kubalulekile ukuchaza imisebenzi. Hlela ukuthi yikuphi nokuthi ungakanani isikhathi odingeka uyenze. Bhala konke ebhukwini elihlukile. Namathela ohlelweni lwakho futhi ungashintshi wena. Ukuze uthole umsebenzi ophumelelayo, ungenza ibhodi yokuboniswa isifiso . Dala i-collage yesithombe ngezithombe, isibonelo, indlu ongathanda ukuhlala kuyo, izimoto, ama-dachas, ama-yachts, njll. Nsuku zonke, bheka ngokusebenzisa indalo yakho, unikeze amahora angu-5-10.
Yiziphi izinhloso ozibekele zona?
Njengoba kushiwo ngenhla, imigomo kufanele ifinyeleleke. Lokhu kusho ukungathí sina nomthwalo wemfanelo ezenzweni, okuzoholela ekugcineni. Ungakhohlwa ukuzikhuthaza njalo lapho uphumelele. Ngisho nokunqoba okuncane akufanele kushiywe ngaphandle kokunakwa. Ukuqiniswa okuhle kuzokugqugquzela ukuthi uqhubeke nokusebenza.
Uma ufuna ngempela, konke kuzovela. Khumbula lokhu futhi ukholwe kuwe.