Owesifazane ophumelelayo angabonakala shazi. Futhi akuyona nje ukubaluleka kokubukeka okungenakuqondakala, izingubo ezibizayo nezesekeli. I-aura ekhethekile futhi iveza ukuzethemba okuphelele, okungeke kwenzeke kodwa kubangele umona nesifiso sokulingisa. Abantu abaningi banesithakazelo ekuphenduleni umbuzo wokuthi ungaba kanjani owesifazane ocebile futhi ophumelelayo. Kodwa abesifazane abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi impumelelo enjalo ingaphezu kwamandla abo. Nakuba lokhu kungenjalo nhlobo, udinga nje ukulahla ukungabaza kwakho bese uqala ukwenza.
Indlela yokuceba nokuphumelela - psychology of impumelelo yomuntu siqu
Okokuqala, kudingeka uzibeke umgomo - ufuna ukufezekisa. Lesi iseluleko sokuqala esinikezwa labo abaye banquma ukushintsha izimpilo zabo futhi baphumelele ngokwengeziwe. Lalela intuition yakho siqu, ungayinaki imibono yabanye kanye nezinkolelo zomphakathi. Cabangela kuphela izifiso zakho namakhono akho.
Labo abangathanda ukufunda ukuthi bangaba kanjani abaphumelelayo nabacebile, izazi zengqondo zeluleka:
- ukuthuthukisa uhlelo lokufeza komuntu siqu, kufanele ubhale imisebenzi ethize okufanele uxazulule ukufeza umgomo;
- Ungazami ukuthatha "isisekelo" ngokusheshisa, ube nesineke futhi ungasheshi;
- Ungazami ukugxuma ngaphezu kwekhanda lakho - imigomo ebekiwe kufanele ibe yinto yangempela;
- kholelwa enhlanhleni yakho, ungesabi ubunzima - uzophumelela ngokuqinisekile;
- unesikhathi sokuphumula, zinike isikhathi sokuphumula;
- zama ukukhula okuqhubekayo - kancane kancane ucindezele imisebenzi oyenzayo, ukwandise izidingo zakho;
- Bheka izindlela ezintsha - ukunyakaza kokugudluza ngeke kuholele ekutheni kuvele umphumela;
- ungesabi ukuthatha izingozi bese wenza amaphutha.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, akufanele sikhohlwe ukuthi ukuthembela kowesifazane ngamakhono akhe kuxhomeke ekubukeni. Isihluthulelo, sigqoke, sihlamba noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, umuntu onamahloni angeke aphumelele. Le nkosikazi kufanele ibe nenhle, inambithe izingubo, ikhulume ngethoni ecacile futhi ecacile, ayivumeli amagama angamahlaya enkulumweni, engakhulumi amazwi, angangena emiphakathini yomphakathi, angazi ukuthi udlala noma udlala ngothando. Uyayazi ukubaluleka kwakhe futhi wenza abanye baziqaphele kakhulu.
Ungaba kanjani owesifazane ocebile futhi ophumelelayo
Abanye besifazane baxazulula inkinga yendlela yokuceba nokuphumelela, bangasiza u-conspiracy ukuheha imali nenhlanhla. Funda kufanele kube ngoMsombuluko, endlini okufanele ube yedwa. Kudingekile ukuba ume emafasiteleni abheke empumalanga noma empumalanga yefulethi (indlu), uthathe uhlamvu lwe-ruble elisha eli-10 ne-shiny, bese ukhuluma noma ufunde izikhathi eziyisikhombisa phezu kwalo ngokuzwakalayo: "U-Eliya umprofethi wezingelosi ezingamakhulu ama-convokes - isakhiwo sasezulwini ubeka, igolide nge-silver melts. Insimbi ihlangana ndawonye, ubuyela okuhle endlini yenceku kaNkulunkulu (igama lakhe) . " Le mali kufanele isuswe esikhwameni, sigqoke kuyo unomphela, kungabi namuntu
Indlela yokuceba nokuphumelela ngosizo lomlingo?
Thola impendulo yombuzo wokuthi ungaba kanjani owesifazane ocebile futhi ophumelelayo ungaba futhi ngosizo lwemikhuba elula yemilingo. Isibonelo, faka intambo yemilingo ngenhlanhla: uthathe izintambo ezinzima zokubopha obomvu nokuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, zibenze i-pigtail ejwayelekile, cabanga ukuthi ugibela izifiso zakho kuwo, bese uyibeka ngakwesokunxele sakho (noma ekhanda lakho). Udinga ukugqoka izintambo ukuze kungabikho muntu ongayibona. Ungakwazi futhi ukukhokhisa inhlanhla yepini evamile: uthele ku-saucer ngamashukela amathathu welayisi, ushukela nosawoti, ubambe iphini evulekile bese ushiya ubusuku. Ekuseni, phini ezembatho lapho ungaboni khona. Ngokuqinisekile uzoletha impumelelo ebhizinisini.