Umzali ngamunye uzama ukutshela izingane zakhe iqiniso elilula - ingane kufanele ibe nesibopho samagama nezenzo zakhe. Kodwa-ke, ngokuvamile abazali ngokwabo bashintsha umthwalo wabo wemfanelo kubantwana kubafundisi noma izingane ngokwabo. Batshela lesi simo ngomsebenzi emsebenzini noma ukungabi nesikhathi. Futhi akubona wonke umuntu oqonda ukuthi umthwalo wabazali uyisici esiyinhloko somndeni oyisibonelo lapho ingane engeke ibe khona umlutha noma izidakamizwa.
Uyini umqondo othi "Umthwalo wemfanelo wabazali" uhlanganisa:
- Imfundo yezingane . Lapha kufanele kuqaphele ngokukhethekile umthwalo wabazali ngokuziphatha kwezingane, ngoba indlela abakhulisa ngayo ingane yabo esikhathini esizayo izocabangela ukuziphatha kwakhe.
- Ukunakekela ukuthuthukiswa ngokomzimba, kwengqondo, kokuziphatha nangokomoya kwezingane. Abazali banesibopho sabantwana, futhi banesibopho sokunikeza ingane ngemfundo ejwayelekile. Yonke ingane kufanele ihambe esikhungweni semfundo.
- Ukuvikelwa kwezintshisekelo zezingane. Njengoba abazali bengabameli bezomthetho izingane ezincane, banelungelo lokufakazela amalungelo abo kanye nezithakazelo ngokuphathelene nabantu bobabili bezomthetho nabangokwemvelo.
- Ukuhlinzeka ngokuphepha. Umthwalo wabazali ngokuphepha kwezingane akukhanseliwe, okusho ukuthi abazali abanelungelo lokulimaza impilo yengqondo, ngokomzimba nokuziphatha kwezingane zabo.
- Ukugcinwa kwezingane ngaphambi kokuba bekhulile. Abazali abanelungelo lokudalula ingane emnyango ngaphambi kokuba bafinyelele eminyakeni yobudala.
Umthetho wemfanelo womzali
Isivumelwano SamaLungelo Ingane simemezela ukuthi abazali banomthwalo wemfanelo oyinhloko wokukhuliswa nokuthuthukiswa kwengane enesithakazelo esiyinhloko okufanele kube yinto ebaluleke kakhulu kubazali.
Ngenxa yokwehluleka ukwenza noma ukungasebenzi kahle kwemisebenzi yokwakhiwa kwezingane, abazali bangalethwa ezinhlobonhlobo ezahlukene zomthwalo wezomthetho:
- ukuphatha (Isigaba 5.35 soMthetho Weziphambeko Zokuphatha ZaseRussia Federation "Ukuhluleka kwabazali noma abanye abameleli bezomthetho zabantwana ukuze kulondolozwe nokukhuliswa kwabantwana");
- Umthetho-mthetho (Izigaba 1073 - 1075 ze-Civil Code)
ikhodi ye-Russian Federation); - umndeni-wezomthetho (Isigaba 69 ("Ukunqotshwa kwamaLungelo omzali"), 73 ("Ukunciphisa Amalungelo Omzali") weKhodi Yomndeni YeRussian Federation);
- ubugebengu (Isigaba 156 soMthetho Wezobugebengu We-Russian Federation ("Ukuhluleka ukufeza imisebenzi yokukhuliswa kwengane")).
Umthwalo wabazali ngezingane unqunywe ngumsebenzi wokufundisa izingane zabo, ukunakekela impilo yabo yengqondo nengqondo , kanye nokuthuthukiswa kokuziphatha.