Ukuthuthukiswa ngokomzimba kwengane kuze kube yonyaka
Ngakho-ke, umntwana osanda kuzalwa kufanele abe nesisindo esingama-3-3.5 kilogram futhi abe nokwanda kwamamitha angu-50-53. Lapho ezalwa, unezimpikiswano ezithile zokuzalwa: ukuphuza, ukukhanya nokucabangela. Futhi emva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa ingane iqala ukubona umhlaba ozungezile futhi uzwe kangcono. Ngenyanga eyi-1 yokuphila kwakhe umntwana uvame ukukhula ngamasentimitha amaningana futhi athole kangcono ngamagremu angu-800. Kufanele kakade akwazi ukuzimela ngokuzenzekelayo ikhanda endaweni yokuma imizuzwana embalwa bese uphendula imisindo.
Ngenyanga yesibili, izinyane livele ligxila kubantu, kodwa likhula kakhulu. Imisipha yomlomo wesibeletho iba namandla, futhi igcina ikhanda libe ngcono futhi lide, lilele esiswini bese lizama ukuphakamisa isifuba nekhanda.
Ngenyanga yesine, i-crumb iba cishe ngamamitha angu-62-66, futhi isisindo sika 6-6.7 kilogram. Ukulala embhedeni wakhe, usuvele ekhuphuka ngokuzethemba, encike ezinhlangeni zakhe, futhi ephethe ikhanda ngokuzimela. Funda ukuguqula ngemuva ngemuva kwesisu sakhe, uthatha izibambiso zamathoyizi, uthuthukise la makghono asemotheni. I-Kid isivele iyayiqaphela umama wayo futhi imomotheka kuye ngokucophelela.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ezinyangeni ezingu-5-6 ingane iqala ukuhlala phansi, idlale ngamathoyizi futhi ukhulume amagama okuqala. Esikhathini esilandelayo, ingane iqala ukuzama ukuma emilenzeni, ixhomeke esibuyeni, iqonde lokho abantu abadala abakushoyo futhi uzame ukuphendula ngendlela ethile. Kodwa ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila ukukhula kwemvuthu kufinyelela kumamitha angu-74-78, futhi isisindo sishintsha cishe 10 kilogram. Ngonyaka usuqala ukuhamba ngokuzimela, angaphakamisa indaba ngokwayo, futhi ngesigama sakhe samagama amazwi ezingane zokuqala.
Ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo kwengane kuze kube yonyaka
Esikhathini sokusukela ekuzaleni kuze kube unyaka emva kokuthuthukiswa kwengane, kuyadingeka ukuba uqaphelisise futhi uqaphele noma yiziphi izinto ezincane. Isici salesi sikhathi yisivinini esiphuthumayo sokuthuthukiswa kwazo zonke izinqubo ezingokomqondo nezingokomzwelo, ngakho-ke ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakho iqala ngokujwayelekile, udinga ukubona izinto eziholayo futhi uziqhathanise nokusebenza kwengane yakho. Isibonelo, esinye sezizathu zokuphambuka kungase kube ukuwohloka kokuzwa. Ukuze uqiniseke, hambisa amamitha ambalwa kusuka emincintiswaneni bese ushukumisa ukuxuba. Ngenxa yalokho, ingane kufanele iphenduke amehlo noma ibuye ikhondle. Kuze kube unyaka wonke ukuthuthukiswa kwengane kwenzeka ngokuzumayo.
Izinkinga ekuthuthukiseni izingane ezingaphansi konyaka owodwa azidluli kalula futhi zimane nje: izingane zivame ukungenangqondo, ukubhekana nazo kuba nzima kunokuba zijwayelekile, futhi zithi "hang" kumama wazo. Izinkathi ezinzima ziyabonakala cishe kuzo zonke izingane nangesikhathi esifanayo. Izigaba zokuthuthukiswa kwengane kuze kube yilapho zilandela isimiso esilandelayo: ama-5, 8, 12, 19, 26, 37, 46, 55, 64, amaviki angu-75 okuphila.
Ekuphetheni, ngingathanda ukusho ukuthi ukuthuthukiswa okujwayelekile kwezingane kuze kube unyaka ochaziwe ngenhla ngokuqinisekile kungaba okuhlukile, ngoba zonke izingane zihluke ngokuphelele. Abazali akufanele bathukuthele uma ingane ingemuva, udinga nje ukwenza okunye naye futhi udlale imidlalo yokuthuthukisa, futhi wenze isethi yokuzivocavoca umzimba. Kukhona nabantwana abanjalo, ngokuphambene nalokho, bakhula ngokushesha kakhulu kunezimiso ezijwayelekile, kepha lokhu akusona isizathu sokucasula. Siza ingane ukuba ithuthuke kahle, idlale nayo, ikhulume futhi ukhokhele kangako ngangokunokwenzeka.