Ukuqala kwesikole kubaluleke kakhulu ekuphileni komntwana ngamunye nabazali bakhe. Njengomthetho, izingane ezineminyaka engama-6-7 zikhombisa isithakazelo esimweni somfundi nokulungela ukuzama kule ndima. Kodwa lokhu ukuzimisela nazo zonke izifiso eziqhakazile ezihambisana nengane nesikole ngokuvamile ziphulwe ngokumelene nodonga lokucindezeleka okuzohlangana nazo zonke izimboni zokuqala. Ushintsho ezimweni zokuphila, umbuso wosuku, uhlobo lomsebenzi oholayo kudinga uhlobo olunzima lwazo zonke izinsiza zomzimba. Ukusiza abantwana, okokuqala ngqa bewela umgoqo wesikole, izinhlelo zokuzivumelanisa ezikhethekile zokuqala zokuqamba zidalwa futhi zifezekiswe othisha nabahlengikazi. Kodwa ngokuzivumelanisa okuphumelelayo kakhulu futhi okusheshayo, kubalulekile nokuba abazali bahlanganyele ngokuzikhandla kuyo, ngubani onganikeza ingane usizo oludingekayo nokusekelwa kulo mzuzu obukhulu kuye.
Yini eguquguqukayo?
Ukuguquguquka ukuguquka kwesimo semvelo kuya kwezimo ezintsha zokuba khona. Ukushintshwa kwezigaba zokuqala esikoleni kuhamba ezinyangeni ezimbili kuya kwezingu-6 futhi kunezigaba ezintathu eziyinhloko:
- Ukushintshashintsha kwengqondo kwezingqalasizinda zokuqala. Esikhathini somphakathi wesikole, ingane iqala ngokucacile ukuzizwa njengomuntu. Uzenzela ukuzihlola, izinga lezicelo zokuphumelela esikoleni, imikhuba yokuziphatha nabanye. Futhi iphuzu elibalulekile ukuguqulwa komsebenzi wokudlala, njengowokuhola, emsebenzini wokufundisa. Zonke izingane zinamazinga ahlukene ekuqeqeshweni kwezemfundo zokuqala, ngakho-ke ukugwema ukungahambi kahle kwengqondo, kungcono ukugwema emakhonweni isikhathi sokujwayela abakwa-first-graderers.
- Izici zezenhlalakahle zokuhlelwa kwezigaba zokuqala esikoleni. Ingane ivumelanisa neqoqo elisha, ufunde ukuxhumana, ixazulule izinkinga ezivela emphakathini nezinkinga. Kubalulekile ukusiza ingane ukuthi iphendule kahle ekuhluphekeni ekukhulumisaneni futhi ibanqobe.
- Ukuvumelanisa okungokwemvelo kokuqala kwe-graders. Izifundo zifaka izinguquko zamakhadi endleleni yokuphila kwengane, kuhlanganise nendawo yayo yomzimba. Kuyinto engavamile ukuba ingane ihlale isikhathi eside endaweni eyodwa, ingenalo umsebenzi ojwayelekile ngokomzimba kanye nenkululeko yesenzo. Kubalulekile ukuhlela ngokuhlelekile umbuso wosuku, ukushintsha izinto ngokuphumula.
Izincomo zokulungiswa kwezigaba zokuqala zabazali
Ukuze kuhlangane ngokubambisana nazo zonke izinkinga zokuguqula izigaba zokuqala esikoleni, kubalulekile ukukhombisa ukuhlanganyela nokuqonda. Amathiphu alula alandelayo azokusiza wena nomntanakho ukuba udlule zonke izivivinyo ngenhlonipho ekuqaleni komsebenzi wokuqeqesha futhi kuzoba yisihluthulelo sokuqhubekela phambili impumelelo.
- Ungadluli ingane, mnike ithuba lokuhlala isikhathi esithile. Isifiso sabazali ukumboza yonke into futhi ngaso sonke isikhathi kuvame ukuholela eqinisweni lokuthi ingane ehlanganyela emibuthanweni eyengeziwe kanye nezigaba isebenza ngokugcwele, okuholela ekunciphiseni ukusebenza komsebenzi wezemfundo, ukuhlukaniswa kanye nokucasula. Ngakho-ke, uma imidlalo noma umculo kubaluleke kakhulu, kungcono ukuqala ukushayela ingane kubo isikhathi eside ngaphambi kokuqala konyaka wokuqala wezifundo noma ulinde omunye unyaka;
- uma kunokwenzeka, zama ukugwema ukunwetshwa ebangeni lokuqala, ngoba kuzoba yinto eyengeziwe yokucindezeleka yengane;
- ingane kumele iphumule. Ungamenze ahlale phansi ukuze afunde izifundo ngemuva kwesikole - udinga isikhathi sokubuyisela ukuhlushwa. Okukhethwa kukho emva kokuhamba amakilasi kuzoba ukuhamba okusebenzayo, futhi kubalulekile ukulala kokuqala kokulala kwansuku zonke. Isikhathi esihle sokusebenzela ekhaya kusihlwa - kusukela emahoreni angu-17 ukuya kwangu-19;
- dumisa ingane yakho njalo ngangokunokwenzeka. Umzila okhohliwe wenkondlo noma ibhulogi encwadini yezincwadi akuyona isizathu sokunciphisa ukuzethemba kwengane
ukugxeka kwabo; - Lalela ngokucophelela izindaba zezingane mayelana nesikole, siphe impendulo. Uma umqashi wokuqala ekhuluma okuthile, khona-ke kubaluleke kakhulu kuye, ngakho-ke, kufanelekile ukunakwa;
- ukubuka ngokucophelela ingane - uma ubuthongo, isifiso, isifiso esilahlekile sokuya esikoleni, kuyisibonakaliso esiqinisekisayo sokuthi ukuzivumelanisa akuyona into elula;
- ukudala umoya okhululekile kukho konke okuphathelene nesikole - ngokukhetha icala lepensela, ukuqedela nge-hairdo. Ngesikhungo sezemfundo kufanele sihlotshaniswe nemizwa emihle kakhulu bese ingane ingaphumeleli ukukujabulisa ngokuphumelela.