Noma yimuphi umuntu eplanethi ngemuva kosuku olumatasa ulala. Omunye ulele kakhulu, ezinye zimbalwa, kodwa bonke abantu babona amaphupho. Omunye amaphupho amaphupho ombala , omunye umuntu omnyama nomhlophe, othile okhanyayo nombala, othile omfushane futhi obala. Abanye abantu bakhumbula amaphupho abo, abanye abakwenzi.
Ngokombono wabantu abaningi ephusheni, ukungaqondi komuntu uzama ukumtshela okuthile, ukumvikela kunoma yiziphi izimo, kusikisela isinyathelo esithile ekuphileni. Ukuze ukwazi ukuthola amaphupho anjalo kunombhalo omkhulu wezincwadi zephupho lapho abantu abadumile abahlukahlukene bekhetha amaphupho ahlukene.
Kungani uphupha ukuqoqa amazambane?
Ezincwadini ezahlukene zokuphupha, ukuqoqa amazambane amakhulu ngephupho, abalobi abaningi bayavuma ukuthi umuntu ophupha iphupho elinjalo uzoba nhlanhla emisebenzini nasemalini. Mhlawumbe uzothola ukukhushulwa ekukhuleni kweholo noma ibhonasi enkulu yomsebenzi othile owenziwe.
Kungani ukhumbula mayelana nokuqoqa amazambane amancane ngephupho - khona-ke umuntu angalindela ukudumazeka kuleso simo, okwamanje oholayo noma osanda kuqalwa. Uma amazambane anjalo futhi ebolile, kusho ukuthi ungaphonsa ngokuphepha, okubalulekile manje futhi uqale okusha, okuholela empumelelweni .
Uma umuntu eqoqa amazambane ensimini ephusheni, khona-ke lapho abaningi bengakwazi lokhu. Futhi lokhu kusho ukuthi umuntu kuzodingeka asebenze kanzima futhi asebenze kanzima ukuze athole imiphumela. Uma uqoqa amazambane ngezandla zakho - lokhu kubonisa imiphumela embi kakhulu ngamandla amaningi namandla. Uma uqoqa amazambane ngefosholo, futhi amazambane amakhulu futhi amahle ngesikhathi esifanayo, kusho ukuthi inhlanhla isihlelile futhi umsebenzi uzokhokha ngokuphindwe kabili.
Umuntu ngamunye unquma ukuthi ukukholelwa ekushiwo yizincwadi zephupho noma cha, kodwa ochwepheshe iningi bathambekele eqinisweni lokuthi amaphupho ngamazambane ahle kakhulu.