Uma nje usanda kuhlukaniswa nendoda, ukubonakala kwakhe ephusheni akuyona into engavamile, ngoba lezi yizikhumbuzo nje zobuhlobo obudlule. Ukuchaza iphupho kuyadingeka kuphela lapho kwenzeka ukuthi isikhathi eside akukho ukuxhumana nomuntu owayengumthandi wangaphambili. Ngenxa yalokhu, kubalulekile ukukhumbula imininingwane eningi ngangokunokwenzeka esigcawini.
Yini umlingani wangaphambili ophuphayo?
Enye yezincwadi zokuphupha kunolwazi lokuthi umbono obusuku obunjalo usho ukuthi maduzane ubuhlobo obuvela esikhathini esidlule buzozikhumbuza futhi, mhlawumbe, iphupho lizolibuyisela. Iphupho lapho ubudlelwane nomuntu wangaphambili obudala khona, njengokungathi kwakungekho ukuhlukaniswa, kubonisa ukuthi imizwa yalo muntu igcine ikhohliwe ngokuphelele. Uma lowo owayengumthandi wangaphambili ephupha njalo, khona-ke umphuphi empilweni yangempela ngokuvamile wenza izenzo ezinengqondo. Ngokufanayo, ingqondo engaqondakali inikeza iseluleko ukuthi kuyadingeka ukuhlaziya ukuziphatha komuntu. Kukhona enye inketho, kungani ngokuvamile umlingani wangaphambili ephupha, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi owesifazane akakwazi ukuyeka ukudlula, futhi lokhu kunomthelela omubi empilweni yangempela. Sekuyisikhathi sokumisa futhi uqhubeke phambili.
Iphupho lomuntu owayengumthandi wesifazane ohlukanisile yi-harbinger yenkinga eyohambisana nokugula, impahla nezingane. Izinkinga zezempilo zibikezela ingxoxo nomngane wangaphambili. Sifunda ukuthi kusho ukuthini uma umlingani wangaphambili ephupha ebuhlotsheni obusha kuyisibonakaliso esihle, esichaza isikhathi sokuzijabulisa esimnandi nomndeni. Ukubona umuntu owayengumthandi owayengumomothekayo usho ukuthi kunomqondo ophezulu ukuthi umlingani wamanje awunamathemba. Kunconywa ukuthi uhlolisise okhethiwe.
Kungani uphupha ukuba usondelene nomuntu othandekayo?
Ubulili ephusheni ngendoda esele idlulile empilweni yakho, kubonisa ukuthi maduzane kuzokubhekana nama-echoes asedlule. I-French kiss kanye nomuntu owayengumthandi wangaphambili imelela ukumangala okumele kutholakale esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Ibhuku lephupho alisho ukuthi ngabe lizoba lihle yini noma libi.
Kungani unengxabano nomuntu wangaphambili?
Iphupho lapho uxabana nabathandi bokuqala uthembisa ushintsho empilweni ezokwenzeka esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Awudingi ukukhathazeka, ngoba izinguquko ziyoba zithutha. Uma kwenzeka ukuthi lesi sikhalazo sifinyelele empini ephusheni - lokhu kuyinkomba yokuthi ebuhlotsheni nomuntu wamanje kunezinkinga ezinkulu, okuyinto ezimweni eziningi ezihlobene nomhawu.