Kungani uphupha ukuphuza iwayini elibomvu?

Amaphupho abonakalisa ukuphila kwangempela komuntu olele - imicabango yakhe, izifiso kanye nethemba. Isiphuzo esinjalo esiphundu ephusheni, njengewayini elibomvu, linokuxhumana nomuntu wangaphakathi, izifiso zakhe ebuhlotsheni bobulili obuhlukile namakhono emkhakheni wokukhula kobuchwepheshe. Imininingwane eyengeziwe mayelana namaphupho okuphuza iwayini elibomvu izokwaziswa kulesi sihloko.

Ukuchazwa kwephupho

Okubaluleke kakhulu isimo, izimo lapho umuntu olele khona ephathwa khona ngesiphuzo esinjalo kanye nemizwelo abhekana nayo ngesikhathi esifanayo. Kulabo abanesithakazelo ukuthi kunjani ukuphuza iwayini egumbini elihlotshiswe ngokucebile etafuleni elihlotshiswe kahle, ungaphendula ngokuthi isivumelwano esinenzuzo kakhulu noma isivumelwano sizosayinwa empilweni yangempela. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ukusetshenziswa okunengqondo kotshwala obushushu kanye nombono ozwakalayo ngokubambisana okuzayo, okuvela kulowo mphupha angazuza kuphela. Kodwa uma edakwa ngenkathi ingxoxo, singaphetha ngokuthi esimweni samanje asikho kahle kakhulu, yiziphi abalingani abangalungile abangasebenzisa.

Uma umndeni wakhiwe ephusheni emndenini, kusho ukuthi kukhona umkhosi emndenini - yisikhumbuzo, umshado, njll. Abantu ababili bobulili obuhlukile bayathunyelwa endaweni yokuzizwa etafuleni. Labo ababuza ukuthi kungani baphupha ukuphuza iwayini elibomvu kowesifazane wesilisa othakazelisayo kuye, kufanelekile ukuphendula ukuthi angathembela ekuzizweni komunye, futhi ukufutheka kuyoba namandla ngokuvumelana nokuhambisana nombala wesiphuzo. Kodwa-ke, ngenkathi le ndoda ephusheni kufanele yona inakekele lona wesifazane.

Akuyona incazelo enhle ebuthongweni, lapho isiphuzo siphambuka khona esibukweni esiqhekekile. Uthando olubulalayo lungalimaza idumela layo. Kodwa labo abanesithakazelo kulokho abaphupha ngakho iwayini elibomvu egumbini, eliphuka ngaleso sikhathi, ungaphendula ngokuthi lesi isibonakaliso esihle. Phela, ukushaya izitsha kuhlale kunenhlanhla. Enye into ukuthi ngabe isiphuzo kumele sitshalwe. Empeleni, kungase kube nenkinga enkulu njengokungathengani umngane, ukulahlekelwa imali, ukungavumelani nomuntu othandekayo.

Labo ababuza ukuthi kungani baphupha ukuphuza iwayini elibomvu elimnandi futhi elihlwabusayo kakhulu kufanele batshelwe ukuthi lophupathi ulindele impumelelo nokuqashelwa, impumelelo ebhizinisini, inhlalakahle yomndeni. Kodwa uma isiphuzo siphulwa, khona-ke empilweni yangempela, izingxabano ezincane, izingxabano emsebenzini nasemakhaya, ukulahlekelwa kwezimali ezincane akukwazi ukugwema.