Yini engabangela ukucabangisisa kwengane esibukweni?
Ngokuvamile, abantu abathambekele ekukholelweni okuyimfihlakalo, banikeza izimpendulo ezinjalo kumbuzo wokuthi kungani izingane ezincane zingaboniswa esibukweni:
- Njengoba le nto isikhathi eside ibhekwa njengento engabonakaliyo yemikhosi yemilingo yabalimi nabathakathi ngisho nendawo yokufaka ingosi enye ingxenye, isibuko kuthiwa sikwazi ukuthatha ingxenye yomphefumulo wayo kusukela ebantwaneni.
- Ngokweminye imithombo, ithazamisa amandla abantwana, okwenza njengesiphampi esingokomoya. Ngenxa yalokho, ingane yakho iba mhlophe, ingenangqondo, amandla akhe ayancipha - yingakho ungeke ubonise izinsana esibukweni.
- Abazali bangabhekana nokulibaziseka ekuthuthukiseni inkulumo enganeni, kanye nokuphelelwa isikhathi.
- Esinye sezizathu ezibaluleke kakhulu ukuthi kungani ingane ingakwazi ukuboniswa esibukweni ukuthi abantwana abangaphansi kweminyaka yobudala bangabona kuye imimoya evela emva kokufa futhi besaba kakhulu.
- Ukwesaba kwengane kuvame ukuhlotshaniswa neqiniso lokuthi esemncane akaziboni njengomuntu ohlukile futhi uvame ukubona isibuko sakhe kabili njengomhlobo "wezihambi".
Lokhu kuholela ekucindezelekeni okwengeziwe. - Ekugcineni, ingane ayiyona ehlanzekile futhi ingakwazi ukuphulula isibuko futhi ihlukumeze.
Imikhawulo yobudala
Ngokuqondene nokuthi ingane ayikwazi yini ukuboniswa esibukweni, imibono ihluke lapha. Ngokuvamile kuthiwa akufanele anike indodana noma indodakazi yakhe ukuba ibheke ukucabanga kwabo ngonyaka, kodwa ngokuvamile kulokhu kubaluleke kakhulu ukulinda ubhapathizo : khona-ke ingane yakho iyoba nengelosi yakhe yokugcina.