Izipho zashadile emshadweni

Umshado uyinto ejabulisayo ekuphileni kwabantu ababili abanothando, okuhambisana nesidlo sokugubha, ukudansa, kumnandi. Ayikho imikhosi engakwazi ukuyenza ngaphandle kokunikeza izipho kulabo abasanda kushada emshadweni.

Ngemuva kokuthola isimemo somshado, isivakashi ngasinye siqala ukubheka isipho. Ukukhetha izipho kwabashadayo emshadweni akuyona into elula. Emva kwakho konke, ngifuna isipho sibe yinto yokuqala, sidingekile futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuthi uyathanda umakoti nomkhwenyana. Ngomshado kuyisiko ukunikeza izipho ezibizayo, ezinkulu. Izivakashi zanamuhla zikhetha ukuletha imibhangqwana emisha efana nemali. Noma kunjalo, kuwumkhuba wokwengeza isipho semali ngenkumbulo, into yokuqala, izimbali noma into eyenziwa ngezandla zomuntu siqu. Ngezansi uhlu lwezipho ezithandwa kakhulu futhi ezifunwa ngabangashadile emshadweni:

Ukuze isipho sikhuphe isivunguvungu sangempela semizwelo emihle, kufanele sihanjiswe kahle. Ukuze wenze lokhu, kufanele ukhethe isilwane esifanelekayo, inkondlo, noma ukhumbule isimo esithakazelisayo sokuphila komshado ongashadile osanda kushada. Izipho ezijabulisayo kulabo abasanda kushada emshadweni kufanele zihanjiswe esidlangalaleni, zidale ukuhleka phakathi kwezivakashi futhi zijabule wonke umuntu. Kuyaziwa ukuthi emshadweni, akubona nje abashadayo abathola izipho. Kukhona isiko ngokusho ukuthi phakathi nesikhathi sokugubha labo abasanda kushada banikezwa ngezipho ezincane izivakashi zabo. Izipho ezithandwa kakhulu kuzivakashi ezivela kwabashadayo:

Emazweni aseNtshonalanga, izipho izivakashi ezivela abasanda kushada ngokuvamile zifakwa etafuleni phambi kwazo zonke izivakashi ngisho nangaphambi kokuba umkhosi uqale. Emasikweni ethu awekho imiyalelo ecacile - abashadile bangase bajabulise izivakashi zabo ngezipho nganoma isiphi isikhathi somkhosi. Isipho kuyithuba elihle lokuveza isimo sakho sengqondo esihle kumuntu. Futhi ukuthi isipho somshado sikhunjulwa isikhathi eside, kufanele sikhethwe futhi sinikezwe ngothando olukhulu.