Ngokwenza okuthile, abantu abaningi basebenzisa ukucabanga ngokuqondene nabo kuphela, ngakho bangalindela "umphumela we-boomerang" noma ukuphindiselela nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Nazi izibonelo zendlela abantu abajezisana ngayo.
Kunezimo lapho izingxoxo nezixwayiso zingasebenzi kubantu, khona-ke kufanele uqhubekele ezenzweni ezingathí sina ukuze ufundise umoni wezimiso zokuziphatha okuvamile. Ukuziphindiselela okunjalo ngokuvamile kuyimvelo ehlekisayo, futhi manje uzoqiniseka ngalokhu.
1. Ngabona indlela le ndoda iphosa ngayo inkunkuma emgwaqweni, ngathola incwadi nekheli elithombeni, ngakho angizange ngibe nesilima kakhulu futhi ngimenze abuyele.
2. Lesi sithombe singaba iphosta enesignesha "Izikweletu kufanele zibuyiselwe ngesikhathi."
3. Khumbula njalo ukuthi amakati ayaphikisa futhi nganoma yisiphi ithuba abazoziphindiselela ngokuqinisekile konke.
4. Ukuziqhenya kwabasebenzi benkonzo kuyisenzakalo esivamile, futhi kubalulekile ukulwa nalo, isibonelo, kanje.
5. Uma ukhuluma ngokukhululekile nabakhi abasebenza eceleni kwegalaji lakho, ke ulindele ukuphendula okungajabulisayo.
6. Akuyona into yokumangazelela enye intombazane emotweni, bese-ke uzodinga ukuchitha isikhathi lapho ubhekene nefilimu.
7. Sichitha isikhathi eside sibheka indawo yokupaka mahhala, kanti omunye umuntu wayekhona phambi kwekhala lakhe. Nayi inguqulo yokuziphindiselela, kodwa ihlazo.
8. Omakhelwane, ohlelweni lwe-alamu aluvumelanga ukulala ubusuku bonke, banqunywa ngezinyathelo ezimbi kakhulu zokuphindiselela.
9. Abaculi basemgwaqweni abathandi uma umsebenzi wabo uhlala uyigugu. Baziphindiselela ngesitayela sabo.
10. Ukuphindiselela ngokwengxenye kubuyisela ubulungisa kuleli zwe.
11. Ngingathanda ukubheka lo mshayeli wezintaba, owashiya imoto endaweni engafanelekanga kakhulu.
12. Kuyinto evamile ukuncintisana nabathintekayo ngokuqinile ngangokunokwenzeka. Manje wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi ngubani ohlala kule ndawo.
13. Abakhi bembuza lo muntu ukuthi agijime imoto, wavuma ngenkani, wabe eseya endlini yangasese. Wenzé ize-manje sekudingekile izikhathi eziningi ukuxolisa.
14. Izilwane nazo zingaphelelwa yisikhathi, futhi intombazane eye yahlupha ipeni isikhathi eside isizizwele yona ngokugcwele.
15. Ukufundisa abashayeli bezigovu ukupaka kahle ezindaweni zokuthenga, lapho kunzima khona ukuthola indawo yamahhala, kufanele usebenzise izinyathelo ezahlukene zokujezisa.
16. Owesabekayo kakhulu ukuphindisela kwabesifazane, ngakho-ke, madoda, qiniseka kubangane bakho.
17. Izinja ziyazi igama elithi "isimiso", ngakho-ke lungele ukuxolisa futhi ukhohlise isilwane sakho.
18. Ungabeki indawo intombi, ngoba kukhona into efana ne-karma esheshayo.