Isono esonakele (ukuziphatha kabi ) - ubufebe, ukuzitika ngamanyala, izinkanuko.
Esimweni lanamuhla, "imindeni" ihlangene, inani lamalungu okudlula ngokucacile ifomu le-M + F, elijwayele kusukela ebuntwaneni. Futhi akuwona uthando lwezintambo ezintathu, lapho umngane ongathandabuzayo egijima phakathi kwekamelo lokulala nomzwelo omusha. Futhi ngisho nangemindeni yaseSweden. Kusukela ezikhathini zamuva, amahlelo ayenziwa ngokwengeziwe, lapho abahlanganyeli bakhuthazwa ukuba bahlanganyele emibuthanweni ngenxa yenkululeko yangaphakathi nokuvumelana. Umndeni - leli gama alilona iqiniso ngalesi simo, kodwa kunalokho kuchaza ngokunembile isimo sengqondo sabase-sectari ngokwabo. Imali yabo, ngokulandelanayo, ayifani neze neqembu lezithakazelo. Okungenani ngoba bonke abalingisi abaphumeki ... Akunakwenzeka. Ukuzwa ukuvunyelwa nokukhululeka, ukuhamba kwenkambinkimbi engapheliyo, ukufika njalo "inyama emisha" ukuqinisa uvalwe futhi ubuyele empilweni yakudala akusatholakali. Lokhu kwavelaphi?
Ingabe isono eRussia isenzo?
Abanye abantu bathola isizathu sokuthi isono eRussia sasiyinto engokwemvelo futhi, ngaphezu kwalokho, siyadingeka njengendlela yokukhulekela. Kodwa ake sibone ukuthi lolu lwazi lunokwethenjelwa.
Imithombo eminingi ithi abantu baseRussia baqhubeka beya izinkuni ekhaya (into efana ne-phallus). Wayengumuntu wesitho sobulili sikaYarila, unkulunkulu welanga. Ngaphezu kwalokho, eholidini likaJarilin nangosuku luka-Ivan Kupala, i-goy yayiyisimo esibophezelayo semikhuba ethile. Ngakho-ke, ngokwesibonelo, kwelinye lawo umfana oveze i-Yarilu wenza ukukhulelwa komhlaba. Ngenxa yalokhu waya emasimini ngehhashi elimhlophe, ehamba zekhanda okhalweni, ngekhanda ngakwesinye isandla kanye ne-goy yokhuni kwenye. Emhlabathini babamba umgodi ngezandla zabo, bagcwalisa ngamanzi nobhiya, babuza u-Yaril ukuthi angeneli ("uvule") eMhlabeni. Izigameko ezintathu zanciphisa i-goy emgodini, okwathi ngemva kwalowo wangcwatshwa.
Lesi sibonelo sodwa sikhombisa ukuthi eRussia abantu babengekho namahlaya kuphela, kodwa futhi bahlonipha inqubo yokukhulelwa, njengokubheka njengokungcwele.
Ngosuku luka-Ivan Kupala, amantombazane azinakekela. Ngemva kokukhetha umfana ayemthanda, le ntombazane yamshaya ehlombe futhi yabalekela. Ngemuva kokuba le nsizwa imfica, le nsizwa yahamba yaya emlilweni yaya emlilweni. Uma izandla zingagcini, khona-ke lezi zibili zenzeka. Ngobusuku obufanayo, lezi zibili zombili zahlukana, zageza echibini futhi "zadala uthando." Kukholakala ukuthi izingane zikhulelwe ebusuku ngo-Ivan Kupala, zizobe zinezempilo. Umama wayengaze amthukuthelele intombazane uma engashiywanga ngaphandle kombhangqwana kuleli holide.
Kodwa kuzo zonke izinto ezishiwo, kusobala ukuthi ukuwa kwesono ngobusuku buka-Ivan Kupala kungenganekwane engaphezu kweqiniso langempela. Naphezu kokubonakala kwenkululeko yokuziphatha, le mibhangqwana ivame ukuhlala isikhathi eside futhi, yebo, ukuthi iyaphi, kodwa ndawonye. Okusho ukuthi, "ukudala uthando" kufanele kubonwe ngomqondo wangempela, hhayi ukuwuchaza nge-banal copulation. Uma le ntombazana ngesizathu esithile ishiywe yodwa nengane, khona-ke yayithanda kakhulu ukukhulula abangane, ngoba yayinomlando futhi inethuba elingcono lokubeletha inzalo enempilo.
Leli holide kuze kube yilolu suku libhekwa njengelinye lezocansi kakhulu, kodwa, noma kunjalo, inkolelo evamile yokuthi isono saseRussia ngokuvamile sasikhona, asizange siboniswe yinoma yimuphi umthombo onokwethenjelwa.
Isono esinesono esikhathini sethu
Namuhla, ubulili obungcolile kubangela imizwelo ehlukene. Futhi uma kumuntu lokhu kuyisikhathi sesikhathi esisodwa, okungukuthi, labo ababa yindlela yokuphila. Ezikoleni, ngokuqhayisa ukukhuluma ngenkululeko yangaphakathi nokuvumelana, kukhona kokubili iqiniso kanye nenani elilinganayo lamanga. Kungenzeka ukuthi ubulili bobulili buhlinzeka ngokuvumelana okuthile: umuntu akaphishekeli izifiso ezingenakuphuma ngaphandle futhi ngenxa yalokho angaphuma ngendlela engalindelekile, kukhona ukukhululwa komhawu , imizwa yokuzimela kanye nokuthembela ekuthandweni.
Ngothando, abantu banesifiso, amaphupho, izimfihlakalo. Futhi yikuphi uhlobo lwemfihlakalo engaba khona, uma konke okuphilayo kutholakala kalula futhi kuvivinywa? Ngcono kakhulu, kungenzeka ukuthi awusenaso isithakazelo kwezocansi ngokujwayelekile. Okubi nakakhulu, kuyoba nemicabango emisha engakwazi ukuholela ekuhluphekeni kwengqondo okunjengomuntu futhi, ngenxa yalokho, ithinte izimpilo zabantu abangabandakanyeki kuwe.
Wonke umuntu wakha isiphetho sakhe siqu. Kodwa kufanelekile ukucabanga ngakho, kodwa kudingekile ukuthi yonke into kuleli zwe itholakale? Futhi akusikho ukuthi kungani leli phupho livuselela ama-feats kakhulu kangangokuthi ngandlela-thile ayitholakali?