Lapho ebuzwa ngokuthi iyiphi inkolo, ungaphendula ngokuthi lo ngumphakathi wenkolo amalungu awo ahlukanise esontweni elibusayo futhi asemukele imfundiso entsha. Esikhathini esizayo, imibono yeqembu elivaliwe labantu lingakhula libe yindlela ehamba phambili yezinkolo futhi ibe yimfundiso emele.
Ihlelo lihlelwe kanjani?
Ihlelo elibhubhisa noma ihlelo lenkolo elisha linomgomo wokugcwalisa izidingo ezingokomoya zomuntu. Uhlanganyela ekufuneni injongo yokuphila, uthembisa ilunga ngalinye lokungafi nokukhululwa ekuhluphekeni. Eqinisweni, umphakathi onjalo uhlobo lwepiramidi yezezimali, lapho kukhona umsunguli - uthisha, onokulalela ngokungaqondakali futhi afeze imisebenzi ethile: ukuqasha abantu, ukuzama ukuzihlukanisa nabathandekayo nokuzithoba ngokuphelele kumsunguli. Ebandleni, njalo umuntu othile phezu komuntu ulawula, futhi wonke amalungu ayo kudingeka alandele imithetho ethile, abe khona emihlanganweni, enze imiyalo, njll.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, amalungu omphakathi wenkolo anikeze inhlangano: anikeze ingxenye yengeniso noma enze iminikelo yenyanga. Ezamaphephandaba, abaningi bakhuluma ngamacala obugebengu bama-sectariya ngokukhipha izindlu, lapho abantu ngokuzithandela noma ngokuphoqa bedayisa izindawo zokuhlala noma izindlu, futhi banikeze inkolo imali.
Izimpawu zehlelo lamahlelo
Abaningi babo bayazithengisa ngokwabo, beka abadlula emgwaqweni bese bekhuluma nabo ngoNkulunkulu. Kodwa uma ukuzijwayeza kwakho nomuntu akuzange kuqalwe kulokhu, kodwa ubona izinto eziyinqaba, khona-ke ungakwazi ukubona inkolo ngendlela aziphatha ngayo nalokho akushoyo. U-interlocutor uzihlukanisa njengeqembu elithile labantu abanolwazi olungavamile. Ulungele ukwabelana nabo futhi unikezela ukuya emhlanganweni lapho uzofunda khona iqiniso nokuthi uzophila kangcono.
Kodwa-ke, ngokuphendula izimpendulo eziqondile, umphikisi uyazigwema, ngokuvamile, ecela amazwi angavamile futhi angaqondakaliyo namazwi, ngokuvamile edala umuzwa wokuthi yena ngokwakhe akaqondi lokho okukhulunywe ngakho, kodwa uvele eveza izingcezu zombhalo owaziwa ngaphambilini. Ama-sectarians avame ukubhekisela kumholi wawo ongenasono futhi athi isipho sakhe siwumphumela wokuxhumana nemimoya, izihambi kanye nomunye umuntu. Akufanele sikhohlwe ukuthi iningi labo lingabantu bezengqondo ezihlakaniphile abangakwazi ukudlala imizwa yabantu, izenzo zabo ezimbi, isibonelo, ize. Abantu bakholelwa ukuthi bakhethwa, baphathiswe umsebenzi omkhulu wokuzisindisa nokugcina abanye, futhi lokhu kuphela kubangelwa abantu ukuziqhenya ngokwabo nokudelela abanye abangayazi injongo yabo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, amalungu amaningi amasonto afana nomfanekiso wakhe othize, okugqoka izingubo, inkulumo, njll. Ngokuvamile umzimba uhlanganiswa namathambo afanayo. Umphakathi womqondo ungaba nabasebenzi bawo bomculo,
Ukulwa namahlelo
Ukulwa nalezi zinhlangano kuqhutshwa yilabo bobabili basezifundazweni kanye nabangasese, kodwa isikhathi sifana nomzabalazo kaDon Quixote nemishini yokuhambisa umoya. Iphuzu eliphelele ukuthi lokhu kudinga ulwazi oluthile, isikhathi nemali. Kungenzeka ukuphazamisa umfanekiso wabamele inhlangano, nganoma iyiphi indlela ukuphazamisa imisebenzi yabo, okubandakanya amaphoyisa kanye nabezindaba bendawo, kodwa amacala okuqala nokubili amacala abo amaningi, futhi ngaphezu kwalokho, amahlelo angaboni ngokuthula umuntu echitha impilo yakhe. Bangakwazi ukuphendula ngokushaya, kokubili ngezindlela ezingokomthetho nezingekho emthethweni. Ungazama ukusindisa othile ezihlotsheni zakho ezisegcekeni, kepha akukhona ngaso sonke isikhathi umphumela omuhle onokwenzeka.