Esikhathini sethu asikho abantu abambalwa abahluleka ukuhluleka, okulukhuni ukuchaza ngokucabangela okunengqondo. Ezimweni ezinjalo, imilingo iyasiza. Wonke umuntu kufanele azi ukuthi isiqalekiso sesijwayelekile sibonakala kanjani, ngoba cishe zonke izinhlobo zingalahlwa.
Izimpawu zesithuko esijwayelekile
Uma sikhuluma ngezimpawu zokuqalekiswa, into yokuqala yokulalela ukubonakala kwezici ezilandelayo:
- ezinye izihlobo ngokuphikisana okwesikhathi eside, noma ukuxabana ngezikhathi ezithile;
- ngaphakathi komndeni, abantu abakwazi ukwabelana ngemali, ifa;
- kukhona izidakamizwa nezidakamizwa ezidakamizwa emndenini, futhi kubi kakhulu - uma omunye wabokhokho efa ngokudakwa;
- izihlobo azikhulumisane (noma azikhulumi isikhathi eside);
- emndenini bayenqaba ukuvakashela izihlobo ("Izinyawo zami ngeke zibe khona");
- emndenini akekho ohlonipha abafileyo, akahambi emathuneni ezinsukwini zememori;
- wonke umuntu emndenini uhluphekile, akekho ongakwazi ukufunda imali eyanele;
- izihlobo zenqaba ukusondelana ("Uma kunjalo, awuseyona indodana yami!");
- emndenini kukhona imishado engenabantwana;
- kukhona izingane emndenini owazalwa usufile kakade;
- ezinye izinsana zafa zisencane (kuze kube yiminyaka engama-3);
- Kukhona abantu abane-scoliosis eqinile emndenini;
- kule genus kukhona noma kukhona ngaphambi dauny, abantu abasengqondweni, abalindelekile, abangenangqondo;
- emndenini kukhona abantu abangakholelwa kuNkulunkulu;
- ngokuvamile umlingani noma umyeni ufa kakhulu ngaphambi kwesigamu sesibili, kungani kukhona abafelokazi nabafelokazi abaningi emndenini;
- kulabo besifazane be-genus, kune-ectopic pregnancy.
Ukwazi ukuthi unquma kanjani isiqalekiso esijwayelekile, wena ngezibonakaliso zangaphandle ungenza kalula ukuxilongwa bese uthola ukuthi udinga ukuthatha isenzo. Uma i-genus yakho inezibonakaliso ezingaphezu kwezingu-3, kufanele nakanjani ususe isiqalekiso sokuzalwa.
Izimbangela zokuqalekisa okhokho
Izimbangela zesiqalekiso esijwayelekile zingasebenza ngezici ezihlukahlukene, hhayi kuphela ezichazwe
- izono zokufa zenye yamakhosikazi (ikakhulukazi ukubulala, ezenza ukuzibulala);
- i-anathema emiswe isonto;
- isiqalekiso umuntu azibophezele ngokwakhe (ngokusebenzisa samoedstva, eqalekisa);
- indlela engalungile yokuphila , enganaki unembeza.
Kunoma yikuphi, isiqalekiso esijwayelekile singasuswa futhi siyadingeka. Uma kunamandla kakhulu, futhi kuthinta ukubhubhisa okwedlulele, kufanelekile ukubuyela esontweni, ukuqala impilo yokulunga, ukuthandaza nsuku zonke. Izenzo eziqondisiwe kuphela ezizosiza ukuxazulula le nkinga.