Ingane ihlala nobani emshadweni?

Embusweni ngamunye wezomthetho, kuhlanganise neRussia ne-Ukraine, amalungelo abancane alawulwa ngumthetho. Ngokuqinisekile, abazali abanothando nabanakekelayo banomthwalo wempilo nokuphila okujabulisayo kwengane ngayinye kuze kube yilapho beneminyaka engu-18. Nakuba abantu abadala bengaphathi njalo ukugcina umndeni, amalungelo omntwana enkambeni yokuhlukanisa abazali kunoma yisiphi isimo asikwazi ukuphulwa.

Ukuqeda umshado uma kwenzeka ukuthi abashadile babe nezingane ezihlangene ngaphansi kweminyaka engu-18, kokubili eRussia nase-Ukraine kwenziwa kuphela enkantolo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, i-judiciary ihlola ngokucophelela izici eziningi ezingase zithinte impilo ethile yengane. Kulesi sihloko, sizokutshela ukuthi ingane ihlala nini nengxabano yabazali, futhi yiziphi izimo ezicatshangelwe kulokhu.

Abantwana abancane bahlala nobani emshadweni?

Okokuqala, kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi amalungelo omama nobaba kumntanami ngesahlukaniso asuke afanako. Nakuba ngokuvamile izingane ezincane zihlala nomama wazo, lokhu akusho ukuthi upapa akanalo ilungelo lokushiya ingane yakhe ekhaya.

Kunezinketho ezehlukene zokuthuthukiswa kwezenzakalo, lapho indawo yokuhlala khona ingane ngemuva kokuhlukaniswa kwabazali kungenziwa, okuwukuthi:

1. Indlela elula futhi efinyeleleka kakhulu yokuxazulula le nkinga ukwenza isivumelwano mayelana nezingane ngaphambi kokuba kudluliselwe isinqumo senkantolo. Kulesi simo, ubaba nomama banqume ngokwabo futhi bayavuma ukuthi umntwana uzohlala nobani, nokuthi umzali wesibili uzoyifundisa kanjani futhi ayilondoloze. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, abashadile bangavumelani nje kuphela ekufundiseni komunye nomunye, kodwa futhi ngokuhlanganyela, lapho ingane izohlala khona bobabili abazali ngokuhlukile. Okokugcina, uma lo mbhangqwana unezingane ezingaphezu kweyodwa, futhi eziningana, kumqulu onjalo ngokuvamile kubonisa ukuthi eyodwa noma ngaphezulu izingane zihlala nonina, kanti abanye - nobaba. Kulokhu, inkantolo kumele ihlolisise futhi ivume isivumelwano ngokuhlukumezekayo uma kwenzeka izinhlinzeko zalo zingaphuli amalungelo amancane omphakathi.
2. Ngeshwa, abashadile abaningi abaye bajabula, ngesikhathi sokuqeda umshado benqaba ngisho nokukhuluma, ngakho-ke abakwazi ukuvumelana nganoma yini. Ezimweni ezinjalo, ukuhlukanisa ingane ngesehlukaniso kuyonqunywa yinkantolo, kucatshangelwa izimo ezinjengesizinda sempahla yabazali bobabili, ukutholakala kokuxhomeka kwezingane, nesifiso somfana noma intombazane engaphezu kweminyaka engu-10 ubudala.

Indoda ingayithatha ingane ngesehlukaniso?

Namuhla, obaba abanothando nabanakekelayo abafuna ukukhulisa nokunakekela izingane zabo emva kokuqedwa komshado, ukuhlala naye, akuvamile. Ukuze umangalele ingane kumkakhe ngesikhathi sehlukaniso, kuzodingeka ube nezizathu ezinjengalezi:

• ukuncika kotshwala noma izidakamizwa zikamama, ukuziphatha kwakhe kokuziphatha okubi;
• insolvency yayo yezimali;
• ukungabi nesikhala sokuhlala;
• ukungaqondakali kwengqondo kumama wengane;
• umjikelezo womsebenzi wakhe, ongavumeli ukunikeza ukunakekelwa okudingekayo kwengane.