Noma yimuphi umama alandela eduze nje isimo sompilo wengane yakhe, kodwa futhi ijubane lokuthuthukiswa kwalo, ikakhulukazi ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila. Futhi omama abasha abangenalwazi bavame ukubuza umbuzo uma umntwana kufanele aqale ukusabela egameni lakhe nokuthi kufanele akwenze uma lokhu kungenzeki ngesikhathi. Lesi sihloko sizokusiza uqonde lezi zinkinga.
Izingane kufanele zisabele nini egameni labo?
Ukukhala ngegama kuyingxenye yokukhuluma, ngakho-ke uphendule igama lomntwana kufanele liqale ngesikhathi sokulungiselela, lapho kubeka ukuqonda okuyinhloko kwamagama wezinto, ngokuvamile kwenzeka esikhathini esivela ezinyangeni ezingu-7 kuya kwezingu-10. Nakuba omama abaningi bebheka ukuthi umntwana usabela kanjani egameni lakhe ezinyangeni ezingu-6, kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi akunjalo, wayengasabela ngokuqondile kumama kamama. Kodwa ungalizwanga i-alamu uma kungenzeki ngesikhathi esibekiwe, njengoba ingane ngayinye ihluke kwezinye izingane futhi ikhula ngokwezifiso zabo ngabanye. Phela, kunezingane ezinyangeni ezingu-10 ezikhulume kakade amagama ambalwa, futhi zikhona-ukuthi ziqala ukukhuluma iminyaka emibili kuphela.
Izizathu ezingenzeka zokungaphenduli igama
- izinkinga ekusizeni ukuzwa;
- ukuphambene nokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo;
- ukungabi nokuxhumana;
- izindleko zokukhulisa.
Kuthiwani uma ingane ingaphenduli egameni lakhe?
Ukuze uthole ukuthi kungani ingane engaphenduli egameni lakhe, emva konyaka umuntu kufanele abonane nodokotela abalandelayo:
- i-otolaryngologist noma i-audiologist - ukuhlola ukuzwa kwengane, ikakhulukazi izimo zokulahleka kokuzwa ngemva kokuphefumula, indlebe, umphimbo noma impumulo (isibonelo: i-otitis) izinkinga noma izinkinga zokubeletha zenzeka. Kunconywa ukuthi uqhube uhlolo lokuzwa ekhaya ngaphambi kokuvakashela udokotela, ukuze bakwazi ukubika okutholakele kumchwepheshe. Ngemuva kokuhlolwa, nakanjani uzokhipha izincomo ekukhuliseni izinga lokuzwa, futhi ingane izosabela egameni;
- isifo senhliziyo, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo - ukunquma ukuxhumana kwezinga lokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo kuze kube yiminyaka. Njengoba ukungabi nampendulo egameni lakhe kumntwana oneminyaka enonyaka owodwa kuyisenzo sokuziphatha sokuziphatha kwezingane ezitholakala ukuthi "ukulibaziseka kokuthuthukiswa", umsebenzi we- autism noma wokukhulumisana nokukhubazeka, futhi ithunyelwe ukuhlolwa okuningiliziwe.
Uma ingane yakho iqonda inkulumo ebhekiswe kuyo, unesithakazelo emisindweni ezwayo ngaye, kodwa akukho ukuphendula okwenziwe egameni lakhe siqu, kulandela ukuthi ukuthuthukiswa kwakhe kuvamile, futhi isizathu sokungaboni kahle kwakhe ukuthi igama lakhe, noma uyazi ngalokhu, kodwa nje akafuni ukuphendula amandla omlingiswa wakhe.
Amathiphu: ukuthi kufanele kanjani ukwethula igama?
Kusukela ezinyangeni ezingu-3-4, ingane kufanele ihanjiswe egameni lakhe, ukucacise ukuthi kusho lokho. Ungakwenza lokhu ngokuvumelana nale mithetho:
- embonise noma iyiphi into, abize igama lento, bese kuthi, ethinta ingane, igama lakhe;
- uma usebenzisa, sebenzisa igama elilodwa kuphela noma ezimbili zegama lakhe, futhi hhayi "bunny" noma "ukushisa kwelanga" okuthandwayo;
- ukuzoyithatha noma ukukhuphukela kuye, uyibize kuqala ngegama bese ulinda ukusabela;
- ukuvame ukubiza ingane ngegama, ukuyibeka ekuqaleni komusho, ikakhulu uma ufuna ukuthakazelisa: "Roma, buka ukuthi umama ulethe!".
- udlale nazo ezifundweni.
Ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka ukuthi ingane imane ingayinaki igama layo, ikakhulukazi emva konyaka, ngakho-ke kufanele uqaphele ukuziphatha kwabazali ngokwabo, mhlawumbe ingane imane igwetshwe ukunakekelwa kwayo, futhi akudingeki ukuba isabele lapho igama lakhe likhona. Kulesi simo, udinga ukuphendukela kumqondo wezengqondo ozosiza ukwakha umugqa oqondile wokuziphatha emndenini.