Indoda iCancer ifihla imizwa yakhe, kunzima kakhulu ukuhlukanisa ukuziphatha kwayo nokuqonda izisusa zakhe zangempela. Kodwa yilapho indoda ethandekayo ngeCarcer iziphatha ngayo, ingatshela ezinye izici ekuziphatheni kwayo.
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Ngakho, ukubala ukuthi le ndoda isithandana, lezi zibonakaliso ezilandelayo zizosiza:
- Uba mnene kakhulu, onamahloni futhi emangalisa kahle. Esimweni esivamile, umdlavuza awukwazi. Indoda izokubonakala sengathi uyizithobekile, inhle kabi futhi ithule kakhulu, kodwa konke lokhu kubonisa ukuthi akakukhathaleli.
- Uzama njalo ukusondelana. Akakhulumi ngemizwa yakhe isikhathi eside, kodwa uzama ukusiza ngaso sonke isikhathi, ukusekela ngesikhathi esibucayi, usize ngeseluleko esibalulekile, ulungele ukukuhlangabeza nsuku zonke emsebenzini, ukukubona ekhaya. Zonke izenzo zakhe zizosho ukuthi awuyena nje umngane wakhe, kulula kakhulu ukuba indoda ibonise uRaku kunokutshela ukuthi uyayithanda.
- Uba nomhawu kakhulu. Abesifazane abaningi, engazi ukuthi i-Cancer ethandekayo iziphatha kanjani, ngezinye izikhathi yenza umhawu, futhi ize. Lo mzwa, cishe akayikulawula, nakuba ezama ukuzigcina ezandleni. Ungafinyelela ekugcineni ukuthi indoda izoqala ukulandela isigamu sayo, izohlola ifoni. Ngeke akhuthazelele umncintiswano eceleni kwakhe, akasoze afihla intukuthelo nokuhlukunyezwa ngaye. Kwabanye, lokhu kuziphatha komdlavuza wesilisa kuyobe kungenakuqondakala futhi kungavamile, kodwa kubheka njengokujwayelekile.
- Ukubukeka kubonakala. Indoda ethandana neCancer ingakhishwa futhi amehlo akhe, "ukudla" kwakhe kubheka ngokushayela. Ungakwazi isikhathi eside kakhulu futhi agqolozele indaba yakhe yokukhuleka,
ngenkathi ezama njalo ukubuka amehlo, ngaphandle kokucabanga ukuthi lokhu angamhlazisa owesifazane kakhulu. Esimweni esivamile, Amakhansela akhetha ukubuka kude lapho ekhuluma, futhi kuphela ekuxabaneni okukhulu, njengesimweni sothando, babheka emehlweni omuntu. - Uzama ukungakhathazeki. Umdlavuza othandweni uziphatha njengomfana omncane, uhlale ezama ukuzungezile, uzama ukuvikela ezinkingeni, ngisho noma egula, kuze kube sekugcineni uzofihla, nje ukuba angakhathazeki ngothandekayo wakhe. I-Man Cancer izohlale ibuza ingxenye yakhe ukuthi usuku luhambe kanjani, ukuthi uluzwa kanjani, kodwa ngeke lutshele ngobunzima bakhe, hhayi ukuphoqa abathandekayo bakhe ukuba bakhathazeke.