Uphi nokuthi ungamthatha kanjani ingane?
Ama-intanethi e-Russia nase-Ukraine ahlinzeka ngolwazi ngezingane ezilungiselelwe ukwamukelwa nokugcinwa. Futhi, ulwazi mayelana nezingane ezilahliwe zingatholakala eNdlini Yemntwana. Kodwa akekho ozokunika ulwazi oluthembekile mayelana nempilo nezihlobo zengane, futhi ngisho nangaphansi angeke akuvumele ukuthi ukhulume uma ungenayo imibhalo yokutholwa.
Ngaphambi kokuba ubheke ingane yakho "eyakhe" futhi uyitholele e-Ukraine naseRussian Federation, udinga ukwazi ukuthi umuntu ongamamukelayo angawela yini esigabeni sabantu okusobala ukuthi akufanele baqale ukwenza lokhu. Lezi yizi:
- abantu abanecala lobugebengu obubi, abaye bakhonza noma abangazange bakhonze isigwebo;
- abantu abahlukunyezwa utshwala nezidakamizwa;
- abantu abagula ngengqondo nabangakwazi ukulinganisela, futhi uma behlala kanye nomfakisicelo (amalungu omndeni, ama-cohabitants);
- okungekho emthethweni;
- ezinezifo ezivela ohlwini olunikeziwe (i-AIDS, i-HIV, isifo sofuba, umdlavuza, nabanye abanye);
- ukungenayo imali engenayo yesikhulu esiphezulu kunezinga eliphansi lokuphila;
- Abantu abangenazo izindlu zabo noma izimo zabo abakunelisekile (emva kokuvakashela ikhomishini);
- kakade kunqatshelwe amalungelo omzali.
Indlela yokuthola ingane eRussia nase-Ukraine?
Isinyathelo sokuqala ukuxhumana nomphathi wendawo yokugcinwa kanye ne-trusteeship. Bazohlinzeka uhlu oludingekayo lwamadokhumenti okudingeka aqoqwe ukuze abhaliswe njengomzali otholayo. Uhlu lwayo luhlanganisa:
- Amakhophi kanye nokuqala kwamaphaseports of abazali abamukelayo.
- Isicelo sokwamukelwa kwengane.
- Isitifiketi ngesiphetho sokuhlolwa kwezokwelapha.
- Isitatimende sokuthola imali ngonyaka odlule noma isimemezelo.
- Khipha izici kusuka endaweni yomsebenzi.
- Ikhophi yobunikazi bendawo yokuhlala.
- Usizo lwamaphoyisa ngokungabikho kwerekhodi lobugebengu.
Ngemuva kokuba imibhalo isamukeleke kumfakisicelo, ikhomishana yabantu abaningana iza futhi ihlola izindlu lapho ingane izohlala khona. Akudingekile ukuba abe nekamelo elihlukile, into eyinhloko ukuthi abe nendawo yokulala embhedeni wezingane, ideski kanye neydijithali enezingubo.
Uma isimo sendawo sithathwa njengokunganeliseki, kuyaphakanyiswa ukuqedela (ukulungisa) ukulungiswa, futhi emva kwalokho ukumema ikhomishana futhi. Esinye isizathu sokukhubeka singase sibe yimali engenayo. Uma ingaphansi kwezinga elimisiwe, ummeli wenqatshelwe ukubhaliswa. Kodwa kusukela kulokho kunendlela yokuphuma - ungakhipha imali engenayo yangonyaka yonke, ukhokhe intela futhi uthole isitifiketi esifanele.
Ngemuva kokuthi wonke amadokhumenti ahlolwe, amasonto amabili kamuva umfakisicelo wokutholwa uyakwaziswa ngomphumela. Uma ebhaliswe, ungaqala ukubuka ingane (izingane). Lapho nje ingane iqoqwa, idokhumenti ikhishwa ukugcinwa, okuvumela abazali abazayo ukuba babone ingane futhi bahlole ukuhlolwa kwezokwelapha ezizimele zempilo yakhe.
Indlela yokuthola owesifazane oyedwa (owesilisa)?
Isikhathi esithile manje, ukuvinjelwa kokutholwa ngumndeni kuye kwaphakanyiswa, futhi manje umuntu oyedwa, ongewona umndeni angathatha ingane. Lokhu kuzodinga zonke izinkomba kanye nezincwadi ezifanayo njengokwamukelwa umbhangqwana oshadile.
Ungazithola kanjani umntwana osanda kuzalwa?
Uma kungekho emgqeni wezingane ezisanda kuzalwa endaweni, abazali abangabazali abathandayo, uma bevele benempendulo enhle yokunakekelwa, futhi bakhona kwi-akhawunti yokugcinwa kwezingane , bangathola umntwana esibhedlela, umama aye wenqaba ngokomthetho. Ngeshwa, amacala anjalo ayengavamile futhi abesifazane baphuma ezinganeni ngaphandle kwemibhalo efanele.
Ngakho-ke, ingane enjalo ayikwazi ukwamukelwa kuze kube yilapho umama wegazi ehlulwa amalungelo. Lokhu kungathatha isikhathi eside kakhulu. Ukusheshisa izinto, abazali batuswa ukuba baqale ukugcina ingane futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo balungiselele imibhalo yokutholwa.
Indlela yokwamukela umntwana omdala?
Kukhona amacala uma kunesidingo sokusungula ubuhlobo bomndeni obusemthethweni phakathi kwabazali nomntwana omdala. Lezi zingaba ubudlelwane obuhlobene ekuqaleni (abazali bahlukaniswe nomntwana kusukela ekuzalweni), noma bangamalume nobazukazi, ngenxa yezizathu ezingokomthetho, ngokuphindaphindiwe, ngokuphathelene nefa, bafuna ukwenza isihlobo siphelele.
Kanti futhi abantu abadala abadala bangasetshenziswa nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Kulesi simo, wonke amadokhumenti angenhla kumele ahambisane nesitatimende esibhaliwe somuntu omdala mayelana nemvume yakhe, engaziwa.