Ngokuvamile isibalo esikhulu sabantu abajabulayo nabamemezayo babuthana usuku lokuzalwa, futhi ukuze bangabi nesithukuthezi phakathi nomkhosi, kubalulekile ukuhlela imincintiswano yangempela neyomculo kubo.
Imiklomelo ehlelwe ngaphambilini, ehlelwe kahle futhi ehlelwe kahle yosuku lokuzalwa, esikhundleni sezingxoxo zokuphuza eziyingozi, izokwenza leli holide libaleke futhi lishiye okubonakalayo okuhle unyaka wonke.
Ngokuvamile ngamaholidi anjalo enkampanini eyodwa bobabili abangani abasondelene nabo, futhi abangajwayele ukuvakasha, kungenzeka ukuthi abanye bazohlangana okokuqala. Ukukhulumisana okungahlelekile, okuhlelwe ngosizo lokubamba iqhaza ngokugcwele emincintiswaneni, kuzosiza abantu ukuba bathole ulimi oluvamile ngokushesha, ukuze kusondele, okusho ukuthi impumelelo yomcimbi izoqinisekiswa.
Izibonelo ezimbalwa zenhlangano yeholidi abadala nabantwana
Abantu abadala, ukugubha usuku lokuzalwa lwabo abathandekayo babo, njengokuzijabulisa, kanye nezingane, ngakho-ke imincintiswano emnandi emikhosini izoba efanele futhi iyadingeka. Ukugcina umoya ukhululekile, kulula futhi ujabule, nemizwelo - injabulo futhi enhle, kufanele ucabange futhi ulungise uhlelo lokuzijabulisa.
Umncintiswano olandelayo uyathandeka futhi uyamangaza:
"Bamba noma ubambe." Abahlanganyeli bakhuphuka emgqeni owodwa, kodwa ungakwazi ukubamba umncintiswano futhi ungashiyi itafula. Ngesicelo somgqugquzeli, zonke izivakashi ezihlanganyele ziguquka ukuze ziqambe ukuthi leyo ngxenye yomzimba, umuntu othanda kakhulu kumakhelwane kanye naphezu kwakho konke akuthandi. Ngemuva kokuba bonke abahlanganyeli beveze lokho okuceliwe, umethuli "wenza isinqumo". Okuthandwa ngumakhelwane - udinga ukumanga, futhi lokho ongakuthandi ukuluma. Lo mncintiswano ungabangela kokubili injabulo kanye nokuhlazeka ngesikhathi esisodwa, kodwa njalo kumnandi futhi kuyathandeka, kunamazwana amaningi namahlaya.
Into eyinhloko ukuthi imincintiswano ayicasuli noma yiyiphi yabahlanganyeli, ayinayo into yokwehla. Ukuze uhlanganyele kuzo udinga ukulungiselela imiklomelo engabalulekile, yangempela, ngakho-ke kuyoba mnandi kakhulu ukuhlanganyela kuzo, ngoba lokhu kuzokhunjulwa.
Akudingekile ukugubha usuku lwakho lokuzalwa ekhaya, njalo njalo amaholidi anjalo, ikakhulukazi ngenkathi efudumele, ahlelwe ngemvelo , inkululeko kanye nomoya ohlanzekile ngokwabo kukukwenza ube yisimungulu futhi uhlekise, futhi imincintiswano ehlekisayo, ehlekisayo iyokwenza ukuthi umkhosi ube nokudala ngokwengeziwe nokukhunjulwa.
Singakutshela ukuthi ubambe umncintiswano olula, olula wemvelo, ongenakudingi ukulungiselela okuningi:
"Ukulwa nemithetho." Umhlanganyeli ngamunye uthola ibhaluni ehlongoziwe, inkinobho yokubhala kanye nepulasitiki epulasitiki. Umdlali ubopha ibhola esikhwameni sakhe, umholi umemezela ukuqala kwempi. Kubalulekile ukushaya ibhola lomphikisi ngenkinobho, kuyilapho uvala ibhola ngepulasitiki epulazi esebenza njengesihlangu. Umnqobi uzoba ngumhlanganyeli oyosindisa ibhola lokugcina.
Ukuqhuba imincintiswano ehlukahlukene, akufanele sikhohlwe iminyaka yabahlanganyeli, akucebisi ukuhlekisa okungeke kube mnandi noma kungaqondakali izivakashi. Imincintiswano yamantombazane enhle ekuzalweni kwayo ihluke kakhulu kubantu abadala. Kungcono ukukhetha imincintiswano enjalo lapho zonke izingane zingabamba iqhaza, thola imiklomelo, ukuze kungabikho namunye wezivakashi ezincane ezithombeni. Umncintiswano omnandi wezingane ubizwa ngokuthi:
«Ama-pig». Kulo mncintiswano, kufanele ulungiselele ukwelashwa okumnandi, okungekho okuluhlaza, isibonelo, i- jelly . Izingane ezihlanganyela kulo mncintiswano kufanele zidle ngokusebenzisa imifino noma izinyopho zokugcoba, lowo owunqobile ngokushesha kunokuba abanye bawine.
Ukuzikhethela nokuhlelwa kwemincintiswano kufanele futhi kudonse ingane, ngoba yiyo kuphela ezokwazi ukuthola ukuthi yini ezoba mnandi kulabo ontanga.