Ucabanga ukuthi uphelele futhi awukwazi ukucasula indoda yakho? Kukhona indlela enhle yokuhlola lokhu futhi ubone ukuthi unayo yini imikhuba edala ukuhlukumezeka nokungabi nandaba.
Ufuna ukuzibuka ovela kolunye uhlangothi futhi uthole ukuthi yini engamcasula umthandi wakho ekuziphatheni kwakho? Abachwepheshe benza ucwaningo phakathi kwamadoda aba nobuhlobo obude, bebuza ukuthi yini eyabathukuthelisa kakhulu abesifazane. Yilokho okwenzekile.
1. Amaholide amahle.
Amantombazane amaningi aqiniseke ukuthi abalingani bawo kufanele bazi izinsuku zomcimbi wonke empilweni yabo, ngisho nalabo abangabalulekile, isibonelo, ngosuku owaqala ngalo ku-cinema noma wamukela. Kubantu, kubonakala kungenangqondo, futhi intukuthelo yokuthi izinsuku ezinjalo zisusiwe enkumbulweni yakhe ayikhohlisi.
2. Sitshele mayelana nokudlula kwakho.
Abesifazane abaningi bahlangabezana nesithakazelo esiyinqaba nesingenangqondo ebuhlotsheni obudlule bomlingani wabo. Kungani kumenza akhumbule abesifazane bokuqala, ngoba ususeduze? Lokhu kuyimangalisa kakhulu futhi akukwazi ukusiza ecasulayo.
3. Ngitshele, ingabe ikhuluphele?
Thumela, kangaki ngosuku owubuza lo mbuzo kumuntu okhethiweyo, osuvele ekhathele ukufika ngokuncoma ukuba akukhumbuze futhi angabangela ukuxabana. Abesifazane bavame ukudlulisa izinga lokuhlupheka, befuna nje ukuzwa amazwi othando. Abamele isincoma socansi esinamandla okukhetha indlela ehlukile.
4. Yazi umkhuba.
Kumuntu, ukubheka owesifazane kubalulekile, kepha uma kukhishwa futhi kungaguquki. Ezimweni ezinjalo, kuba nzima ukuphefumula. Yeka ukubiza umthandi wakho yonke isigamu sehora, umnike nge spoon, hlola ukuthi ugqoke ngokufudumele, kholwa mina, ngoba lokhu unomama.
5. Ukungabi nethemba.
UJames Bond uyabhema ngokweqile eceleni, lapho owesifazane onomhawu ethatha. Ukuhlola amafoni namanethiwekhi omphakathi, izingxoxo zokukhulumisana, ukuxolisa - futhi yilokho okungenani okungenani lokho okushiwo abesifazane. Konke lokhu kungabangela ukucasuka kuphela, kodwa futhi kubulala ubuhlobo.
6. Ukuphikisa ngomhawu.
Yebo, amadoda anqobile, kodwa ukuvusa njalo imizwelo, ukudlala ngothando nabanye kuyindlela engalungile. Ngikholelwa, umbhangqwana lapho owesifazane ehlangana namanye amadoda, nomlingani wakhe ngalesi sikhathi ngamathumba, ubheka kokubili okumangalisa nokuhlekisayo.
7. Awuyena umuntu ocwaninga ucingo?
Akucaci lapho abesifazane benquma ukuthi amadoda kufanele, cha, kufanele acabange imicabango yabo. Abamele ubulili obunamandla basemaphethelweni wokuqhuma lapho bezwa into efana nale: "Wena ngokwakho ucabanga?", "Kwakunzima ukuqagela?". Awufuni ukudumazeka, ukukhuluma ngokuqondile, futhi ungadlali puzzle.
8. Njalo lapho izinwele.
Amadoda amaningi akhononda ukuthi akhathele ukuthola izinwele zabesifazane kuyo yonke indawo: phansi, insifa, endlini yokugezela njalonjalo. Uma ungafuni ukucasula okhethiweyo wakho, cabanga ngalesi simo.
9. Ukuphathwa kwezinyembezi.
Ukuqiniseka ukuthi kuzoba nezinyembezi kumasu wokunqoba, ngikholelwa, akusekelwe. Eqinisweni, izivolonti zibonise ukuthi amadoda amaningi aphukuthelisa futhi, ngokuphambene nalokho, kubangela ukuhlaselwa kobudlova. Akudingekile ukukhala nganoma yisiphi isizathu, ngoba kunzima kakhulu ukuhawukela abameleli bobulili obunamandla.
10. Ukulungiswa okuvamile.
Esinye isimo esaziwa abaningi, lapho ukulungiswa kokuhluleka kwabo kuzwakale kanje: "Ngingumfana." Lokhu kungasebenza uma udinga ukubamba isilenge esidongeni, hhayi lapho udinga ukwenza njengomuntu omdala futhi ube nesibopho sezenzo zakho.
11. Ukugxeka abanye.
Lokhu cishe kuyimvelo yabesifazane abaningi, ukuxoxisana nabanye futhi, ikakhulukazi, abanye abameleli bobulili obuthakathaka. Ukuhleka usulu ukushiyeka kwabanye akukhona nje kuphela okubi, kodwa futhi kufakazela ubuwula nokuzethemba okuphansi noma okuphazamisekile. Amadoda eduze kwehleba abesifazane bazizwa bengakhululekile, futhi ekhanda labo bazwa umusho owodwa: "Vala umlomo wakho!".
Ingabe uyangithanda?
Lapha ubale, mangaki izikhathi ngosuku ocela owakhethiweyo, ingabe uyakuthanda noma cha? Ngomuntu, ukuphenywa okunjalo kubonakala kunokuhlukunyezwa, okubangela ukucasuka okufuthekayo. Abamele ubulili obuqine kakhulu ezimweni eziningi bakholelwa ukuthi uma beke bakhuluma ngemicabango yabo futhi baseduze, akukho lutho olushintshile, futhi awudingi ukubuza ngothando.
13. I-Blackmail ngezocansi.
Iphutha eliyiphutha kakhulu elibangela ukuhlukunyezwa kwamadoda futhi libhubhise ubuhlobo. Uma owesifazane enqaba ukulala ngokobulili, ezama ukujezisa umngane wakhe, uyamxosha "ngakwesobunxele."
Ubi kakhulu, ngihawukele.
Kunoma yikuphi ukungqubuzana noma ukungalungi komuntu, ugijimela efonini ukukhononda ngakho kumama noma izintombi zakho. Lena iphutha elikhulu, elicasula futhi lihlehlise ngaphansi kwebhodi lokugijima. Qonda, uzobuyisana nomuntu okhethiweyo, futhi umama nabangani bayo bazoqhubeka bemcabangela "imbuzi".
15. Ngizokwenza konke ngokwami.
Amadoda afuna ukuzizwa ephakeme nokubaluleka ukufanisa "ubulili obuqinile". Ngikholelwa, ngeke bakuthande uma umlingani wabo egoqa ngombani okhanyayo, ukulungisa iphampu nokunye.
16. Ake sikhulume ngomshado.
Ubudlelwano buqala maduzane, futhi bebevele bekhuluma ngomshado, baqonde - ezimweni eziningi uphenduka. Kungcono uqhubeke njalo njengokujwayelekile, futhi lapho umuntu eqinisekile, ngokuqinisekile uyovuka ngamadolo.