Abantu abaningi abasoli ngisho nokuthi bangabanikazi bemikhuba emibi engabangela ukucasuka ngisho nokuhlasela intukuthelo kwabanye.
Ngenxa yokuvota kwemibono ungathola ulwazi oluthakazelisayo futhi wenze izilinganiso. Yileyo ndlela abesifazane abathandekayo ababuzwa ngayo ngemikhuba yabantu abenza bakwethule, besyat, babangele ukucasuka ngisho nentukuthelo. Ekugcineni, izimo ezivame kakhulu zikhethiwe, mhlawumbe nawe waziphawula?
1. Ingilazi emva kwengilazi, kepha ukuphela akubonakali.
Utshwala yisitha sokuba nobuhlobo, uma ungaboni isilinganiso kuwo. Abesifazane abaningi baseduze nokuqhuma, bebona ukuthi "ukugebha" kwakhe ethembekile endlini, ngaphandle kokulawula izenzo zakhe namagama, ngokuvamile, wenza konke okucasula futhi kubangele imizwelo emibi. Kulesi simo, kufanelekile ukukhumbula inkulumo ethi "awukwazi ukuphuza, ungaphuzi."
2. Amasokisi angcolile akhula njengamakhowe.
Ingabe kunzima kakhulu ukukhipha amasokisi ngenkathi ushintsha izingubo futhi uzibeka ngokushesha esitokisini ukuze uthole izingubo ezingcolile? Inani elikhulu labesifazane likhononda ukuthi njalo kumele bathole amasokisi ngaphansi kombhede, eduze kwekhamera nakwezinye izindawo eziyimfihlo.
3. Ungasusi amehlo akho.
Abesilisa bavame ukubuka abesifazane abakhazimulayo, abahle nabakhohlisa, beyibeka ngokuvumelana nemvelo yemvelo, kuyilapho bengacabangi ngalokho okwenzeka emphefumulweni womngane wabo, futhi lapho, kholwa kimi, intaba-mlilo ekulungele ukuqhuma noma nini.
4. Awekho ama-melodramas kanye nemiboniso yangempela.
Kukhona amadoda aqinisekisayo ukuthi akukho okuvamile ku-TV ngaphandle kwabalandeli, ibhola kanye nabahloli. Ngakho-ke, ngaphandle kokungabaza, bashintsha noma bafunge, ngokubona ukuthi othandekayo wabo ubukele i-melodrama noma i- "Dom-2".
5. Uma enika phansi - gcina!
Lesi sigaba sivame ukuzwakala esivela ezindebeni zabesifazane abangenakujabulela ukuziphatha komuntu. Ukuthembisa nokungafezi kuyisimo esijwayelekile kubantu abaningi, kodwa kholwa kimi, lokhu akucasuli nje kuphela abesifazane bami abathandekayo, kodwa nabanye abantu. Uma kukhona ukungabaza, kungcono ukungathembisi lutho.
6. Amacala ekhishini.
Yiqiniso, umthetho wokuthi owesifazane uyinkosikazi ekhishini ikhona, kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi udinga ukuyisebenzisa ubusuku lonke. Ipuleti engcolile engakwesokunxele, itiye elingavunyelwe, i-spoon elandelwe etafuleni - konke lokhu kuphakamisa izinga lokubilisa phakathi kowesifazane.
7. Walala ngaphansi komsindo we "drill".
Yiqiniso, lokhu akusho ukulungiswa, futhi konke okuphathelene nokuhlunga kwabantu abathandekayo abangakwazi ukulala futhi kubangele isifiso sokuqeda umcamelo. Kunezindlela ezehlukene ezizosiza ukubhekana nokuntuleka okunjalo, ngakho cabanga ngakho.
8. Ngikholelwa, awekho amafutha lapho.
Amadoda amaningi afana nokuqoqa izindwangu, izindlebe noma amazinyo, futhi okuyisimangaliso futhi esabekayo kakhulu, abanye bakwenza ngisho nasezindaweni zomphakathi futhi bengazi lutho. Abesifazane, beseduze, bazizwa ngaleyo ndlela kokubili ukuhlazeka nokucasuka.
9. indlu yangasese = ihhovisi.
Umsebenzi ozithandayo wenani elikhulu lamadoda ukuhlala endlini yangasese isikhathi eside. Ngakho-ke, othile ufundela omagazini, othile ubuka ividiyo noma adlala efonini, futhi othile uxazulula izinkinga zebhizinisi. Kubonakala sengathi kukhona "indawo yamandla" noma i-magnet eheha abantu.
Imisindo engalawulwayo lapho udla ukudla.
UMama akazange afundise kusukela ebuntwaneni ukuthi angadla kanjani ngomlomo ovaliwe, ngaphandle kokwenza noma yimaphi imisindo ecasulayo? Ngikholelwa, izizathu zokuthi ziyiphunga kakhulu noma ukudla kushisa kakhulu, kubukeka sengathi kungenangqondo, njengomuntu othungelayo noma obhekene naye.
Ukuqapha okuqhubekayo.
Amadoda angama-proprietors, futhi ngokuvamile ukulawula kwabo kudlula. Bahlola amafoni, ungavumeli ukuhamba ngezinyawo noma ukuzwa izingxoxo. Konke lokhu kubangela ukucasuka futhi kubangele izingxabano.
12. Ngaphandle komuntu wesifazane, ngaphandle kwezandla.
Kukhona amadoda angasetshenziselwa ukuzimela, isibonelo, angakwazi ukufudumala ukudla, athathe imfoloko, enze ikhofi. Abesifazane, yebo, bathande futhi kufanele banakekele abalingani babo, kodwa konke kunomkhawulo.
13. Ukulutha kwekhompyutha.
Kuphi ngaphandle kwalo? Emva kwakho konke, amagajethi kanye ne-Intanethi bagcwalisa sonke isikhathi samahhala abantu, futhi kuvame ukulimaza ezinye izigaba zokuphila, isibonelo, ubudlelwane. Umdlalo wamathangi, ukubukela amavidiyo nokufunda amabhulogi - kubaluleke kakhulu kunowesifazane othandekayo?