Uma utshala inja, umuntu kumele aqonde yonke imithwalo yemfanelo yawo yokuphila, impilo kanye nenhlalakahle yezilwane. Njengezo zonke izinto eziphilayo, amakati anesimiso sokuzala esithi "uvuka" ngemuva kokufinyelela ekukhuleni. Ukuze ulungele ukubonakaliswa kwawo, udinga ukwazi kusengaphambili ukuthi amakati "ahamba" kangakanani.
Ukuqala kokukhulelwa kwekati
Umbuzo oyinhloko - amakhati aqala nini ukuhamba "?" Ngakho-ke, ukubuza ikati ikati kuqala ezinyangeni ezingu-6-8, ikakhulukazi ukukhombisa ukulungela kwayo esikhathini kusukela ngoFebhuwari kuya ku-Ephreli. Ukuncipha kokusebenza ngokocansi kuyothathwa kuze kube semkhatsini wekwindla. Bese kulandela isikhathi sokuphumula, okuhlala kusuka emavikini amabili kuya kwezinyanga ezimbili, kuye ngezimo zokuboshwa.
Kudingekile ukuqonda ukuthi yimuphi unyaka onothando kangaka wekati, "ohamba" okokuqala, kungcono ukuwukhawulela ekukhuliseni nasekutholeni inzalo. Njengentombazane encane kakhulu, ikati ayilungele ngokuphelele ukucindezeleka okunjalo ngokomzimba.
Okokuqala, lapho kukhishwa izinyanga ezinyangeni ezingu-15, ikati lingase lihlupheke ngenxa yesikhala sayo esincane. Okwesibili, izitho zaso zangaphakathi azilungele ukukhulelwa nokuzala izinja.
Ebudlelwaneni bobubele nobomama, i-kitty izobe ilungile uma iphendulela unyaka owodwa nezinyanga ezintathu ubudala. Kuze kube yilesi sikhathi, udinga ukuyivikela ekungeneni kwamakati. Futhi ukuze uyiqede kancane kancane ngenkathi ejabule futhi efuna ukunakekelwa kwabantu, ungamnika amaconsi noma amaphilisi aqeda ukucindezeleka ngokusekelwe emithini yemifino yemvelo.
Ukuqonda kanjani ukuthi ikati "livuthiwe"?
Izimpawu zokuthi ikati inenkathi yokukhulelwa nokuthi yaqala "ukuhamba", yizi izinguquko ezilandelayo ekuziphatheni nasekuziphatheni kwayo:
- uqala ukumemeza ngokukhululekile nangokungahambisani naye;
- kukhona ukwanda okukhulu noma, ngokuphambene, uthando, uncharacteristic kuya ikati ngaphambili;
- ikati igubha phansi, i-wriggles kanye nemisindo ephakeme , kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ilanga lini;
- isitho socansi singase sande kancane usayizi, sivule;
- kukhona ukwabiwa okungadingekile, ngenxa yalokho ikati evame kakhulu futhi isikhathi eside kakhulu ibeka umyalelo endaweni esondelene nayo.