Ukuze wenze umshado ehhovisi lokubhalisa, udinga kuphela isifiso esifanayo, imali yokusebenza kombuso nesitatimende. Imithetho yomshado e-Orthodoxy inzima kakhudlwana, futhi uma kukhona omunye wabo engabonwa, khona-ke umshado ngeke ube khona.
Imithetho yomshado eSontweni Lama-Orthodox
Ngaphambi kokunquma ngesinyathelo esinjalo esinesibopho, qiniseka ukuthi ufunda yonke imithetho yomshado wama-Orthodox, ngoba ngamunye wabo unzima futhi uyadingeka.
- Ngomshado, bobabili bomshado kufanele babe amaKristu abhapathiziwe. Ngezinye izikhathi umshado uvunyelwe ngamaKristu wezinye izinkomba - amaKatolika, amaLuthela, amaProthestani. Noma kunjalo, izingane ezizalwe kulo mshado kufanele zibhapathizwe ngokuhlelekile. Umshado nomBuddha, umSulumane kanye nommeleli wezinye izinkolo akunakwenzeka.
- Imikhosi yomshado ingenzeka kuphela ngemva kokuphela komshado osemthethweni ehhovisi lokubhalisa. Amacala, lapho le ndlela ihlangabezana nezinkinga, zixazululwa ngabanye - lokhu kufanele usebenzise esontweni.
- Umshado kungenzeka kuphela ngezikhathi ezithile, lapho isonto esheshayo lingadluli. Lapho ukhetha usuku lomshado, bheka ikhalenda ye-Orthodox.
- Umshado, kanye nomshado osemthethweni, uyatholakala kubantu abangaphezu kweminyaka engu-18 ubudala.
- Ayikho imingcele yezivakashi ze-sakramente - ungamema wonke umuntu oyifunayo.
- Umshado ungenziwa ngosuku olufanayo ngesiphetho somshado osemthethweni, kodwa kunzima kakhulu ngokomzimba.
- Umshado uzophikiswa kubantu abanoma yiluphi uhlobo lobuhlobo.
- Kubalulekile ukushada ngezingubo ezihlakaniphile. Okufanelekile, umakoti kufanele abe nengubo efihla izandla, amahlombe, emuva nangemilenze. Uma ingubo engenamikhono, udinga ijazi emahlombe akho.
- Umshado uvunyelwe ukushicilelwa kwifilimu, kodwa kufanele kwenziwe ngemuva kwesivumelwano sokuqala nompristi.
- Ukuqeda umshado wesonto kuyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu, ngakho-ke udinga ukuwuphetha kuphela uma uqiniseka kumlingani wakho nasendlini yakho. Umshado ungaba khona izikhathi ezingaphezu kwesithathu ekuphileni. Uma othile ovela esishade naye esesemshadweni wesonto, okokuqala kubalulekile ukufezekisa ukuchithwa kwalo.
- Akunakwenzeka ukushada nabantu, oyedwa noma bobabili abashadile nomunye umuntu.
- Noma yimiphi imibuzo onayo, kuyadingeka ukunquma ngokuqinile nompristi, hhayi nge-watchman, abafundisi-noma abadayisi esitolo esontweni.
Yonke imithetho yomcimbi womshado inzima, futhi uma ingahlonishwa emshadweni, lo mbhangqwana ungase wenqabe. Ngendlela, uma umnikelo osungulwe womshado ukhulu kakhulu kuwe, ungakhuluma nompristi, uchaze isimo futhi uvumelane ngesamba esithile.
Imishado imithetho yokukhetha ofakazi
Ukucabangela yonke imithetho esacatshangelwe kakade, ngaphambi kokuba umbhangqwana womshado uphinde ukhethe ofakazi, noma amadoda angcono kakhulu. Kumele bafeze umsebenzi ophethe, olawulwa yiminye imithetho.
- Uma umshado ojwayelekile kungokwezifiso ukukhetha intsha engashadile njengabafakazi, ngakho-ke bavame ukukhetha umbhangqwana onabantwana, ikakhulukazi umshado, owomshado. Njengamanje, lokhu akuwona umthetho obumpoqo. OFakazi bangashada, noma bangabi nobuhlobo komunye nomunye. Ungakhethi umbhangqwana ozoshada: umkhuba ubeletha ubudlelwane obungokomoya phakathi kwabo (njengama-godchildren no-godfather, isibonelo), futhi lokhu akuthandi. Ukuze umbhangqwana oshadile usuvele, ngeke kube nomthelela omubi.
- OFakazi kufanele babhapathizwe, bajwayele
nemithetho yesonto. Lona umthetho oqinile, futhi uma ungahambisani nalo, ungenqatshwa emshadweni. - Kukholelwa ukuthi ofakazi bazohlale behlotshaniswa nalabo abasanda kushada, ngakho-ke kufanelekile ukukhetha umbhangqwana ohlakaniphile, onomthwalo wemfanelo.
- Ukuze kube lula ngabafakazi ukuthi banamathele umqhele phezu kwekhanda labashadayo, kufanele babe nokuphakama okufanayo noma ngaphezulu, futhi kunalokho kunamandla futhi bahlale njalo.
Uma ulahlekelwe, ukuthi ungakhetha kanjani umbhangqwana ofanele kuwo wonke amapharamitha, kungcono ukushada ngaphandle kofakazi, isonto alivinjelwe. Lokhu kungcono kunokuthatha umfakazi womshado ongokomoya wabantu abangagcinanga imiyalo futhi bahole izimpilo ezingalungile.