Uthando oluphambanwe ngomunwe lubhekwa njengomunye wemikhuba enamandla kakhulu futhi eyingozi yemilingo. Uma unquma ukusebenzisa le ndlela ukuze uthandeke indoda, kufanele ulinganise konke kahle kakhulu, ngoba ukupenda okuvela emunwe kuyingozi futhi kunemiphumela emibi kakhulu.
Imiphumela yothando upela ngomunwe
Uthando oluvela emunwe luqala ukusebenza ngokushesha, ngisho noma lwenziwa kude, ukuphumelela kwalesi sipelingi akunciphisi izinyanga eziyisithupha, futhi kungathatha iminyaka eminingana ukwenza okuthile.
Inketho ejwayelekile kunazo zonke i-spell ngothando ngomunwe womunwe usebenzisa iwayini. Ukuze wenze lokhu, kubalulekile ukubhoboza umunwe onenaliti esandleni sakho sokunene bese ucindezela amaconsi ambalwa egazi egumbini lewayini elibomvu ngenkathi ethi: "Ungayiphuza kanjani iwayini, (igama lomuntu), uthando lwakho luzoshisa, Yonke imicabango izoba ngami, futhi imini nobusuku futhi ephusheni. " Okhethiweyo wakho akudingeki aphuze yonke iwayini, ukuze isipelingi senze ngokwanele ukwenza isipuni esisodwa nje.
Ngakho-ke, uma usenqume ukutshela othandekayo wakho ngegazi emunwe wakho, khona-ke ulungele imiphumela elandelayo:
- Indoda oye yaqothula ingaqala ukuphuza kakhulu futhi akukho "ukukopisha" kuzosiza ekubhekaneni nale nqubo yokulutha.
- Indoda iyoba nobudlova, isheshe ithukuthele, ihawukele, uhlamvu luzohlaselwa ngokuphawulekayo.
- Ungaba yinyumba, futhi akekho udokotela ozokusiza.
- Indoda izoba nezinkinga embhedeni.
- Uma umuntu oshadile ezalwa nendoda, cishe cishe bazogula kakhulu noma esikhathini esizayo ngeke babe nokujabula.
- Ngemva kwesikhashana ukhetho lwakho luzoqala ngezinkinga zezempilo, umsebenzi wakho uzoqeda, isimo sakho sezezimali sizohlaselwa ngokuphawulekayo emndenini wakho.