Indoda yaseSoviet yayingenaso isifiso sokubhapathizwa esemdala, noma ibhapathize izingane zakhe, ngoba lokhu kungasho ukuthi ikusasa lomuntu okhishwe emphakathini walezo zinsuku. Kodwa-ke, eminyakeni engemva kweSoviet sekuye kwaba nokwanda okubalulekile kwesithakazelo endleleni umhlangano wobhapathizo owenzeka ngayo. Kungenzeka ukuthi ukholo olungcwele lwavuka kungazelelwe luvuke kubantu, ababeqeda yonke iminyaka yeKomsomol, noma lokhu kungabizwa ngokuthi umkhuba omusha wefashini. Empeleni, konke lokhu akuyona into ebaluleke kakhulu, into eyinhloko ukuthi namuhla siphila emphakathini wenkolo kakhulu, lapho manje kungekho ubhapathizo obangela abanye ukumangala.
Isibonelo, kunezifunda ezizibiza ngokwazo hhayi ezomhlaba, kepha zamaKristu. Ngakho-ke, isibonelo, i-Argentina - emthethwenisisekelo wezwe kubhaliwe ukuthi leli lizwe lamaKatolika. Izakhamuzi ezingaphezu kuka-90% zase-Argentina ziyiKatolika ngempela, izingane ziyathunyelwa ezikoleni zamaKatolika, futhi hhayi emphakathini uzotshela ukuthi ukuze uthole lapha umsebenzi ovamile, umuntu kufanele abhapathizwe kumaKatolika.
Ngakho-ke, kumelwe sibhapathizwe ngenxa yokholo lwethu noma njengentela yokufashisa. Ake sibone ukuthi ukubhapathizwa komuntu omdala kudlula kanjani.
Ubhapathizo lomuntu omdala
Kumele siqaphele ngokushesha ukuthi umhlangano wokubhapathizwa wezingane kanye nokubhapathizwa kwabantu abadala zizinto ezihluke ngokuphelele kusukela ekubukeni kwenkolo. Uma ingane inamathele ekukholweni "phezulu", ngakho-ke ukuze umuntu omdala abhapathizwe, udinga cishe unyaka ukutadisha yonke imfundiso yobuKristu kanye nezimfundiso esontweni nomfundisi wesonto.
Umuntu omdala owamukelwa emkhosini wamaKristu wokubhapathizwa kufanele abe ngekhanda imithandazo emibili ebaluleke kakhulu - "uBaba wethu" no "Theotokos of Devo", kumele babe nezisekelo zezinkathazo, izimfundiso zenkolo. Futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, imithetho yokuziphatha nendlela yokuphila yomKristu olungileyo.
Esimweni sokubhapathizwa, umuntu omdala kufanele alungiselele ngendlela ekhethekile. Lokhu kungukuthi, okokuqala, ngesonto eliqinile ngokuthunyelwe - ngaphandle kokudla inyama, amaqanda, ubisi, futhi ngaphandle kokubhema nokuphuza utshwala. Udinga futhi ukugwema injabulo yenyama, intukuthelo, ukuhlukunyezwa, izingxabano, amanga. Ngaphambi kokubhapathizwa udinga ukucela intethelelo kulabo owakonile, ukulungisa, ukuphenduka nokuthethelela aboni bakho.
Uma sikhuluma ngokubhapathizwa kwengane "omdala" - ingane yesikole esesimeni esingazi kahle, ubhapathizo kufanele lwenziwa kuphela ngokuvuma kwakhe, kanye nangemvume yabazali bakhe.
Usuku lokubhapathizwa
Kulolu suku olubalulekile, umpristi uqhuba umkhosi wokuhlanzwa komuntu ezonweni zakhe zezwe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umhlangano wokubhapathizwa esontweni, omdala nabancane, ubonisa ukuphika kukaSathane kubo bonke abakhona, kanye nokwamukelwa kwabo unkulunkulu oyedwa.
Emva kwalokho, umpristi ubeka amanzi ngekhandlela elikhethekile - i-Easter (ikhandlela lika-Easter), ethandaza imithandazo ekhethekile. Inhloko yalowo obhapathiziwe ibhapathizwa emanzini (noma ahlanjwe ngalo) kathathu, futhi umpristi ngalesi sikhathi ukhuluma amazwi obhapathizo egameni likaNkulunkulu nomoya ongcwele.
Futhi ekugcineni, izingubo ezimhlophe zifakwa kumuntu obhapathiziwe, okufanekisela ukuhlanzeka kukaNkulunkulu, unikeze ikhandlela elikhanyisiwe ezandleni. Umpristi udweba esiphambanweni ebhapathizweni ngamafutha, okusho ukuthi manje, ubhapathizwe ngempela. Lesi siphambano sibonisa umzabalazo noDeveli nomoya omubi.
Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi emva kokubhapathizwa, noma yisiphi isono sibonakala sineqine kunokuba sangaphambili, ngoba umuntu omdala ohambe ngokuzikhethela esontweni ukuba abhapathizwe kumele aqaphele ukuthi indlela yokuphila
Ingabe sidinga izingane zobulili?
Mhlawumbe into yokugcina engenza kube nzima ukucabanga ukuthi umkhosi wobhapathizo uyahamba kanjani isidingo sabankulunkulukazi. Ngokusho kwamasiko esonto ezinganeni ezingaphansi kweminyaka engama-12 ubudala, ukuba khona kwabankulunkulukazi kuyadingeka, ngoba bona ngokwabo abakwazi ukusho ukuthi bangokholo, kungokwabo futhi baphathiswe onkulunkulukazi.
Kodwa kumuntu omdala, lokhu akuyona into engadingekile, akulungile. Njengoba sesivele sibhaliwe, abantu abadala balungiselela ukubhapathizwa, bafunde indlela yokuphila elungile. Ngakho-ke bayakwazi ukuma phambi kobuso bukaNkulunkulu ngokuzimela.