Umama wesibhedlela nokubeletha

Njengoba isikhathi sokuzalwa kwengane siseduze, inkinga yokubhalisa kanye nokukhokhwa komthetho wokubeletha iba yiphuthumayo kakhudlwana kumama ozayo. Ishidi lokukhubazeka kulokhu likhishwa ngesimo esenzelwe noma yisiphi isifo. Noma kunjalo, kufanele kuqashelwe ezinye izici zokukhishwa kwayo:

Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi inani lezinsuku lingasakazwa owesifazane ngezindlela ezahlukene. Isibonelo, kaningi oomama abazayo bathatha izinsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokubeletha kanye nesikhathi esilandelayo.

Ngezinye izikhathi, ekuqaleni, abesifazane bayenqaba ukukhipha isitifiketi saloluhlobo, okwenza isinqumo sokusebenza kuze kube usuku olubaluleke kunazo zonke, kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi bashintshe isinqumo sabo lapho sekuphelelwe yisikhathi. Kulesi simo, kumele kukhishwe le dokhumenti, ngokucaciswa okuwukuthi isikhathi sokuhamba ngeke sibale kusukela ngosuku lokuhambisa, kodwa futhi kusukela emavikini angu-30 noma angu-28 "esimweni sabo esithakazelisayo". Uma umama olindelayo elindele umntwana wesibili, ehlala esinqumweni sokunakekela ingane yokuqala, unelungelo lokubhala uhlelo lokukhulelwa nokubeletha ukuze uthole uhlu olugulayo ku-oda jikelele.

Ukwenza ukukhulelwa nokusizwa kokubeletha

Ukuze ufake isicelo sekhefu lokubeletha , kumele ugcwalise ishidi lomsebenzi ongavumelekile ngendlela efanele:

Isihlomelo sokukhulelwa nokubeletha

Ukumisa ngokomthetho ukungabikho emsebenzini futhi kamuva uthole isinxephezelo, kufanele unikeze ishidi lokukhubazeka kumqashi. Kunconywa, nakuba kungenjalo, ukuthi ubhale isitatimende ngokucacile izinsuku ezimele zihambisane nezinsuku ezivela kushidi lokukhubazeka.

Isamba semali isinxephezelo sibalwa ngesisekelo semininingwane ngemali ejwayelekile yomama eminyakeni emibili edlule eyasebenza ngayo. Isibonelelo silinganisiwe nemali ephelele ejwayelekile. Kulesi simo, kuphela izinsuku zokusebenza ezicatshangelwayo, futhi kuphela lezo zikhokhwa ezingakwazi ukuzuza njengenzuzo. Izikhathi zokukhubazeka okwesikhashana emsebenzini, kanye nezinkathi zokuxoshwa emsebenzini okwakungekho ukufakwa kwezimali zomshuwalense, azicatshangelwa. Uma, emva kwesimiso sokuqala, isinqumo sesibili senziwa ngokushesha, ukubalwa kwenziwa ngesisekelo sedatha kusukela eminyakeni emibili ukuya emithathu eyedlule, ngoba ayikho idatha entsha yenkathi yokukhokha, ngoba lona wesifazane akazange asebenze.