Mhlawumbe akusekho ukuphikisana futhi kugcwele izinkolelo nezinkolelo zokunakekelwa kwengane kunokuncelisa ibele. Ikakhulu ingxabano futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nokuphikisana, umbuzo wesikhathi saso, okungukuthi, ukuhambisana ngemva konyaka ngisho nambili. Lesi simo sithuthuka eminyakeni yamuva, lapho omama abasha bevinjelwe ukufinyelela kolwazi futhi banethuba lokufuna usizo nokusekelwa kwabacebisi abaqeqeshwe ngokukhethekile. Kodwa kubonakala sengathi abaphikisi bokudla okwesikhathi eside bangaphansi kwabasekeli, nakuba izimpikiswano zabo zingabonakali futhi zinezinkondlo eziningi.
Ayikho iphuzu elilodwa nelomgomo kulokhu, kepha kule ngqikithi sizoxoxa ngezinzuzo eziyinhloko nokungalungi kokuncelisa kuze kube seminyaka engu-3, okuyisisekelo esinezinkolelo ezingalungile. Kodwa-ke, kufanele zicatshangelwe ukuze zakha imibono yazo futhi zakha indlela yokuziphatha enhle.
Ukubeletha kuze kube yiminyaka emithathu
- ekupheleni konyaka wokuqala wokuphila kwengane, ubisi buba "engenamsebenzi", okusho ukuthi inqubo yokondla ilahlekelwa isidingo sayo futhi "ihlupha". Kodwa-ke, ukubaluleka kokubisi lwebele ngemuva kwezinyanga ezingu-12 zokudla akukafundiwe ngokwanele, ngakho-ke akekho udokotela ongaqinisekisa noma ophikisa lo mbono ngokuqinisekisayo;
- Ukuncelisa ibele isikhathi eside kungathinta ukuluma - nakho akuqinisekisiwe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, i-pacifier-dummy, okuvame ukuba yindingo yengane eyayisususisiwe, ithinta kakhulu ukuluma;
- ingane izokwehla ngemuva kokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo nangokwengqondo - ukungaqondakali okuvamile, ngokusobala kuhlobene nokuthi ukuncelisa ibele kuyinhlangano yobudala bezingane kuphela, ngakho-ke zonke izinsana ezidla amabele "azihambanga kude" kule nkinga;
- ingane izohlakulela ukuziphatha ngokobulili okungalungile - ikakhulukazi kubafana. Le mbono yabangabonanga-izazi-psychologists ezenza iziphetho zokuhlambalaza, ukufihla ngemuva kwenkulumo ethi "zonke izinkinga kusukela ebuntwaneni," ayimelani nanoma yikuphi ukugxekwa;
- Ngakho-ke ingane ifunda ukuxhaphaza unina futhi ingalawuleki. Imvelo kanye nemikhuba yokuziphatha yengane incike kakhulu emfundweni, futhi ukuncelisa kuyisimo esisodwa nje sokuthandana ngokomzwelo. Ukwesaba "okweqile" ukuletha ingane yakho eduze kwakho, mhlawumbe, isuka ekungokoqobo kweSoviet, lapho omama bengenalo ithuba lokuhlala kulo myalelo isikhathi eside futhi kunesidingo sokungena enkonzweni ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka. Inkathi iye yaqala ukungaboni, futhi izinkolelo zokukhuliswa kwezingane zisaphila;
- "Ukukhathala" komzimba womama mhlawumbe kungukuphela kwesizathu esinikeziwe sokuncelisa isikhathi eside. Ukukhiqizwa kwemanzi kudinga umzamo omkhulu nokucindezeleka kwazo zonke izinsiza, ngakho-ke, ngokungondleki ngokwanele, impilo ejwayelekile kanye nokubonakala kungase kuhlupheke - ukungabi namavithamini kuyothinta kakhulu isimo sesikhumba, izinwele , njll.
Izinzuzo zokuncelisa kuze kube seminyaka engu-3
- Ubisi lwebele luqukethe izinto eziningi eziwusizo, kanye nama-immunoglobulins omzimba womama, okuyinto enethonya elihle empilweni yezingane. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu kubantwana abanezifo ezibelethwe kanye nokuthambekela ekuphenduleni kwemizwa;
- ukwaneliseka kwe-reflex esondla, esebenza ezinganeni cishe iminyaka engama-4. Ngakho-ke, kungenzeka ukukhipha ukunweba kweminwe, ama-pacifiers kanye nezinye "ezimele" ezingalungile;
- Ukuncelisa ibele isikhathi eside kunomthelela ekuqiniseni ubudlelwane - ukuxhumana ngokomzwelo phakathi komama nengane kanye nokubonakaliswa kothando;
- kulula - emva kokuba ubisi bonyaka awusenaso umsoco, ngomqondo wokuthi awusenalutho lokudla kwengane, kepha lokhu kuyindlela enkulu yokuphuza "ukudla okuyinhloko. Ngaphezu kwalokho, isifuba isisombululo "esiduduzayo" somhlaba wonke - umntwana esifubeni uyama ukukhala, futhi alele;
- Ukuncelisa isikhathi eside ukuvikela kahle izifo "zezinsikazi" ikakhulukazi - umdlavuza webele.