Kanjani kuphrofayela ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi ukuze ubone umuntu ozokwenza ukuphila kwakho kube nzima

Ukuze ungabonakali impilo yakho engozini noma ungazisoli isikhathi esichithwe ngosuku owenziwe ngokungahlosile, kwanele ukutadisha ngokucophelela i-akhawunti yomuntu oyithandayo enkundleni yokuxhumana.

Ukuqhutshwa njalo kwezifundo zengqondo kugcizelela ukuthi imibhangqwana yanamuhla ijwayele ukujwayela i-intanethi kune-cafe, ihhovisi noma i-nightclub. Baphinde baqaphele ukuthi le ndlela yokuxhumana nabalingani abangase bayakwazi ukukhetha ukukhetha amadoda angenakuqiniseka futhi angathembeki ngokomzwelo - abalahlekile abangapheli, abakhethiweyo, ama-gigolos, ngisho nama-maniacs.

1. Izithombe ngesifuba esingenalutho

Uma isithombe sikhethwa njenge "avatar", esingavela kalula ekhasini lomagazini we-erotic kubantu besifazane, umnikazi wekhasi ungumlandisi wezincwadi ongafuni ngisho nokufihla ukuthi uthando oluyinhloko empilweni yakhe ngokwakhe. Udinga ukunqoba okusha kothando ukuze azibonakalise ukuthi akaphiki. Ngemuva kokuchitha ubusuku obubambalwa nentombazane, uyomshiya ngaphandle kokuzisola ngenxa yethando elisha, engakhathaleli ngempela okuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe. "Ingabe uthanda ama-adventures?" - yilokho abathandana "ubunqunu" ngokuvamile baqala ukuphola.

2. E-whirlpool enokuthula ...

Ukuzijwayeza ngaso sonke isikhathi kuqala okungaphezu kokuhle - kuzoba khona izingqikithi nezithakazelo ezivamile, ongakhuluma naye ngokoqobo ngamahora. Ngemuva kwesonto noma amabili emva kwenkhulumomphendvulwano yokuqala, i-interlocutor iqala ngokuzumayo ukuziphatha ngendlela engafanelekiyo: ukuphonsa imilayezo noma ukungazinaki ngokuphelele lezincwadi izinsuku. Lona ngumgomo wabasebenzi bokuphatha: uma bebophe i-interlocutor ekukhulumisaneni kwabo ngokwanele, baqala ukukhombisa imvelo yabo ngenkazimulo egcwele.

3. Inhlakanipho engaziwa

Unomsebenzi wokudala noma wokuzilibazisa: ukubhala izincwadi, ukufanekisa, ukudweba noma ukudlala esiteji. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ukuzilibazisa kwakhe akuletheli imali engenayo noma akunakwanele ukuba uphile. Phakathi kwezintombi zakhe zangaphambili abantu abathokozi kakhulu futhi abanomqondo ojulile abangakwazi ukuqonda ukugcwele kwethalenta lakhe. Kulabo abathandekayo abasha, ubona umsakazo, owuhloniphayo, ukuthi uveza izinkondlo noma izingoma. Kodwa-ke, uma eyeka izingoma zokucula kulesoka, uyifinyelela ngokushesha kwinani lentombazane engamungulu.

4. Ivolontiya esebenzayo

Uhlanganyela kuyo yonke imibuthano, imibuthano, imibhikisho kanye nama-flash mobs ezenzeka edolobheni lakhe futhi zihambisana nosizo noma ukusiza abantu nezilwane. Ikhasi lakhe liqukethe izimpendulo eziqinile nezikhalazo, amavidiyo nokuthunyelwe esihlokweni esifanayo. Kodwa izisebenzi zokuzithandela zangempela azikwazi ukuphatha ngokomzimba izindawo eziningana zosizo ngesikhathi esifanayo. Ngakho-ke, omaziyo omusha udala ukukhohliswa komsebenzi noma ufuna nje ukuthi ububele bakhe buhlonishwe amantombazane ayithandayo.

5. Umqhubi wepipi noma izifundo ze "Man State"

Phakathi kwamadoda njengegciwane, imibono emibili isakazeka - ukusetshenziswa kwamasu ochwepheshe okukhohlisa abesifazane noma ukwenqaba ngokuphelele ukuhlonishwa kwabo. Emaqenjini afana ne-"Men's State", abantu abahlukumezekile babuthana, bebeka abesifazane besifazane abahlelekile ngezinga lobugqila basekhaya. Bakholelwa ukuthi abesifazane kudingeka balawulwe, ngokomzimba nangokwenyama bashukumise ukuthatha izinyathelo ezidingekayo - isibonelo, ubulili noma ukuzalwa kwengane. Izivakashi kuzo zonke izinhlobo zokuqeqesha ezithombeni ezivela kubo azilaleli ngemuva: zidlulisela imishwana ekhonjiwe futhi zilwela ukubeka intombazane embhedeni ngosuku lokuqala.

6. Ama-muscular noma ama-fitness guru

Lapho isifiso sokwenza impilo enempilo siphenduka sibe yi-mania, indoda ibeka ubuhlobo obuhle kunazo zonke nentombazane, amakilasi aphansi esihlalweni sokugwedla kanye nama-protein cocktails. Unesithakazelo esikhulu kunani lamakhalori esaladini noma indlela entsha yokwakha isisindo semisipha kunenkinga yengxenye yesibili. Abantu abanjalo balindele umlingani ukuba amukele isimiso sakhe somsebenzi nsuku zonke nokuphila, okungeke kube khona kuwo wonke ubulili obuhle.

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Ukuzivocavoca, okuyiqiniso, kufanele kubangele ukuhlonipha, kodwa konke kulungile ekulinganiseni. Uma inani lamathambo, ukubhoboza, izingubo eziqhakazile noma izinto zokuzilibazisa ezingavamile kudlula imikhawulo enengqondo, abanye baqala ukuzwa kahle lapho bebhekana ne-poseur enjalo. Izazi zengqondo ziqinisekile ukuthi abantu abesaba ukubonakala behlekisa kakhulu noma befuna ngempela ukushaqeka umphakathi.

8. Izinkinga eziqhubekayo zezimali

Indoda yalolu hlobo ayikwazi ukuhlangabezana nayo yonke intombazane, njengoba ziyazi ukuthi zihlanganyela ekufuneni uhlobo oluthile lwesisulu. Kuyinto izisulu, ngoba ikhasi lomngane omusha uyokhamuluka ngobunzima bezezimali. Izicelo zokubeka imali efonini, usizo ekudalweni kwebhizinisi labo noma ukuthuthukiswa kwebhizinisi okuthiwa yi-win-win lihamba ngqo ebusweni ngenkathi ifunda i-akhawunti yakhe? Ngakho, wabona owesifazane okhokhela kahle phambi kwakhe, owayengakwazi ukulungisa isimo sakhe sezezimali.

9. Ama-Rallies of night clubs kanye nemikhosi

I-90% yezithombe kuphrofayli yakhe yimbiko evela kumaqembu avaliwe, uCaachella noBurning Man. Ukulungele ukuya komunye umkhawulo wezwe ngeqembu elifashisayo le-DJ yakhe ayithandayo - futhi akuyona into embi kunazo zonke. Indlela yokuphila yabakwa-clubbers ihlukumezeka kakhulu: bayangena ebuhlotsheni bobulili, bahlanganyele nezidakamizwa futhi bengazi ukuthi bangavukaphi kusasa. Uhlobo lomuntu ongenandaba nalutho luhle uma ufuna ubudlelwane bokukhanya ubusuku obubodwa, kodwa akukho nhlobo ekulindeni ukuzinza kuye.

10. I-Office Romantic

Enenethiwekhi, kwenzeka kuphela ngesikhathi sokusebenza futhi angaphenduli imilayezo ekuseni noma ebusuku. Azikho izithombe ku-akhawunti yakhe, noma zenziwe ngendlela yokuthi zingabonakali kumuntu. Uma uzama ukuthola umxhumanisi, kuzokwazi ukuthola ukuthi usebenza kangcono ukuthi usebenza njengomphathi, umbhanki, umshwalense - futhi akusekho. Amadoda anjalo avame ukushada, futhi amanethiwekhi omphakathi asebenzisa ukudlala ngothando noma ukuphola ngocansi, ukubhala phansi namantombazane ngokusebenzisa iphrofayli engalungile kunoma yiziphi izindawo ezithandwayo.