Umbono onjengokuthi "imfashini yezingane" yavela maduzane. Eminyakeni engu-200 edlule, izingubo ezifashini zezingane kwakuyikhophi ephelele yokugqoka, futhi kuphela abantu abanemali ephezulu abangakwazi ukuthenga izinto ezinjalo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umqondo wefashini kwakusho ukunamathela emithethweni eqinile, izingubo kwakuyisibonakaliso sezenhlalo zomphakathi, futhi akuyona indlela yokubonisa umuntu ngamunye. Isambatho sokwemfashini yamantombazane nabafana sinezici ezithile zezimpahla zokugqoka ezahlukahlukene ngokuya ngemikhuba yemifashini, ngaphandle kokuhlukahluka okuhlukahlukene. Kodwa kakade engxenyeni yesibili yekhulu lama-20, kanye nezinguquko ezinkulu ezenzeka empilweni yezombangazwe, ezenhlalakahle kanye namasiko, imibono eminingi kanye nokungafani okuphathelene nemfashini kuyashintsha. Kuvela izingubo ezifashisayo ezinganeni, okuyizinto ezihlukahlukene zezitayela nezitayela. Futhi ngenxa yokuthuthukiswa kwemboni, abazali abaningi abanemiholo ehlukene bangakwazi ukuthenga izingubo ezimfashini nezicathulo ezifanele izingane zabo kanye nentsha ezithandayo izingane zabo. Izitayela zezinwele zezingane ezihlukile zezinwele zekhulu lokugcina ezinhlobonhlobo zezimo nezitayela. Kodwa nanamuhla, abazali abaningi babhekana nobunzima ekutholeni izingubo eziphathekayo zezingane.
Izingane ezihamba phambili kakhulu
Kwenzeke ukuthi imfashini yezingubo zezingane iqondisa izingane ezifake imfashini - abantwana bezintombi. Abazali abaningi bazama ukwenza izingane zabo zifake imfashini, zigqoke njengezingane ezinenkanyezi ezigqoke, kodwa lokhu kungenza kube nokwakheka kokucabanga. Ngakho ungayifundisa kanjani ingane ngendlela enhle nangokwemfashini ukugqoka, ungalingisi izishayamthetho zetfashini, kodwa usebenzisa kahle izeluleko nezincomo? Kusukela esemncane, izingane sezivele zikwazi ukubonisa okuthandayo ekukhetheni umbala wezingubo zokugqoka, futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, nesitayela. Sekuvele uneminyaka engama-1 baqala ukuqoqa ulwazi. Ngalesi sikhathi futhi kunconywa ukuba uqale ukuthuthukisa ukunambitheka kanye nesimo sesitayela. Okokuqala, izingane zithatha isibonelo kunina, ngakho omama kumele babheke izingubo zabo, kokubili ekhaya nasemgwaqweni. Futhi uma izingane zizama ukuzikhethela izingubo zazo, ungagodli izifiso zabo. Okokuqala, unganikeza ingane ithuba lokukhetha izinto eziningana ezihlanganisiwe. Lapho umntwana ekhethile, ungagxila ekuhlanganiseni okuphumelelayo kwemininingwana noma imininingwane yokugqoka. Into esemqoka akusiyo ukusebenzisa ingcindezi, kodwa ukufunda ukulungisa ngokucophelela ukukhetha kwengane ngaphandle kokungabaza ilungelo lakhe kumbono wakhe.
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Izambatho eziphathekayo zamantombazane
Izinkinga eziningi ziphakama lapho ukhetha izingubo ezimfashini zamantombazane. Amantombazane angcono kakhulu ngokubukeka kwawo, futhi uma kufanele agqoke izingubo ezibangelwa ukukhathazeka ngokomzwelo, lokhu kungaba nomthelela omubi kakhulu esimweni sabo sengqondo.
Izambatho zemifashini yamantombazane asebasha kuyindlela yokuvikela nokusekelwa ebuhlotsheni nabangane. Ngakho-ke, uma le ntombazane inenkinga yangaphakathi ehlobene nokuxhumana, izozama ukuyixazulula ngenxa yokubukeka kwayo. Kukhona umehluko omkhulu phakathi kwentombazane ekhetha izingubo ngokusekelwe ekuthandweni kwakhe siqu nentombazane esebenzisa izingubo zokufakazela okuthile noma ukuzimisela emphakathini. Ngisho noma kuzo zombili izimo izingubo ziyabiza futhi zihlelekile, zizobonakala zihlukile. Umsebenzi wabazali ukufundisa indodakazi yabo ukukhetha izingubo ezifanele umlingisi wakhe kanye nezwe langaphakathi. Futhi ngenxa yalokhu, okokuqala, kuyadingeka ukukhuthaza ukuthuthukiswa kobuntu nobuntu bomntwana. Uma ukhetha izingubo ezimfashini zamantombazane, ungakhohlwa ngeminye imininingwane ebalulekile:
- izingubo zokuhamba kufanele zikhululeke, ezifanele iminyaka kanye nesitayela sokuziphatha kwentombazane emphakathini.
- ukuzuza umfaniswano wesikole esikhwameni samantombazane, khumbula ukuthi kufanele kufane nesitayela sebhizinisi.
- lapho ukuthenga ama-outerwear kufanele kuqondiswe hhayi nje ngemikhuba yemifashini, kodwa futhi namathuba omuntu siqu. Isibonelo, uma uthenga ingubo enhle yentombazane, khumbula ukuthi inkathi ezayo cishe ngeke ibe efanele, futhi kuzodingeka uthenge entsha.
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Ngokuqondene nezindlovu zezimfashini nezinwele zezintombi amantombazane asebasha, khona-ke kuyadingeka ukuba uqondiswe hhayi nje ngemikhuba ethandwayo. Ukukhanda izinwele kufanele kuhambisane nesitayela esivamile, efanelekayo kokubili imisebenzi yokufunda nokuphuma esikoleni. Okokuqala, ukukhetha ikhanda lezintambo lentombazane, kuyadingeka ukuthi ucabange indlela ukhululekile ngayo ingane enezinwele ezikhethiwe. Ukuzama ukukhanda izinwele kungcono kakhulu phakathi kwamaholide, ukuze intombazane inesikhathi sokujwayela i-hairstyle entsha futhi ayizizwa kabi, ikuthola emvelweni wabangane bakhe.
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Izambatho eziphathekayo zabafana
Ukuthuthukisa umqondo wokunambitheka akusizo kuphela amantombazane, kodwa kubafana. Ngokuvamile abazali abafaki ukubaluleka kule nkinga, ngoba abafana babonisa ukunganaki ekubukeni kwabo. Eqinisweni, lidlala indima ebalulekile kokubili nasebancane. Uma lo mfana enganelisekanga ngokubonakala kwakhe, ngalesosikhathi ezingeni elingaqondakali, isakhiwo esingaphansi komzimba singathuthuka. Ukuthenga izingubo ezimfashini zabafana, udinga ukucabangela uhlobo lomntwana, futhi ukhethe izinto ezifanele isitayela sokuziphatha kwakhe. Okufanayo kusebenza ekukhethweni kwekhanda lezimfashini kanye nezinwele zokukhwabanisa zabafana.
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Lapho ukhetha izingubo, akufanele neze ugxile kuphela kumathrendi emfashini. Ukubukeka kubonakalisa umhlaba wangaphakathi, futhi okokuqala kubalulekile ukufeza ukuvumelana kwangaphakathi, okwakuthi ngeke kuthinte izembatho kuphela, kodwa futhi izinga lokuphila kwengane.