Into yokuqala efika engqondweni kumuntu osolwa ngokuba nokuzilimaza ngokwakhe ngumbuzo: "Kungani nginakho?". Futhi lo mbuzo udunyiswa, ngoba empeleni, ukuze ngigweme ukuphindaphinda kwalesi simo, kubalulekile ukuguqula okuthile empilweni yami, kodwa, maye, abantu bacabangela lo mbuzo ngokweqile, njengokungathi ithuba lokuzisola futhi.
Ngikholelwa, izimpawu zeso elibi nokuzikhukhumeza zivela kumuntu ngesizathu. Amandla kumele avele kokuthile, futhi, ngokuvamile, amandla angalungile omuntu wesithathu avela kuphela lapho thina ngokwethu sithumele lo muntu izifiso zethu ezinhle kakhulu. Imifudlana, amanga, ukuhlukumezeka kwethu, sashintsha isiteleka sokuziphindisela ngokumelene ne-aura yethu.
Indlela yokuqaphela ukukhunjulwa?
Ngakho-ke, uma usuvele usola okuthile, ungahambi ngokushesha kubatshakathi, zama ukuthola ukuthi kukhona yini izimpawu zeso elimbi noma uzilahlekele. Maye, abenzi bemimoya nabo bangathembeki, futhi kunenzuzo kakhulu ukuba bathole ukulahlekelwa kwakho, hhayi ukukhipha ukwesaba kwakho. Kufana nemithi: hamba, uvivinye, futhi siyothola lesi sifo!
Okokuqala, izimpawu zokuqothulwa komuntu ziqala (kungakhathaliseki ukuthi zithinta kanjani izinkinga zezempilo). Kungaba ukugula okuncane, okubandayo emakhazeni, kungase kube khona ukungezwani okungaqondakali, noma mhlawumbe okungathí sina kakhulu - isifo esibi sesifo, lapho odokotela bengasebenzi nakancane, bathole entsha.
Futhi isibonakaliso sesimpawu sokuqothulwa kanye nesiso elibi ukuthi "ukuchithwa" akufuni ukuya kudokotela, naphezu kwempilo embi. Kukhona ukucasuka, ukwesaba, ukwesaba, usizi, ukucindezeleka . Umuntu onjalo ngokwemvelo akafuni ukubona ukucabangela kwakhe esibukweni, uyesaba futhi adlule izindawo ezigcwele.
Endlini yezinambuzane "eziphangiwe" (izintuthwane, izinhlanzi) zitshalwe, kodwa omakhelwane babo abazitshali.
Iso elibi endlini
Mhlawumbe, umonakalo awuqondanga kuwe, kodwa endlini yakho. Lokhu kwenzeka ngemuva kokumema abantu abanomona ukuthi bavakashele, futhi bona, bebona ingcebo yakho, induduzo, inhlalakahle,
Khona-ke ukuzwa ukwesaba, ukungabi nenduduzo kuvela kuwo wonke amalungu omndeni. Ngaphansi kokuxabana kwakho nokuhlambalaza kuqale ukupheka, ukuqonda komuntu kuyanyamalala. Isibonakaliso sesimpawu sokulimala okubangelwe ukuziphatha ukuziphatha kwezilwane ezifuywayo: amakati afuna ukushiya "indlu", futhi izinja zikhahlela ngaphandle kwesizathu.
Kukhona njalo ukucabangela okucatshangelwayo ukuthi umuntu uyangqongqoza emnyango noma ukubiza, nakuba kungekho muntu lapho.
Uma amanzi angcwele agcinwa endlini enjalo, ingahle iphele. Futhi ezindongeni zingase zivele imidwebo ehlukile.