Iziqephu ngoKhisimusi ngomshado

Abantu abaningi baphupha ukuthola umlingani womphefumulo wabo ngokushesha futhi bangashada. Ukuze isifiso sifinyeleleke, kungenzeka ukusebenzisa izindlela ezehlukene, isibonelo, ukusebenzisa izinyathelo ezikhethekile zomshado, ongayisebenzisa ngoKhisimusi . Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi imikhuba yemilingo ingasiza ekufezeni iphupho, udinga nje ukwazi ukuthi ukwenza kahle kanjani umkhosi.

Iziqephu nemikhosi yomshado ngosuku lukaKhisimusi

Yonke imikhuba enjalo ingahlukaniswa ngezigaba ezintathu eziyinhloko:

1. Yenzelwe abantu abangashadile abangazange bahlangabezane ne "pair" yabo.
2. Ukubiza ukuthi kusize ukufeza isipho somshado esivela kumuntu othize.
3. Amakhasimende ukuqinisa uthando kulabo bantu asebevele emshadweni osemthethweni.

Ngakho-ke, uma ungayitholanga umphefumulo wakho womlingani, khona-ke isandulela esilandelayo sothando nomshado, okwenzelwe uKhisimusi, singakusiza. Ekuseni ngalolu suku, vuka ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka futhi uye echibini eliseduze, emfuleni noma emzimbeni wamanzi ngamanzi ahlanzekile. Entwasahlobo, umfula noma echibini, ukuqoqa amanzi futhi ngokushesha uye ekhaya. Ukubuyela emuva, funda izikhathi ezintathu amagama alandelayo: "Gcoba ikhanda lami ngempilo, injabulo kanye nesiphetho esijabulisayo," bese ugeza ubuso kathathu ngamanzi uphefute ngesilinganiso esifanayo. Uma isakhiwo sisho, kufanele uhambe esontweni bese ubeka ikhandlela esithombeni seVirgin, bese ubonga amabutho aphezulu bese uhamba ekhaya.

Uma kwenzeka usuvele uhlangana nomlingani wakho, kodwa akuzange kube khona ukuphakanyiswa komshado okwamanje, ungenza icebo elinjalo lokushada noKhisimusi. Thola izinto ezilandelayo kusengaphambili - umshanelo kanye nesikole, ngakho-ke, kusihlwa ebusuku, lapho wonke umuntu eselele kakade, ulahle phansi bese ethi kathathu: "Ngikhangisa indlu ngokwami ​​(igama), ngakho ngishiya indlu yami ngami, ukuze afune ukungishada , ukuze impilo iphumelele futhi ijabule. Amen. " Ngemuva kwalokho, phosa udoti ebhakedeni, futhi umshanelo uphinde uzifihle futhi gcina uze uthole umusho womshado. Kuphela emva kwalesi senzakalo, izinto zingaboniswa kwabanye abantu futhi zisetshenziselwe injongo yabo ehlosiwe.

Ukuphila okushadile ukuba ujabule, ungenza kanjalo - thatha umgubuzelo owawukhona ngalolo suku lomshado, phakathi kwamabili ubusuku uwufafaza ngetheji ejwayelekile ejwayelekile etafuleni usawoti, uthi: "I-Fat ngiyidlulisela usawoti, ngiyihlanhla mina nomyeni wami. Ukuphila ngokujabula, ukuba nokuchuma, ukuthandana. Amen. " Qiniseka ukwenza umkhuba wedwa lapho uwedwa, kungenjalo, kungase kungasebenzi.