I-Privorot iyisiphakamiso esinobudlova sothando, izikhungo ezinzima kakhulu zomuntu ohlukunyeziwe. Umuntu ophethwe yi-spell kulula ukuyisebenzisa, uba yisiphakamiso futhi akwazi ukwenza izenzo ezingacatshangelwe. Ngokuvamile i-psyche ihlupheka, umlingiswa ubonisa ukuhlukumezeka, ukucasula , ukunganakwa kanye nokwesaba.
Kukhona ezinye izibonakaliso ongaqonda ukuthi umuntu ube yisisulu sesipelingi sothando. Lezi zibonakaliso zingazibonakalisa ngaphandle noma zitholwe ngokuxilongwa.
Izimfanelo zothando zisho
Izimpawu zesipelingi zihluke kakhulu, zingabonakalisa ngokuzimela, futhi konke kungenzeka ngesikhathi esisodwa.
- Ukukhangwa okuthakazelisayo kwesisulu kulolu thando kuyisignali eyinhloko, ebonakalayo. Umuntu akaqondi ukuthi yini ebangela ukukhangwa kwakhe, ekuqaleni uzama ukulwa nokukhangwa kothando, kodwa akakwazi ukumelana naye;
- ukungabi nenhloso, ukungakwazi ukwenza izinqumo ngokuzimela, ukulalela;
- ukulahlekelwa ukuzethemba. Umuntu uhlazeka futhi uyakwazi ukwenza noma yikuphi izenzo, nje ukuba angalahlekelwa into yokukhulekela kwakhe;
- ukuzwa ukuphelelwa ithemba nokucindezeleka;
- ukwesaba okukhulu kokulahlwa yinto yokukhulekela;
- ukulahlekelwa intshisekelo kuyo yonke into engaxhunyiwe nothando lwakhe, konke umuntu ayekuthanda ngaphambi kokuba kuqinisekiswe, kulahlekelwa incazelo yayo, kunomtshingo kuphela wemilingo;
- ukulala okubi, ukukhathala, impilo embi kanye nezinye izimpawu zomzimba zesipelingi;
- ukuzihawukela , ukuzwela;
- ukuvutha inzondo ngento yothando, emngceleni wokuzwa, ukungakwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle kwayo;
- uchungechunge lwezinhlupho eziphishekela isisulu: ukuxoshwa emsebenzini, izingozi zomgwaqo, njll.
Izimpawu zesipelingi sothando kubantu besifazane zifana nezibonakaliso zamadoda, kodwa zinganezelwa ekukholweni kunoma yiziphi izinto ezingezona ezenkolo nobu fetishism, ukwesaba umlilo noma amanzi nokunye ukwephulwa. Uma isipele sithinta owesifazane isikhathi eside, singabangela izinkinga ezihlukahlukene zengqondo, imizamo yokuzibulala ngisho nokufa okungazelelwe.
Ngaphezu kwazo zonke izibonakaliso ezingenhla, isisulu sesipelingi singathuthukisa utshwala. Lokhu kungenxa yokukhathazeka ngokomoya kwalowo ohlukunyeziwe, lapho umuntu engakwazi ukwamukela ukuthambekela kwakhe futhi akakwazi ukuphuma esicupheni. Kulokhu, uzama ukugubha ukudabuka kwakhe ngokuphuza utshwala.
Indlela yokwazi uma kukhona isipelingi sothando, uma izimpawu ezingenhla zivezwa kahle? Kulokhu, izindlela zokuxilonga zikhona. Enye yalezi zindlela izodinga iqanda. Isisulu esithile esingase sisebenze siphethe ezandleni zakhe, sishisa ngomfudumalo futhi sidlulisele ulwazi oludingekayo. Ngemuva kwalokho, iqanda liphukile futhi lichithelwa emgodini wamanzi. Uma i-yolk ixubene namaprotheni, kunezinhlayiya noma imivimbo, ama-clots kanye ne-mucus, kungenzeka ukuthi umuntu unikezwe umphumela wemilingo. Ungabuye uqaphele lezi zibonakaliso zesipelingi sothando njengokungahambisani nemfanelo yezenkolo: iziphambano, imifanekiso, imithandazo. Kubo bonke
Ngokuphathelene nokwephulwa kohlobo lwesisulu, ubudlelwane bakhe nezihlobo nabangane behla. Izihlobo ziyeke ukumqonda, futhi akadingi ukuqonda kwabo, ngoba unesithakazelo kuphela ekufuneni kwakhe okungamanga. Kubalulekile ukuthi izihlobo zingaphuli bonke ubudlelwane, kodwa ngokuphambene zama ukukhulula umuntu ekuthandweni kokuthunjwa. Abomdabu ngokwabo bangaphendukela ochwepheshe ngokuphazamisa isipelingi sothando esithombeni noma zama ukuphilisa umuntu ngokwabo ngemithandazo. Kubalulekile ukunaka ukuthi isipelingi sisebenza kangakanani, uma izimpawu zivele kungekudala, khona-ke ungazama ukuziqeda wena, futhi uma umuntu ekhona kuleli zwe iminyaka eminingana, usizo lwezobuchwepheshe luyimfuneko.