Imikhosi yanamuhla yokwenza umdlalo ngokuyinhloko ihluke kakhulu kumasiko asendulo futhi namuhla, okokuqala, isaziso esithile sezihlobo zomakoti mayelana nezinhloso zabantu abasha. Amasiko amaningi esidlule alahlekile, kodwa, ngokujwayelekile, kusekhona amasiko amnandi wokumaketha.
Umkhosi womshado kanjani?
Esikhathini sethu, lesi sigaba sokulungiselela umshado ngokuvamile siphuthelwa, futhi sibheka ukumemezela abazali ngokuzimisela zabo. Naphezu kwalokhu, kungenzeka ukukhomba amasiko athile aqhubekayo ukuwagcina.
Imikhuba yokufanisa nomkhwenyana:
- Noma yiluphi ilungu lomndeni lingaba ngumdlalo wokudlala, kodwa kuphela oshadile.
- Umkhwenyana kufanele alungiselele izimbali ezimbili ezihloselwe umakoti nomama wakhe. Kungcono ukwazi izimpawu zezitshalo ezikhethiwe.
- Abathengi kufanele babe ngabokuqala ukukhuluma nabazali bomakoti futhi kuzo zonke izindlela zokubamba izandla zabo.
Kungenzeka ukuqhuba umdlalo esimweni esithile, okuzokwenza inqubo ibe mnandi futhi ijabulise.
Imikhuba yokumaketha ngumlobokazi:
- Kufanele ulungise umkhombandlela ongokomfanekiso, isibonelo, kungaba ihembe noma ithawula elenziwe ngezandla zomuntu siqu.
- Imfanelo ebalulekile yi-ithanga, eyanikezwa abadlali bokudlala uma abazali bentombazane bengathandi umkhwenyana.
- Umakoti wesikhathi esizayo kumele agqoke ngokuhambisana nesimo sakhe, kodwa hhayi ngokucasula. Kunconywa ukugqoka ezinye izifiso .
- Ngemuva kokuba abadlali bemidlalo befika, inkhulumomphendvulwano iyenzeka, lapho izihlobo ezizayo zithola yonke imibuzo enentshisekelo. Ngandlela-thile, abasanda kushada bavame ukuthula ubusuku bonke.
Abathengisi bangahlola umfazi wesikhathi esizayo bese bemcela ukuba enze okuthile, isibonelo, ulahle phansi noma upheke ukudla okunye. Uma abazali bomakoti bephela bevuma umkhwenyana, kufanele babeke isidlo esikhulu etafuleni, isibonelo, ikhekhe.