Uma othile ebeke impango ebuhlotsheni bakho, ngokuqinisekile uyozizwa. Uzoba nomcabango wokuphanga, ukuthi akuwona konke "okuhlanzekile" lapha. Kodwa njengoba ukususwa kungathinta umbono wakho womngane wakho, ngeke ushukuthele ngenxa yemibono mayelana nokuhlukaniswa kwesikhathi esizayo, kusukela manje, konke okuxhunywe nakho kunesiqalo "cha."
Inkohlakalo nokuphila komphakathi
Imiphumela yokwehliswa ebuhlotsheni iyanwetshwa kuzo zonke izigaba zokuphila. Ukubukeka kwakho kushintshela umbono womuntu wonke. Uzolahlekelwa ukuzethemba emsebenzini, ubudlelwane bakho nabalingani bakho buyobe bubi kakhulu, nawe uzoba nempikiswano kanye namahlazo, ngisho nabantu abangajwayelekile.
Iqiniso liwukuthi umonakalo wokwehlukana kobudlelwane ngokuphelele kushintsha ukubukeka kwakho emehlweni abanye abantu, kanye nokubonakala komlingani wakho emehlweni akho. Nina bobabili ningabe ningaphandle, kodwa ningenelisekile ngamandla. Ngakho-ke, qiniseka ukuthi manje usuqedile ngalawa "ubudlelwano" obususwe futhi uzothola omunye umuntu akufanele. Ngoba uzohudula phezu kwesiqalekiso sesiqalekiso.
Izimpawu
Isibonakaliso sokuqala sokususwa ebuhlotsheni ukungezwani okungazelelwe, okungekho ukulungiswa okunengqondo. Kodwa-ke, wena nomlingani wakho engqondweni yakho ngaso sonke isikhathi uthole isizathu, hhayi kuphela okucabangelayo, kodwa ukukhohlisa.
Phakathi kwakho, uxhumano lwamandla lulahlekile. Uba usondelene, ungathandeki, wesabe futhi ungakhathazeki. Ngaphansi kwanoma yikuphi ukucabangela uzoshiya indlu, ulale futhi udle ngokwehlukana.
Ngomqondo uzofaka isici "hhayi" kumlingani wakho. Awufuni ukuba nezingane ezivamile,
Inkohlakalo ekuhlukaneni kobudlelwane akusiyo kuphela ekusebenzelaneni kwengqondo, kodwa nakumzimba wezibopho zakho. Uzolahlekelwa ukukhangwa ngokocansi komunye nomunye. Indoda ingaba namandla (kungakhathaliseki ubudala), futhi owesifazane uzohlupheka ngenxa yesisu esiswini esingaphansi.
Wena, njenganoma yiziphi ezinye izinhlobo zomonakalo, uzohlushwa yizibusuku . Nguyena kuphela "oyinhloko" yamaphupho akho oyakuba ngumngane wakho omusha othandekayo. Uyokuhlupha, ukuxosha, ukubulala ubusuku bonke.