Uthando lubi futhi, ngeshwa, izingqondo ze-psychopath zisebenzisa. Kubalulekile ukucacisa ngesikhathi sokuthi kukhona okungalungile kumuntu, futhi ubaleke ebuhlotsheni obunjalo "obugulayo".
Cabanga nje, emhlabeni jikelele abantu abangaba ngu-4% banesifo sengqondo, lokhu kusho ukuthi umuntu oyedwa kubantu abangu-25 uyingozi kakhulu emphakathini. Izici zesici se-psycho zihlanganisa uthando olwenyuka ngokwakho, amanga obuhlungu, ukungabi nonya nozwela. Uke waphawula izimpawu ezifanayo esoka lakho? Ngikholelwa, lokhu akulungile.
1. Ubuhlobo obuhle, njengenganekwane.
Uzakwethu uzungeze ngothando, ubonisa ukuthambekela, ugcwalisa zonke izinkomba, ngokujwayelekile, kukhona umuzwa wokuthi lapha uyisikhulu esilinde isikhathi eside, futhi impilo iye yaba yindaba yezinganekwane. Ngokudabukisayo, amaqhinga akhe athola ukunqoba, ngoba kunzima kakhulu ukumelana nokuncoma, ukunakekelwa nokuzwela. Uma kungesona isikhathi eside, futhi esivele ekhuluma ngothando olunamandla, cabanga ngakho, ngoba kubonakala sengathi lusizo.
2. Misa, ume, into iyashesha kakhulu.
I-Psychopath yinkimbinkimbi, futhi ayifuni ukugqoka imaski "isikhulu esihle" isikhathi eside, ngakho ukhetha umdlalo ngokusho kweso simo esisheshayo. Ukhuluma ngothando olungunaphakade, izingane, umshado futhi ubiza "ingxenye yesibili" cishe kusukela ngesikhathi sokuzijwayeza? Hamba, ngoba ukuphuthuma okunjalo kungaholela ekupheleni kokudabukisayo.
3. Uyinkanyezi enkulu kuphela.
Uma eqaphela ukuthi isisulu "sisekhoneni," ubuntu be-psychopath buzoqala ukuzibonakalisa kancane kancane. Uyakuthanda ukuba phakathi kokunakwa, ukuthi wonke umuntu uyamthanda noma okungenani uyidabukile. Ukuze enze lokhu, uzoxhuma ingqondo yakhe engapheli futhi atshele ukuthi uthathe kanjani ingane ngaphandle kwendlu evuthayo, indlela eyahlula ngayo isifo esibi nokunye. Ngesinye isikhathi lezi zindaba zizobe zingenangqondo futhi zizovela ukuthi uSuperman ulandela.
4. Angenzanga lokhu futhi angakusho lokho!
Uma psychopath ethandekayo, ngokushesha uzoba nomuzwa omusha "omngane" othembekile wokungathembeki ngisho necala. Konke lokhu - isenzo esihle kakhulu sesenzo, ngoba umfana angaphumelela kunoma yisiphi isimo, njengomlingo onamakhono. Cabanga ukuthi kaningi kangakanani inkulumo ethi "uvuka ngokwakho" izwakala? Futhi okudabukisayo kakhulu ukuthi ngemva kwesikhashana uzovuma ngalokhu.
5. Ukuphila kufana ne-roller coaster.
Kuze kube yamuva, ube nguyena oyisibonelo sengelosi, inhle kakhulu futhi iyingqayizivele, futhi namuhla akacabangi kanjalo, futhi kaningi uzwa izinkulumo ezihlazo ezihlukene. Kuyinto amahloni, akunjalo? Ngisho nokulahlekelwa okwesikhashana kwesithakazelo kuyisignali ukuthi ngeke kube ngcono, futhi ukuphela akude kakhulu.
6. Yibani nomhawu, nikhale, nikhamuluke ...
A psycho kuyinto provocateur yangempela ngubani othanda ukondla imizwelo yabanye abantu. Kubonakala sengathi udlala umdlalo, inhloso yakhe ukugubha phansi phansi kwezinyawo zakhe. Kuyadabukisa, kodwa zonke izikhathi ezibucayi kanye nenhlanhla kuzodingeka zihlangane zodwa, ngoba ububele buyisimanga kuye.
7. Inhloso yalo ukukwenza ubuhlungu kakhulu.
Umfana we-psychopathic ufuna ukuhlola ngokucophelela isilwane sakhe ukukhomba ubuthakathaka ekusebenziseni okuphumelelayo. Uthanda ukuqhuba "ukuphenywa", ukuthola yonke imininingwane, ukumaka izindaba ezibalulekile kuye. Kunoma yikuphi ukuphikisana, uhlaziya amaphuzu abuhlungu kakhulu. Isibonelo, uma uhlala emndenini ongaphelele, ngikholelwa, uzovame ukubeka ingcindezi kuyo.
8. Ubomi buphenduke phansi?
Iya esibukweni bese ubheka ukuzindla kwakho. Uyeke ukuzibona wena, uyaqonda ukuthi impilo iyawela kwalasha, futhi ungakhumbuli lapho usanda kuzwa injabulo? Lesi isibonakaliso esinzima sokuthi ubuhlobo bakho ngumgwaqo ongenawo, futhi udinga ukushintsha into ngokuphuthumayo.